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Thanks for your response to my "Relationship with an older woman" Question. How do I go about repairing things? I have taken some time away from her and we have not spoken in a few days. It just hurts being without her, and I was afraid that by talking to her during this time would make it worse, for me and her. I just want her to know that I am sincere and I don't want her to think that this is setting her up for dissapointment and pain later. Thanks Again.
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Are lines of communication still open? Like, could you call her and would she be willing to meet up with you and talk? If so, then that's the easy part. Then basically just open up and be honest. Tell her that this is the longest relationship you've been in so when she brought up the idea of wanting to have kids and settle down, it took you by surprise not because you don't want to. It's just because it's still new (C'mon, 5 months is a pretty early time to bring it up). But it's not out of the question and obviously, if you're still together in 2-3 years then you potentially will head that way.
Tell her how much you love her, how much she means to you, why you're so great for each other, and that you just want to take things one step at a time before jumping ahead so much. Again, just because being with someone this long is so new to you. The fact that you're here and trying and not leaving it all behind should show that you do have interest to give in this relationship and be in it for the long haul.
I don't see why she wouldn't take you back if she loves you just as much as sees how well you two are together.
Be real, be honest, and show your dedication. that's really all you can do and hopefully she sees you are true.
Good luck.
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So what your saying is you DO want to get back with her and have a family?
hmm. Well, think of a romantic way to get your point across. Your lucky its only been a few days ;) I personally would love if a guy did something like this!:
Write a beautiful sincere note explaining everything. How you feel about her, everything you've realized through this break up, just everything.
Do you have a key to her place? Set up a romantic dinner when she's not home, leave a note on the door though so when she walks in and sees you, well her first reaction won't be to call the police! lol Have it read something like "Your True Love Awaits For You Inside <3" or something lol
And during this whole moment, read the letter to her.
OH! Don't forget flowers!
Now, I'm totally assuming you have her key and such. Totally doesn't have to go that way if it can't. But that's just an idea. I'm sure you could work off of that, ya know what I mean?
Just key points:
Lovelyyyy letter
and flowers!
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