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hi i am a sex addict i have never acctually had sex but i do it to myself all the time is this bad i mean i am just so addicted i need help on knowing if this is bad.....please help. (link)
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Actually it is bad to pleasure yourself, it's considered adultry. And every time you do it and when you're tempted, Satan's cheering you on. And this addiction could lead to bigger things when you feel what you're doing isn't pleasuring you anymore and you want more. And that lust in your heart is bad, you need to get rid of evil desires. And do you ever feel after you get an orgasm or w.e, that your desire is gone? See your hormones are taking over, eventually you'll drown in this pleasure and like other bad addictions, years will pass fater than you'll know and you'll miss something out there that would've been great because you're high on sex. My advice to you is to stop before it's too late :[
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So well everytime I start likin a guy... They like me back but after we have sex a few times they fall in love with someone. and its never me. I fall way to hard for guys and I wish I just could stop caring. Im tired of this shit. I want sumthing real. What am I doing wrong ? Please sumone help me out. They tell me how hot I am and beautiful and that Im prefect. BUT WTF dont they stay with me?
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Because you're choosing the wrong guys, the guys that don't really care about you, the guys who just want to get you into bed, the kind of guys who don't love you... the ones who only love sex. You need to find guys who like you for what's inside, not just out. And this time don't have sex with him until after you two are married or in love, i would wait until marriage because then you know he married you because you're his ONE true love, and there'll be nobody else but you. If you want something 'real', stop falling for guys who play you.
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i dont want to just mess with him and i want to kno an easy way to give a guy a boner my best friend and i are friends with benefits and were talkin dirty and wanting to have sex with each other hes 16 im 15 im a 10thgrader hes a 11th grader... wa tshould i do to make him get so hard he wont kno wat to do? (link)
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keep talking dirty to him, compliment him. show off some skin. if he's attracted to you, he'll feel it in his pants. and try touching it..
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Me and my best friend got innto HUGE fight.. i wish we were friends agian but im sik of being the firts one to say soryy all the time so you get it? and she acts like she dont even care and stuff and we havnt ever gottin into this long of a fight our longest fight was like an hour its been 2 days and it was over somthing soooo stupid.. see what happen is i got online and she complains all the time in her pro like..im so sad or i cant trust n e one ect. you know and well i always tryed to make her happy well i got online saw her pro said i love him and i cant trust n eone and stuff well i asked who you like you can trust me i wont tell n e one and then out of no where she gets mad and starts yelling at me and durr im gonna get yelled back..it happend fast and the next thing you know shes telling me to get the fuck out of her life...((exact words..)) i mean usually when we fight i dont have to worry cuz the next day min or hour we are all good agian this one im realllly worried and dont know what to do and im sik of always be the one to say sorry first! she never says sorry to me and why should i say sorry for trying to make her happy? ahh what should i do... (link)
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sounds like you don't even know what you did wrong, you could say sorry for w.e you did. even though you don't know what you did, someone has to be the bigger friend even if you're always that person. but, maybe something you're doing or something in her life is bothering her and that's probably the reason she's pulling away and being distant. i think you should try to talk to her, if you can't get her to say whats on her mind, just give you're friendship a break, maybe you two spent so much time together and you know how that gets. just like a couple weeks or a month depending upon your friend. hopefully she'll be the one that will try to call you during that time and hopefully she will miss you, and if she's willing to be friends again, you should just go along with that. she may have never realized she did anything wrong ither, and once you two get together again, you can drop hints of what was bothering you. but make sure you two talk about what happened so you'll know for future reference so that won't happen again.
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How do you get a background for a document? Like a bunch of butterflies or whatever. I really don't know how to describe it though. But if you know or have any suggestions that'd be great :D. I DO RATE HIGH 5 star promise :) thanks. (link)
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It Does Depend Upon What Version Of Word Document You Have. Like The Other Two Said, You Can Do Ither One. But, I Thought Of Another Way, You Could Insert A Picture And Stretch It To The Size Of The Document. And, You're Going To Have To Find The Picture Of Butterflys You Wanted, Need Any Help There, I Can Find Good Backgrounds.
And, For The Doing A Watermark, You'll Have To Change The Page Layout If You Want The Background To Stretch It's Full Length.
Hope I Helped Any,
krystal 16/f
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this is only for people who use the palace.
it's a chat software.
does anyone know any really good palace's to get good avs? (link)
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aww, i miss the palace, i can't get on it anymore cuhz my new computer.. anyway when i did have it, i had the best fashion sense.. lol :S
theres avatar heaven it's on the palace links, it's okay. you could checkout different clan palaces, just ask people in clans for their palace address. you can get avs in uni trades, or in uni pageants. or you could even make/edit your own avs.. hope i helped.. it's been so long.
my name on there used to be roccs...
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me and my boyfriend have been dating 6 and a half months and i want to do something romantic for him for no reason . any ideas? (link)
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1. take him to a special place.
place with a great view/enviroment.
maybe blind fold him
make it a picnic, and pack a basket of two sandwichs, fruits, veggies, etc.
maybe bring some music.
2. romantic dinner.
make something homemade.
put on some music and light some candles.
maybe slow dance after.
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I really would like a nice layout for Stardoll.com, you are like my idol so do you know of anyone or could you make one for me? (link)
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1. if this is the owner/co owners of stardoll, you might want to ask this question directly to dangernerd.
2. i could make you one, but i need to know what you are looking for in a layout.
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what better
uggs
denim chip & pepper mini
cami and pastel tie front cardigan
or:
true relgion jeans
bcbg metallic wedges
grey silk tunic
brown leather belt
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the second option sounds more like this season and it sounds hot, so i say go for that.
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Ok so I like 2 guys. Lets call them Chris and Jamie.
Anyways they both play soccer. And they are having a game on Friday and Chris goes to my school. and Jamie goes to a different school. so they are both playing on friday and the problem is im not going to be there at friday at ALL because im going away to the beach because of my band class. it sucks i dont even want to go. but i have to. the thing is if i go there i dont even know who i want to win. i want to go. because i havent ever hung out with Jamie before!!!! but what about chris. this is like my dream come true!!!!!!!!!!! but i have seen chris everyday at school but he doesnt seem that interested. and jamie goes to my church but not the same time so i never get to see him. he just called me on the phone right now and i really dont know how to call him back and tell him all of this?? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please i promise i will give you a five even if you just answer this is really important to me i just really need advice NOW or NEVER!!!! i really like them BOTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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since you're going away during the game, just start it casual with both guys and tell them you wish them luck, something simple like that.. and show more interest as time goes on. see if the chris is interested, just ask if he wants to hangout or talk about something ya'll are both interested in. if he doesnt want to go out, call that jamie back and go out with him. see, and ask to hangout sometime, you might realize you don't like him as much as you thought as you get to know him better or the opposite. and if you and jamie get together, still work on a relationship with chris and maybe you two will become good friends.
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I have a boyfriend and I love him so much. We've been going out for like 2-3 months now and I was just wondering...what is a nice present to get him. Please don't say candy or a stuffed animal....that's not what I want to give him. It has to be special. Any suggestion are welcome!
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a sweater.
cologne.
hat.
jewlry.
breathe mints.
cd.
something handmade.
a song, if you can play/sing.
tickets to a concert.
something hes intersted in, wants.
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I have a friend that is always breaking up then BEGGING to be my friend agian. should I stop her for good or just live with it and stick it out? (link)
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she obviously needs your friendship. but you need to set boundaries, tell her to stop 'breaking up' or w/e she is doing to break ya'll up and say if she does it again, she won't get another chance and ask her 'do you really want to be my friend?' and if so ask 'why?' and from there decide on whether you want to live with it or stop her for good.
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My friend and I like the same guy but he likes me more should I be happy or should I forget about him? (link)
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get her permission first if she doesn't want you with him, think which relationship you'll rather have, your best friend that'll last a lifetime or some guy that you might toss in a week.
in sixth grade my best friend went out with a guy i liked, and he liked me also the year before but we never went out.. so i liked him alot. she knew i liked him too. i never said anything to her about dating him and she never asked my permission and while she was with him she just dangled him in front of me. so i started making fun of them, [he looked a little like fred flinstone with his dark hair] so i called him that and so did our friends.. and i even copied a picture he gave me to give to her and i drew an orange dress on him.. and sang the theme song when she walked by. and i also called her wilma cuz she had red hair.. i regret doing that now but she got so upset she broke up with him.
that story probably doesnt help you, but you have to consider her feelings, and if she says it's okay. she is just being a good friend, so don't brag about him in front of her or do anything that will regret her giving you her permission.
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I am terrifyed of getting my preteen shots. do'nt you have to get like 8 or something?! i'm freaked and mom says she won't come in because if they look "down there" she will be freaked. i;m scared i bet my heart rate will be like too high. i have major needle phobia-help (link)
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just hold your breathe and look away from the needle. it actually doesnt hurt and think back did a needle ever hurt you? and i don't think you're going to get eight shots in one visit, you'll probably just do about 2 or 3 then come back for more later, but i don't know because there're more vaccines needed now. and your mom could just walk out during the check up. and a shot lasts for 2 seconds, you can freak out or just relax becuase the shot will be over sooner than you'll know it.
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Male, 16 years old.
Sometimes I think I dress badly in school.
Could anyone give me tips on a new look that's nice looking but not considered prepish? Places to get clothes, anything basically. I don't know if it makes any difference but I'm white also. :)
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haha, i love fashion.
i'm not reli sure what your personal style is..
ideas: pimped out hat[ pacsun, hat shack, any hat store.], sunglassess, jeans [hollister, abercrombie, dillards, kohls, sears, etc], shirts [stores i listed for jeans, and white/black tanks are hot , plain black shirts/ colored ts, hot topic, no shirts with corney sayings.., chains, jewlry...
this is hard because i'm a girl and because i have a different personal style..
and it would help if you said if you were emo, prepish, skaterish, scene, etcc.
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hi there,
okay well..iv'e had this guy friend. "bestfriend" for about two years now, and he's great. He's actually more then great he's the best! he makes me laugh like no one else, im comfortable around him, and we just get eachother. we've never been more then "bestfriends" even though it always ran through my mind & some people would request it. i don't think nor do i believe there's anyone else out there that can make me happier then him. PROBLEMS.. hah number ONE he says he "hates me" i guess it goes with his mean humor i know he doesnt mean it. and he says it a lot. i know he's joking, we used to fight a lot about this "joking" that would upset me because it would go to far.. anyways i feel like when he says he hates me its like his code, like he's covering up for i love you because were "bestfriends"..problem TW0! were going to different highschools next yr because i moved and im afraid im gonna lose the one person who makes me feel best.. i dont know what to do, he's not one to let go ..even though im not sure how he feels. sorry if this was confusing, i just need help ASAP :( thanks! (link)
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if he loved you, he wouldn't want to let you go, so you wouldn't have a problem. i think after you move, you should continue to stay friends but check out other people so you can have more options just because there's a chance you might find someone better.
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I know this is an issue that many people deal with and i have tried just about everything that i know but nothing seems to work....I think i have an addiction to porn and i dont know what to do...i went a whole month and a half without doing it and it was the hardest thing for me....i dont know how to get it out of my head,.i pray about it just about every night and im tired of being this way please help (link)
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i know what you mean.
i've been having the same exact problem.
here's two websites that help me.
http://www.christiananswers.net/q-sum/sum-f001.html
http://christianteens.about.com/od/dating/tp/liessexdating.htm
also if you read the bible more often, exspecially when you're being tempted, this will help because the devil doesn't want you to go to God everytime he tempts you, so eventually he'll give up.
and maybe if you have someone to talk to everytime you give in to temptation, that'll keep you stronger.
so if you ever want to talk to me, i'll be here for you.
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so im dating this boy and hes like 2 years younger but none of my friends no that yet. but im afraid if they find out they will laugh what should i do?
o i do like this kid a lot (link)
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you shouldn't worry, the worst that'll happen is that they'll make fun of it, they'll probably be like aww and stuff, but you can defend yourself by telling them he's really mature for his age. and i bet he is since you're into him. and eventually the embarrasment will blow over. also 2 yrs difference is nothing if you were a older couple.. my parents are 11 yrs apart, and my mom's older.
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Change your hair color on the computer besides photoshopp??
Pleaseee??
I need help cause i wanna change this picture of my hair to blondee..
So helpp?
any other websiteess? (link)
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search 'virtual makeover games' there will be a few websites that come up you can go to for this but you'll probably have to et up an account. well, i like how it works..
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Hi there. I'm 21, and I'm assured I won't make it to my next birthday. I obsess over all sorts of diseases and illnesses, and it's ruining my life.
I have such big aspirations in life. I want to graduate from college, and have a family. I want to write a book, and enjoy myself.
Where is the key to happiness? I want more than anything to find it. I'm far too young to believe that I won't be okay. And yet, most days I find it harder then anything to just get out of my bed and live.
I'd hate to actually die, and know my life had turned to waste.
Any advice on taking life by the horns, and living to the best of my ability would be appreciated greatly. (link)
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adding to what everyone else said :)
1. i've had the same problem and i'm only 16, and i'll give you my tips of aspiration.
2. do you know the quote 'a coward dies a thousand times but a brave man only dies one' and the quote 'the mother of all fears is death' basically the first one's saying you gotta live life taking chances because that's when you really live, and if you're not 'living' you are dieing-the coward. and the second quote is self explanitory, but if that's so, dontcha think getting over the fear of death would rid you of your worries.
3. God is the key to happiness, w/o him, you'll never be truely happy. 'blessed be those who believe in the lord' {if you think you're interested in finding out more about salvation and stuff.. ask.} i gurantee if you chose the lord, you're problem will be solved because you'll live in eternity and if you already chose not to believe, i suggest you should just try, just once.. ask the lord into your heart[meaning and believeing it too) then ask the lord to carry your burdens and to help you and also you should try church and worshipping.. if you think this is crazy, i'm just saying to try it.. you won't believe how you're life will turn around.
4. all you can do is try your best, sometimes it's hard to find the motivation you need as you get older, but you need to find the passion for the things you want to do and just do it- even if you suck.. you'll never get better if you don't practice.
5. would you rather have nothing by never trying or have a possibility because you tryed.
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