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Chris and jamie, but what about band trip i payed for?
Ok so I like 2 guys. Lets call them Chris and Jamie.
Anyways they both play soccer. And they are having a game on Friday and Chris goes to my school. and Jamie goes to a different school. so they are both playing on friday and the problem is im not going to be there at friday at ALL because im going away to the beach because of my band class. it sucks i dont even want to go. but i have to. the thing is if i go there i dont even know who i want to win. i want to go. because i havent ever hung out with Jamie before!!!! but what about chris. this is like my dream come true!!!!!!!!!!! but i have seen chris everyday at school but he doesnt seem that interested. and jamie goes to my church but not the same time so i never get to see him. he just called me on the phone right now and i really dont know how to call him back and tell him all of this?? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please i promise i will give you a five even if you just answer this is really important to me i just really need advice NOW or NEVER!!!! i really like them BOTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Go to the band trip. After all you paid for it and you have an obligation to go regardless if you want to or not. Tell "jamie" you can't go but would have gone if you could have. Then wish him luck. Do the same with Chris if he asks, but if he doesn't ask, don't say anything. You have other opportunities to hang out with either of them. Sounds like Jamie is more interested so I would try getting to know him first, and if you decide you don't want to date him, then get to know the other guy.
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since you're going away during the game, just start it casual with both guys and tell them you wish them luck, something simple like that.. and show more interest as time goes on. see if the chris is interested, just ask if he wants to hangout or talk about something ya'll are both interested in. if he doesnt want to go out, call that jamie back and go out with him. see, and ask to hangout sometime, you might realize you don't like him as much as you thought as you get to know him better or the opposite. and if you and jamie get together, still work on a relationship with chris and maybe you two will become good friends.
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hey kittzen here,
Listen you like both guys righ, so who are you going to see more and who is more boyfriend material? why don't you try dateing one and if it dosn't work out date the other one. the guy you got on the phone right now what are you going to say to him, say i am so sorry for missing your game i know this guy on the other team that is like a best friend, and i have no clue who i want to win.
that may be half a lie half the truth but that will tie you over till you figure out witch one you want to date frist. keep in mind the onter guy dosn't have to know you ever dated this guy. and maybe if you don't like the guy your dateing move on to the next one just make sure you don't lose the connection with the other one while you date one of them.
best of luck,
Kittzen,
P.s you can leave it up to them who you dat just see who wins at the game and that winner just won the frist date with you.
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