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My BFF dating my EX
This is one of those patheic I still love him questions but please help me.
On Friday I asked out my ex who is now one of my best friends and he said I don't know. So today me and my bff (she also went out with him before) spent the day with him. (were all best friends now) and I asked him if he had his answer yet. At first he said I don't know. and then right before I had to go home I asked him if he had his answer and he said his answer was no. So I pretened not to care and when I leave and he is walking my bff home he holds her hand and I know he wants to go out with her. But I don't want to let him go, again. I don't really know how to put it when I say let him go.. I mean that last time he and my bff went out I had to watch them holding hands, and kissing goodbye, and all that and that really hurt my feelings and so know I don't want that to happen again. I don't know what to do at all. Do I somehow ignore them or avoid them or what? Please. Help.
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Is you friend the only one that dosnt know you cant go out with a best friends ex without asking or letting you know?
Just tell her that you still have feelings for him but say your happy for them because put this way
she is your BEST mate, and I know I'd rather see someone I love(my ex) with someone I love and know (best friend) than someone I didnt know.
I know it hurts but we cant stop people from falling in loveor being in lvoe because of our own selfish needs.He dosnt like you any way so just let her be with him.
This sort of situation can really ruin a relationship, so dont bring an attitude problem and start shouting or having a huff, just tell her how you feel.You want her to be happy?Do the RIGHT thing and dont lose your best friends.
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Your best friend is horrible for dating the guy you liked. Wether you said you were over him or not, its just not right. Tell her how you feel. Cuss her out if you have to. Also, the guy is no good. If he is going to date your best friend then hold hands right after you ask him out, then one..he doesnt like you and two.. he's rude and mean and inconsiderate of your feelings. Which means.. you dont need him. Give your best friend another chance though. hope i helped.
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Talk to your friend..
tel her how you feel...
if she ignores how you feel then she isn't really worth now is she....
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hey, well how long ago were you and him together. if it was an old spark and you two were together a long time ago, the right thing to do is to let them be together. as much as it hurts, hes not yours and hes a single guy now. she is your best friend and your pretty close to him too. wouldnt you want them to be happy whether there happy together or apart? however, if you and him broke up not to long ago, you need to talk to your bestfriend. tell her that its not okay just to go out with your ex like that and that she needs to give it time and time for you to heal.
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