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Me and my best friend got innto HUGE fight.. i wish we were friends agian but im sik of being the firts one to say soryy all the time so you get it? and she acts like she dont even care and stuff and we havnt ever gottin into this long of a fight our longest fight was like an hour its been 2 days and it was over somthing soooo stupid.. see what happen is i got online and she complains all the time in her pro like..im so sad or i cant trust n e one ect. you know and well i always tryed to make her happy well i got online saw her pro said i love him and i cant trust n eone and stuff well i asked who you like you can trust me i wont tell n e one and then out of no where she gets mad and starts yelling at me and durr im gonna get yelled back..it happend fast and the next thing you know shes telling me to get the fuck out of her life...((exact words..)) i mean usually when we fight i dont have to worry cuz the next day min or hour we are all good agian this one im realllly worried and dont know what to do and im sik of always be the one to say sorry first! she never says sorry to me and why should i say sorry for trying to make her happy? ahh what should i do...
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Ok, I just have one question you say she is your best friend but she doesn't trust you? That doesn't really sound like a best friend. A best friend is some one who you trust and who trusts you.
Next this whole I always say sorry first is not healthy. If she was your true friend she'd be willing to compromise. I'm sorry you are sad and do not like being in this fight But maybe its for the best. You need to sort out your problems with her. I suggest talking to her and telling her that you are her friend and she needs to learn to trust you.That what she did with snapping at you when you were trying to make her happy is wrong. Also I stress this, TALK do not yell.
Ask her what the problem was. Half the time these fights are about other things. Talk to her.
I hope it all works out but really fights can be healthy don't be scared to tell her what you think. Just remember to be reasonable it is the only way things will get sorted.
Good luck!
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sounds like you don't even know what you did wrong, you could say sorry for w.e you did. even though you don't know what you did, someone has to be the bigger friend even if you're always that person. but, maybe something you're doing or something in her life is bothering her and that's probably the reason she's pulling away and being distant. i think you should try to talk to her, if you can't get her to say whats on her mind, just give you're friendship a break, maybe you two spent so much time together and you know how that gets. just like a couple weeks or a month depending upon your friend. hopefully she'll be the one that will try to call you during that time and hopefully she will miss you, and if she's willing to be friends again, you should just go along with that. she may have never realized she did anything wrong ither, and once you two get together again, you can drop hints of what was bothering you. but make sure you two talk about what happened so you'll know for future reference so that won't happen again.
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