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I like a guy
My friend and I like the same guy but he likes me more should I be happy or should I forget about him?
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You know for a fact he likes you right? Well, if he does ask you out, I would ask your friend first, like ask if it would bug her too much if you went out with him. I understand you like him a lot, and I'm happy to hear you want to consider her feelings before you go out with him. If you talk to her about it and she seems totally fine, I think you could go out with him, but if you think she is the slightest bit hurt, I would at least wait a little bit until you go out with him. If you tell him that, he should understand as well.
One last thing: dont EVER ruin a friendship over a guy. It really doesn't sound like you will, but I'm just warning you.
Hope that helped
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get her permission first if she doesn't want you with him, think which relationship you'll rather have, your best friend that'll last a lifetime or some guy that you might toss in a week.
in sixth grade my best friend went out with a guy i liked, and he liked me also the year before but we never went out.. so i liked him alot. she knew i liked him too. i never said anything to her about dating him and she never asked my permission and while she was with him she just dangled him in front of me. so i started making fun of them, [he looked a little like fred flinstone with his dark hair] so i called him that and so did our friends.. and i even copied a picture he gave me to give to her and i drew an orange dress on him.. and sang the theme song when she walked by. and i also called her wilma cuz she had red hair.. i regret doing that now but she got so upset she broke up with him.
that story probably doesnt help you, but you have to consider her feelings, and if she says it's okay. she is just being a good friend, so don't brag about him in front of her or do anything that will regret her giving you her permission.
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well let's see do you want to hurt your friend and date him or does your friend want to do the same thing and hurt you by dateing him?
i say you forget about unless your friend wants to hurt you and date him. explan to your friend that you don't want to hurt her if he dates you and you don't want ot be hurt if she dates him. if she dosn't understand explain it to her. but if she understands and wants to hurt you go all out and get him. but remember if you get hurt or she gets hurt your wasting your relationship over a guy that will probably dump you or her and leave you both for someone eles.
don't lose your friend over him,
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