My name is val, i just graduated high school. I have the best boyfriend named Zack, and im 18 years old. I'm going to junior college and will eventually major in speech pathology.
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I had sex with my girlfriend for the 6th time today, and she bleed a little.. and she just told me that i popped her cherry and it wasn't her period. but she's used tampons and she has already had sex with another guy before me... so is it possible that i really was the first to pop her cherry?? (link)
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you can, because a lot of ways can pop girls' cherries. even inserting a tampon can pop it. i would think that the first guy would have popped it, but it can be possible.
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I use to watch Amanda Bynes on the Amanda Show on Nickelodeon for years it seems like. I really thought she was pretty awesome. I think I heard not too long ago that she did some shots for the Maxim magazine, which is really weird because I never thought of her like that and never thought she was gorgeous or anything.
Anyway, whatever, I did hear that she announced she had retired from acting on Twitter. Is that true? And when exactly did this happen? I'm reading a few news stories and it seems like they can't get their facts straight about this so can somebody just tell me exactly rather than sending me to yet another page trying to figure out this Amanda Bynes thing? I'm just curious...that's all
And how old is she? Don't you have to be like really old to retire? (link)
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yeah i heard that shes retiring because her heart wasnt in it anymore?
retiring is just a name for it, like baseball players can retire from baseball. its not necessarily quitting, its just not doing it anymore
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What's the name of the song they played in Twilight like right after Edward was sucking the venom out of Bella's arm? (link)
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I just got it actually, it's "Let Me Sign" and it said by Robert Pattinson...but I'm not sure if it is or not.
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Ok im 16 years old and me and my girlfriend live like 3 hours apart ya its hard and the first time she asked me out i told her i wont be able to see her that much and everything and she said she was fine with that well now we fight almost everyday because she cant see me what do i do its hard. (link)
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It might not be what you want to hear but...
if you fight this much, maybe it's not worth it. And if it's because of the distance, it's not like you can move to be closer to her. I think you should at least take a break. Long-distance relationships are really hard, maybe there's someone else. But if that really isn't something you want to do, you'll find another way, if you really want this to work out with her.
Hope it helped,
16/f
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I have a boyfriend that I have been with for two years. However, for the past 6 months or so our relationship has been really boring. We never go out, he never has any money, and all he wants to do is sleep on my couch and call it "spending time with me". He refuses to go back to college and try to get a better job so he can move out from his parents. I mean, he is 24! The flip side of this is that I have thought that I love him. he claims to want to get married and I'm gonna feel bad for hurting his feelings.
Then I met this other guy. He graduated business school from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. He has a good job, his own house and a freaking life. I broke down and went out with him on a date last night. I had a really good time. He opened doors for me, payed for my dinner, even walked me to my car. The flip side of this is he lives an hour away and I am used to seeing my boyfriend everyday.
So, what I am asking is for opinions. What should I do? Do you think it has the chance of working out with the other guy? I'm not a habitual cheater and I have never done this before. In fact, I feel guilty about it in a certain way, but in a certain way I don't. What do you think? Thanks. (link)
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I recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year because our relationship got soo monotonous. There is no rule in a "relationship" that after a certain point you two have to get married. If he doesn't want to spend time with you where you have fun, it's not worth it, especially if you met someone else. I think if something happens with this new guy, you'll be very happy you got out of the other relationship and the hour distance won't be a problem. It may take some time to get used to it, but I really don't think you should stay with this guy.
Hope I helped!
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15/F/Eastern U.S.
Hi! I just got my permit about a week ago and I'm in the process of learning to drive. I've driven quite a bit, so far.
Well, when I'm driving, I always go the speed limit, but other cars continue to pass me.
If you're driving on a two-lane one-way road, is it normal for cars to pass you when you're slowing down to turn?
It kind of hurts my feelings.
I almost feel sorry for the cars that are stuck behind me. Thanks! (link)
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Yes, it can be normal. A lot of drivers really don't wanna slow down, and are usually in a hurry. Don't let it intimidate you, and especially don't feel bad for slowing down other cars, if they should get mad, they're impatient jerks. You're a beginner so it can take some time getting used to it.
Hope that helped! : )
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Okay so first let me explain. I have two great friends, and we've been practically sisters and i know they always will be. Lets call my great friends, Lisa and Sue. There is another girl group at our school as well. They have some pretty mean girls in their group, but two of them are just ok (not very nice though). Lets call the ok girls Pam and Janice. Now, Pam has spread some pretty harsh rumors about Lisa, but Lisa says they've worked it out. However Pam still occasionally says some mean things about Lisa behind her back. Now Lisa, Sue, and I have always been civil to this other group, in fact Lisa, Sue, Janice, and Pam were all on the same XC team. they have all these inside jokes that they wont tell me and Sue even invited Pam and Janice over to make cookies and stuff. Lisa and Sue still tell me that they are just being nice, but now they seem to be really becoming friends. I know that Lisa and Sue would never ditch me, and that we would always have the better friendship, but i want to tell Lisa and Sue how this new behavior has been hurting a bit. Like Sue and Pam have things in their IM infos that talk about their cookie party or whatever. I feel left out, and i want to tell Lisa and Sue how i feel but i am scared they will think i am being ridiculous because even i know they would never ditch me. all i want to say is that i feel left out. should i just let the inside jokes slide and get over it or should i tell them how i feel, if so what should i say??? (link)
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well i know these are your very good friends, but they can be making other friends too, and thats okay. you dont have to be their only other friend. but if i were you, i would be honest and just tell them you are starting to feel left out. if they think thats stupid, you can obviously make some better friends.
hope that helped,
16/f
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I have a problem... like without using girly names i need some other names to call my boyfriend by instead of saying hun all the time. He has so many names for me but i become dumb founded when it comes to callin him something because everything else sounds so girly ( like sweetheart or baby) if you know what i mean? I really need help! (link)
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I kinda have the same problem. So far, I've been mostly comfortable with hun and babe. I'm the same way, baby and honey and sweetie don't feel right when I say it haha.
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well im getting spacers in like 5 hours and i am very scared i wont to know how long will they hurt? (link)
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I had them a couple of years, and yeah they suck but theyre worth it. it should only hurt for a few days, but dont worry about it!
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I want To Lose My virginty. IAm Only 15 But iDont if I Should casue iam Kind of Thick and I am really Uncomfortable With My Body.
Like I Want To But Some People Say It Hurts And That I Shoudntt.
So I Just Thought That i Would ASk You
What Age Did You Lose Your Virginty And If I Should or nott.? (link)
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Okay, I'll be completely honest, I'm 16 and my boyfriend will be 18 in november. We have been going out since Valentine's Day this year (like 5.5 months now), and we haven't had sex. I am a little heavy as well, but when I'm with him he doesn't seem like he cares. I feel so comfortable around him, because I know he loves me, and I love him. (even tho i am losing weight haha)
My questions are:
- do you have a boyfriend? because I really would want your first time to be with someone you love and wanna be with your whole life. you should love him and know that he isnt using you for the sex and your relationship will only be sexual. once you have a boyfriend, make sure to take it nice and slow, you want your first time to mean something!
- are your friends virgins? im not saying they arent, but from what i assume, some of your friends have had sex, and you think 15 is a good age to start? dont worry or get offended, thats how i kinda am too, once i heard one of my friends is having sex with her boyfriend, i was really considering doing it with my boyfriend.
- if the boy you want to lose your virginity with really truly loves you, he wont care if you have a few extra pounds! if youre THAT uncomfortable with it, it doesnt hurt to do situps or something, but thats totally up to you.
from what it sounds like, you want to just lose the virginity and you are currently single. i strongly suggest that you wait until that guy comes along, so it will mean a lot. also, i have a lot of guy friends, some that are a little older, and they said if they had a girlfriend who wasnt a virgin, they would be a little offended, because youre still young, and you obviously felt really strongly for someone before them. i hope you can understand from a guys point of view. like say you stayed a virgin, and you met a guy and loved him, would you want to hear that he had sex with...you dont know for sure how many girls? i really wouldnt. so i guess my advice: wait for the a guy that you love and loves you, take it slow, and when the time comes, use protection and a pill! haha
hope that helped, thanks for coming to me,
val (16/f)
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Ok I recently got a facebook and everytime I request someone to be my friend and they confirm it Facebook sends me an email that looks like this: Merrill confirmed you as a friend on Facebook.
To view Merrill's profile or write on her Wall, follow this link:
http://www.facebook.com/n/?profile.php&id=1352117130
Thanks,
The Facebook Team
But when I follow the link and click to see my friends it doesnt say I have any friends. CAN YOU TEL ME WHAT iM DOING WRONG? tHANK YOU! (link)
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Did you confirm them as friends? A lot of times they will ask to be your friend, and you'll get an email saying they confirmed you.
If not, click the facebook picture at the top left, and on the top right of the next page should say you have friend requests.
I hope that helped,
(16/f)
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realllyyy blonde hair and i would like to know the best way, but cheapest possibly, to get rid of it. shampoos..leave in things.. without dying it of course. any ideas? (link)
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Is it turning green from chlorine? Mine does that every year. I don't know if there is one in your area, but Sally's beautique sells this one leave-in conditioner that can get rid of it. If you don't have one, talk to someone that cuts your hair. They prolly know of a place to get it for a good price.
Hope that helped,
(16/f)
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Okay I'm 14 years old and this summer has been like the crazziest summer. Okay these are the things I did just in 2 weeks
1.Gave a blow job in a public restroom
2.Had sex in a public restroom
3.Flashed a lot a guys at a public pool
4.Sent nude Photo's to atleast 7 different guys
5.Had a 3some (2 other guys)
6.madeout with a way older guy
7.Did a lot of ohter "things" in public places (link)
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Uh...thats great for you? I really love how this isn't even a question, it's a way to show everyone how much of a whore you are and i dno, get people "jealous"? I hope girlfriends hear about this and confront you or you get an STD. I would say I hope you get pregnant, but I could never forgive myself if that happened, and a child had to grow up with a mother as immature as you, if you would even take care of it.
Hope you like the life you're leading.
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My friend and I like the same guy but he likes me more should I be happy or should I forget about him? (link)
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You know for a fact he likes you right? Well, if he does ask you out, I would ask your friend first, like ask if it would bug her too much if you went out with him. I understand you like him a lot, and I'm happy to hear you want to consider her feelings before you go out with him. If you talk to her about it and she seems totally fine, I think you could go out with him, but if you think she is the slightest bit hurt, I would at least wait a little bit until you go out with him. If you tell him that, he should understand as well.
One last thing: dont EVER ruin a friendship over a guy. It really doesn't sound like you will, but I'm just warning you.
Hope that helped
16/f
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I'm 14 years old and a girl and i'm having so much trouble deciding whether or not i should tell this guy that i like him. i'm very afraid of rejection and even though i dont like to admit i know that i will care what people think about him and I being together. What should I do? (link)
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1. Don't be afraid of rejection, be afraid of regret. If you don't ever tell him, you will regret it. It would be great if he likes you too, but if not, so what? You're 14 and you have nothing to lose by telling him. If he doesn't like you, then you will know and can move on to someone else. It might be hard at first, but it will be worth it.
2. I understand that you care what people think about him. I'm not sure what else to say, but if they are your friends and they know you like him, they should be nice and not say rude things about it. If they are mean to you about the guy you like, what kind of friends are they?
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Alright so ive been dating this girl for about 5 months now and ever so slowly ive started to wonder when to have sex. I dont have much expierence in the dating world and i wanted to know if its too early "to do it" or not. Please help me as i am very confused. (link)
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I think this is a discussion for you and your girlfriend, but it sounds like you respect her, and I'm really glad to hear it. No relationship will be the same, so you need to talk to her. Don't make it sound like that's all you want right now and are forcing her to do anything, show her you respect her. A lot of girls are afraid of being dumped after having sex for the first time. It's not bad to wait, but make sure you both are ready. Relationships shouldn't be based on sex, so as long as you two love each other very much, you can wait as long as you'd like. Don't feel guilty for thinking about sex with her, and when you talk about it, don't make it seem like you're really anxious, and are using her for sex. (I'm not saying you are or anything, I just wouldn't want her to think you are)
Good luck, and I hope this helped.
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hi, random question but what would you say is a good age for kissing (like on the lips...with a guy you love). plz don't say "any age, as long as your ready" caz that's not what i want. when did you kiss? what's a really common age? (link)
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Sorry, but what you said not to say is what came to mind, but I'll say more lol. I don't think you have to completely love someone with all your heart to kiss them tho, (that's what sex and marriage is for) but you need to like them. I had my first kiss at 15 and my boyfriend (who is still my current boyfriend) was 17. I think you should be at least....13 or 14 to kiss someone, because I think some 12 and under is way too young. If I had to guess a number, I'd say 14-17 is a common age for a first kiss. I can't really say tho an age, because it's more of a feeling between the two people, and how long you've gone out. I'm not sure that helped, but I really hope it did.
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14/f. My friend with benefits, Brandon, is telling me he loves me. Yet the reason why Brandon is a friend with benefits is because he has a gf. But it gets better! I figured out why he was telling me he loved me. He was telling me it so he could get into my pants. I was really pissed off at him after that. But Brandon is 16 and, as I said before, I am 14. But the question is, should I talk to him anymore? And am I just the girl on the side that whenever he isn't getting what he wants from his gf, he looks to me? I mean, I am a virgin and I am really afraid of losing my virginity, and Brandon knows this. So why does he keep on trying to take away from me? I am really confused, can someone help me? (link)
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PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE! do NOT lose your virginity to him. He is telling you he loves you, yet he is with another girl?!?! Why does he need a friend with benefits if he is with someone? I'm glad you know that he is pretty much using you for things, and trying to use you for sex. I really hope you choose not to have sex with him. Lose it to someone you can see yourself being with forever, and that you're going out with!! Don't have sex with someone that you don't without a doubt love, who isn't with another girl. Please take everyone's advice and don't talk to this guy anymore.
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Ok, well after a long and complicated story streching out for months, me and a 'friend' are barely friends.
We used to be best friends, now we'll rarely talk on the internet, and if we do it's forced and awkward.
Anyway, I try and move on, and I will admit she's not as petty as she used to be.
However she still has this constant need to show me I'm not welcome in her friendship group (Who were my friends at one point, and a few of them were friends with me before her) as well as try and compete with me over who has more friends.
In a few days there is a meet up with a few people, because a couple of people from town are in our town. People they know have been invited and I was one of them, as well as my now "distant" friend.
Anyway cut to the chase, my "distant" friend invited randoms from her friendship group. Most, who dislike me a lot. Now I don't think I'm THAT special, and her sole purpose in life is to make uncomfortable, however at the same time it makes me wonder what her intentions are. Only one of her friends has spoken to these girls from out of town, only a couple of times. She doesn't really like one of them either. Distant friend's other friends have never even spoken to her before. It makes me wonder why she would invite randoms to a special gathering held for 2 people.
Also, she keeps banging on how her friendship group are going to have a super special awesome sleepover party, and how much fun they're going to have, and keeps hinting and making it obvious that me not being invited is a big thing. Even if we change topics, she'll go back to this "awesome sleepover" and she keeps asking if I'm still going to the meet up.
Basically, she's trying to intimidate me out of going to the meet up. And it's sort of working. I was pretty excited to go, but because all these people who dislike me are going, I'm bummed out and don't want to go. Even if I did go, the whole day would be spent in awkwardness and I wouldn't have fun.
So my question, should I fall for her tactics and stay home, or should I suck it up, go to annoy her and spend the day awkward and misrable? (link)
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Well, I'm kinda in the same situation, and the first thing I have to say is do not let her ruin your fun! You want to see these friends, not her. Spend time with them, and you don't have to pay attention to her. If they say anything that upsets you, don't let it show, because that's what they want. I can tell you can't wait to see these friends, so why let this brat ruin it for you? How long will they be in town? Because if it's not too late maybe you could plan something without this girl and her friends? All I can say is don't let one girl (and her friends) let the joy of ruining your time. These girls don't even know who you're meeting up with, so I really don't get the point of them going. Whatever these girls say, don't let it bug you! You're there to catch up with old friends and the last thing you want to do is have a bad time because of what others say.
Good luck, and have fun!
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Okay, so me and my boyfriend were having sex on the internet (because he lives far off) and after, he asked "did you really cum?". I told him no, and I tried again. When nothing happened, I started to worry that it would mean I couldn't ever reproduce. I'm female, and turning 15. So shouldn't that mean I was developed enough to? What do I do? Someone help please. (link)
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It's okay if you don't, it doesn't mean you can't reproduce, but it's easier for guys to orgasm. It doesn't mean you aren't developed enough either. There's not much you can do, but don't worry about it!
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