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Is it too soon???
Alright so ive been dating this girl for about 5 months now and ever so slowly ive started to wonder when to have sex. I dont have much expierence in the dating world and i wanted to know if its too early "to do it" or not. Please help me as i am very confused.
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First let me say it's great that your respectful to your girl. and i also think you should be very careful with your decision especially as a young couple. Personally i think you should wait it out a little bit if you plan on being with her for a long time. just think about it.. after sex what else is there to look forward too? and if you do decide on having sex make her first time special for her not like in a basement or outside or something.
make sure she'll remember it
((flowers are a nice touch))
Good luck and be safe
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I think this is a discussion for you and your girlfriend, but it sounds like you respect her, and I'm really glad to hear it. No relationship will be the same, so you need to talk to her. Don't make it sound like that's all you want right now and are forcing her to do anything, show her you respect her. A lot of girls are afraid of being dumped after having sex for the first time. It's not bad to wait, but make sure you both are ready. Relationships shouldn't be based on sex, so as long as you two love each other very much, you can wait as long as you'd like. Don't feel guilty for thinking about sex with her, and when you talk about it, don't make it seem like you're really anxious, and are using her for sex. (I'm not saying you are or anything, I just wouldn't want her to think you are)
Good luck, and I hope this helped.
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Every relationship is different. Talk to her about it, and if you're both totally ready, that's your decision to make, and no one else's.
-LM
[16/f]
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You do it when you are both 100% ready and know the ins and outs.
Talk to each other. If any of you has the slightest doubt, do not do it.
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try talking to your partner... it has to be mutual.. communication really is the key.. ask her what she thinks about sex.. good luck =]
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