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Am I the girl on the side?
14/f. My friend with benefits, Brandon, is telling me he loves me. Yet the reason why Brandon is a friend with benefits is because he has a gf. But it gets better! I figured out why he was telling me he loved me. He was telling me it so he could get into my pants. I was really pissed off at him after that. But Brandon is 16 and, as I said before, I am 14. But the question is, should I talk to him anymore? And am I just the girl on the side that whenever he isn't getting what he wants from his gf, he looks to me? I mean, I am a virgin and I am really afraid of losing my virginity, and Brandon knows this. So why does he keep on trying to take away from me? I am really confused, can someone help me?
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PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE! do NOT lose your virginity to him. He is telling you he loves you, yet he is with another girl?!?! Why does he need a friend with benefits if he is with someone? I'm glad you know that he is pretty much using you for things, and trying to use you for sex. I really hope you choose not to have sex with him. Lose it to someone you can see yourself being with forever, and that you're going out with!! Don't have sex with someone that you don't without a doubt love, who isn't with another girl. Please take everyone's advice and don't talk to this guy anymore.
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You're not confused. You have him all figured
out! Friends with benefits is never a good
idea. If you are good enough to have benefits
with you should be good enough to be the
girlfriend. Saying I love you is easy. He
will need to prove that by being exclusive
to you only. Until he does that it should
be hand off for him where you are concerned. :)
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He's saying shit to you just to really, in fact, get in your pants.
Stop being naive, and just cut the relationship with him. Because in the end, you'll be the one getting hurt anyway. He's seriously an IDIOT. If you wanna be friends with him, fine. But stop with the physical relationship.
It'll be to your advantage anyway, and when you look back on it, you'll be proud of yourself.
So just stop, period.
You need to find someone (if you're looking) who actually loves you for you and that WON'T cheat on you. (Like he's doing) Besides, it's obvious you're not ready; Wait til you are.
Jess
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Seriously, why are you even asking this question. It should be crystal clear what you should do.
Stop hooking up. Don't even bother talking to him.
He clearly wants to use you and you KNOW this. Save yourself the hassle and just put a stop to it.
He wants to take your virginity because he thinks he can. He thinks he has you wrapped around his little finger.
You're not even ready for sex, ESPECIALLY with the likes of him. You are 14 years old.
Find someone who actually wants to be with you and who will love you for real.
Also, think about his girlfriend. How the hell would you feel if you found out your boyfriend was cheating all the time with a girl 2 years younger?
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FIrst your too young to even think of losing your virginity beause you have your whole life ahead of you save it for that special someone. Second he has a gf you shouldn't even be kissing him thats cheating. Imagine if you were his gf and he had another girl for benifits. I think this guy is using you to get in your pants. You should think about ditching him and finding someone who cares about you and not whats in your pants.
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first of all remmember a guy that deos so is a basterd . dont loose your virginity to aguy that you dont love or he doesnt love you . let him go dont you sleep with him that would ruin your entire life . wait for true love .
good luck
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