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Me and my boyfriend broke up last week (Mon) because basically for the last two months he was having thoughts/feelings for my bestfriend and never told me. So we eneded it, yet i still have deep feelings as he does for me, but it wouldnt be right to take him back a second time. He states hes over her, but how can i be sure, he stopped communication with her for 2 months. Basically we werent really giving each other space, we were acting as if everything was normal. I asked him for space, and now i feel even more hurt and lonely than before, what do i do?
-Female, 15 (link)
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look I think that one of should make a move , so that things will move on so you have to decide if you really want to be with him and you love him and if he shares the same feeling toward you ,you need to make that move , because maybe he is missed up . So talk to him it doesnt have to be nessesary about what cause your break up , and try to act as normal as you can and then you would know if you are ment to be together
good luck with that :)
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ive always been kind of bigger than my friends and im really getting sick of it. people make fun of me because im not super skinny and i hate it.
ive tried dieting and exercising, but nothing seems to work. what should i do? :( (link)
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hi , okay first you need to understand that you are doing this for yourself , I mean to satisfy yourself not others . second you can try to avoid bread totally and for about hour every day and dont forget to depend on fruit and vegetables for enegy since the will satisfy your need with less calories . snaks and choclate are okay just have one every weak .
I hope it will for you
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ok. its been about 2 yrs that have lost my virginity with a guy which i thought would be mine. but it happens that he left me the next day without any reason. what have heard with freinds that he is a playboy...
now am in a relation and my new boyfriend really loves me. we are planning to leave together in the future and so far didnt have sex with him. i feel guilty now cause he still think am a virgin. am dead. plz tell me what to do ... is it true that there are some steps that can be taken to camouflage the fact that am no more one ? is it true that, it may happen that you do not bleed the first time you have sex? (link)
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hi , you may not bleed the first time you have sex ,but mostly you do . But wait , you said that he really loves you , and I dont think it would bother him as much as it might if you kept this away from him longer then that. because pranticly you didnt cheat on him , and you love him
just try you best
good luck
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i get weird when a guy wants to make out when people are around like at a house,park,or with friends around.I feel like their watching and judging me like i'm a bad person or something.When i see people make out around me it's awkward.Small pecks are fine,but making out around people is awkward for me.I feel like making out should be a private thing.So when a guy tries to kiss me,i like tense up and dont want to kiss,when i really do just not when people are around,am i weird in thinking that?? because i feel like the only one lol
thanks in advance! (link)
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I think you should be honest with your boy friend and tell him about this thing , and that it bothers you . And I bet he would respect that and stop doing it in public
good luck with that
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Is there anyone on here who is 13 years old and they have diabetes? (link)
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yes there are alot of people in the world who has diabetes at that age in a matter of fact I had a friend who had diabetes at 14 years old
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How Can I break if off with my boyfriend! I love but not that much, I am talking to another guy who is in love with me, and I am getting to him , Plz help me , I am stuck between 4 guys but 2 of them fight over me and u know the bloody nose and stuff and the one Im into is so sweet and boyish and my boyfriend dosnt like to fight what do I do???!!!??? My boyfriend said he'd die if I break up with him!! he even punched a huge! hole in his wall because we got in a fight, PLZ help me!!!!! (link)
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First of all , you should make them realize that you are not a property for them to fight over . Then , you need to get away from all of these and clear up your mind , and figure out what do you want , but I think that you dont like the second guy and what you really love is his love for you . And I would say that you should stay with your current boyfriend
try to work it out
good luck
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Hi, I'm kinda poor in studies, especially in languages and math. Could you please provide some advice on how I can do better? Especially in languages because I can't understand the darn questions. Any help will be appreciated. Thanks. (link)
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hi , look you should read alot and solve grammar as much as you can . Whene it comes to math , my personal expierence tought me that the only way to get better in math is to practice , I would suggest to resolve all the problems that you solved in class each day and then check them with correction . Ofcoures this is going to sound hard at first , but after a while you will get used to it . And remmember to ask the teacher about any problem you faced in resolving the the math problems , and I dont think she would mind . good luck
And remmember that you cant achieve any thing using the easy way always.
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15/f. a couple weeks ago, i had my first kiss. i hated it. me and the guy had been talking, he was dropping me off after our first date, and he hadnt even held my hand, and he totally just kissed me. full on tongue and everything. i was like wow, and i hated it. i don't have feelings for this guy anymore, but i'm worried about the future. i didn't like this kiss, and after contemplating this over and over, it's either, cause it was my first kiss and he wasn't my boyfriend, or that it didn't really have passion. anywho, i'm seriously worried that i won't like kissing guys in the future, because any time it seems as if a guy's about to make a move, i take a huge step back. not literally, but yeah. anywho, i have some seriously hot daydreams [including some hot makeout pressed against a wall] and some dreams... but they're all with one guy. i've crushed on him about a year, but i've tried to move on. ugh. idk. i'm just looking for help with my adolescene?! (link)
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first when a guy likes you , ofcoures kissing is important . A love relationship can be good without kissing but it cant even survive without love true , love . Dont take it the wrong way but think that you should change your view about life for example think less about a guy and more about other activities like sport or art ......
Unless he is your boyfriend already then you should give him more attention than other things.
You seem like a really
nice person let love
complete you not destroye
YOU !!!
good luck
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hey i have a qouestion what are (EMO) people? I'm just curious..because all i know is that they wear black hair or w.e well thx!! bye (link)
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Emotional punk rock: a genre of punk rock music that began in the middle 1980s in Washington, D.C. . And is noted for its thoughtful and emotional lyrics
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I'm from Texas and 13.I dated this guy i didn't really like i was just tryin to make someone else jealous....Now we are broke up but he can't get over me and all the guys i like still think i like him and i don't. How do i get them to know i am free and ready to date again without seeming to needy??? Thanks
-Love Sucks (link)
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I think that you need to make it so clear that you broke up , by flirting another guy without looking so needy or just say " hi " and smile at him and when ever he smils at you smile back at him that is if he likes you . And before you know it other guys would notice that you are free ,but remember try as hard as you can not to look too needy
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ok i need help i am getting married in june and now i think i like this other guy whom i met through my fiance i m all confused and dont know wat to do plz help (link)
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first postpone the wedding and try to be as honest as you can with both of them dont do any move without thinking well about the affect of it on your life . And dont get mixed up between being in love with some one ,and having a crush on him . And dont forget to make sure that the persone that you love , feels the same way about you . stay calm , and dont stress out .Remmember that every thing is up to you , its your life your choice , so make sure it well turn out to be the best for YOU !!!!
good luck
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alright so my friend is dating this guy name taylor that she loves but he is like a dick to her a lot but you know he loves her. they have been dating for about 5 months maybe. well my friend is really good friends with her ex and she has like a lot of feelings for him. she says she loves them equally but her ex treats her so much better than her boyfriend and she knows it. she knows she wants to be with taylor but she likes her ex a lot. taylor found out that his gurlfriend and her ex talk a lot and he got really depressed and cut himself. so im thinkin that if she broke up with him for austin he would prolly kill himself for reall. she loves them both so much but wants to be with taylor cause they have so much goin for them but she loves her ex. what should she do? (link)
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I think that she need to decide which one she prefer by geting away from both of them and the person that she misses first is the one she loves . If it turns out to be her ex tal with her boyfriend and straighten things up with him and if he really loves her , he wont stand in the way of her happiness
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Hello everyone-I hope someone will be in a position to help me. Basically, I feel fat-I don't think I really am, but I've just started on a healthy eating program(1000-1100 kcal per day) and am trying to build up more excercises in my daily routine. Now I'm not saying I'm anorexic or anything, but I did look at one of those "ana" websites late last night and while I was shocked and sickened, a part of me did see the allure of forcing myself down to a much smaller size (I am 5'7, and size 8 on top,6 on the bottom). I'm trying to tone up for a wedding in three weeks where I just know everyone will be super thin, and it's freaking me out. I had an eating disorder a few years back, but feel that I'm really to old for these issues now(I'm 25f). I have two opposing voices in my head right now-it's good to eat healthy, take excercise, blah blah, vs. I wasn't fat, I wasn't unhappy, and my boyfriend loves me just the way I am. But I would love to lose just that extra 7lb.......Anyone identify? (link)
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look honey , I think that you are giving this more it needs . If you want me advice I would say less sweets and more vegetabels and fruit .
And remember there are alot of dresses that may not show you fat . And remember thatno body will like you if you dont even like your self . good luck at the wedding and have good time ,for yourself not for others , and if they dont like it , its their problem not yours
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14/f. My friend with benefits, Brandon, is telling me he loves me. Yet the reason why Brandon is a friend with benefits is because he has a gf. But it gets better! I figured out why he was telling me he loved me. He was telling me it so he could get into my pants. I was really pissed off at him after that. But Brandon is 16 and, as I said before, I am 14. But the question is, should I talk to him anymore? And am I just the girl on the side that whenever he isn't getting what he wants from his gf, he looks to me? I mean, I am a virgin and I am really afraid of losing my virginity, and Brandon knows this. So why does he keep on trying to take away from me? I am really confused, can someone help me? (link)
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first of all remmember a guy that deos so is a basterd . dont loose your virginity to aguy that you dont love or he doesnt love you . let him go dont you sleep with him that would ruin your entire life . wait for true love .
good luck
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I'm 16 years old and I've been dating this guy for a little bit over a month already. I really like him. You can say that I love him, but my mom doesn't want me to be with him at all. She doesn't want me to be close to him. She's threating me saying that she's going to block the internet and the phone. And also that in school she is going to get a restraining order and ask that we don't have any classes together. He's a year younger than me. Which worried me at first, but now I don't even think about it. And my mom got mad and started yelling at me that he's too young for me. She doesn't like him at all. She also hates the fact that we're from Dominican Republic and he's Colombian. He hasn't done anything wrong to her. The only thing that he ever did was want to fight a guy because he called me a b*tch. My mom and I started fighting about it and I mentioned that he never did anything wrong and she brought that up. And I defended him saying that at least, unlike her, he wanted to defend me. And she told me to my face that she would NEVER defend me. She is intending to break us apart, but that is the last thing that I want. I don't want to leave him because I like him too much. And he likes me a lot too. In my opinion, I think she's still hurting because I broke up with my previous boyfriend 4 months ago. And she really likes him. She treats him like her son. And it's causing her pain that I'm not with him. What can I do about this? What can make her understand what I feel about my current boyfriend? (link)
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okay let me get this straight you are dating some one that your mom doesnt like , and she liked the prevois guy . wait a min , who is dating him you or her its your life , but if you want my advice tell her how you feel toward him , if that doesnt work tell her that after 2 year you well be off for college & you will still love him and then you are going to be together again and instead of think of your mother as your friend , you know almost , you would think about her as a person that wants to ruin you love life . then I think that she would notice that what she is doing is wrong .
and remmember if you are ment to be with that guy nothng would stop you both no thing
good luck
I hope that I helped you
mail me if I works out
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just finished reading the noteebook
ohh im still crying from it!
my question is...
is true love like that just in books? i mean, im 14 & anyway im not looking for somthing thats going to heal desieses im just curious to know if true love with that much passion happens in real life. any stories/just your personal ideas would be fantastic thanks so much! (link)
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accaully true love is should not be the goal of any woman because I believe that any woman should be satisfied with her self without a man but ofcours men are important . so dont spend you life looking for true love not because it doesnt exist but because I am sure that u have a great personality and any man would be lucky to have as girlfriend and trust me because I ev been there no man deserves a woman tears , unless you really really really LOVE him!!!!!!!
good luck
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