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she loves her boyfriend but has feelings for her ex?
alright so my friend is dating this guy name taylor that she loves but he is like a dick to her a lot but you know he loves her. they have been dating for about 5 months maybe. well my friend is really good friends with her ex and she has like a lot of feelings for him. she says she loves them equally but her ex treats her so much better than her boyfriend and she knows it. she knows she wants to be with taylor but she likes her ex a lot. taylor found out that his gurlfriend and her ex talk a lot and he got really depressed and cut himself. so im thinkin that if she broke up with him for austin he would prolly kill himself for reall. she loves them both so much but wants to be with taylor cause they have so much goin for them but she loves her ex. what should she do?
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Okay, your friend is in a very difficult situation and I have been in the very same one. I really cared about my current boyfriend, but I got butterflies and really cared about my ex boyfriend, when my current boyfriend found out that I was thinking about breaking-up with him he went ballistic. He stalked me after we broke up, threatened to kill himself, and tried to beat up my ex. But even though he threatened to kill himself I had to do what made me happy and he didn't kill himself, we are now really good friends.
My point is that your friend can't base her decision on the fact that Taylor might kill himself, if he did it wouldn't be her fault. She is just going to have to sit down and talk to Taylor, if she decides she wants to be with Austin, and let him know that it's not that she doesn't care about him, but she just doesn't feel like she used to be about him. She really needs to do what makes her happy, no matter who it means she ends up with.
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I think that she need to decide which one she prefer by geting away from both of them and the person that she misses first is the one she loves . If it turns out to be her ex tal with her boyfriend and straighten things up with him and if he really loves her , he wont stand in the way of her happiness
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