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Messed up break up
Me and my boyfriend broke up last week (Mon) because basically for the last two months he was having thoughts/feelings for my bestfriend and never told me. So we eneded it, yet i still have deep feelings as he does for me, but it wouldnt be right to take him back a second time. He states hes over her, but how can i be sure, he stopped communication with her for 2 months. Basically we werent really giving each other space, we were acting as if everything was normal. I asked him for space, and now i feel even more hurt and lonely than before, what do i do?
-Female, 15
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look I think that one of should make a move , so that things will move on so you have to decide if you really want to be with him and you love him and if he shares the same feeling toward you ,you need to make that move , because maybe he is missed up . So talk to him it doesnt have to be nessesary about what cause your break up , and try to act as normal as you can and then you would know if you are ment to be together
good luck with that :)
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Invite him to meet you at a park, the school yard, somewhere where no one has an advantage [like someones house] and try to get it so not many people are around.
You need to sit and talk with him about this
explain to him why logically its stupid for you to take him back, let him know exactly how hurt you were/are by his thoughts about your best friend.
See what he says, and if its anything besides kissing your ass, you know hes not worth it,
Also tell him that you still care about him alot
and maybe you could set something up, where you two start dating again, but if anything like it happens again,
kick that boy to the curb, your too young to waste time on a stupid boy, and TRUST ME I KNOW
how much it sucks to have you boyfriend and your best friend eyeing eachother behind your back, i've been there and i've lived it,
give him a second chance, if he resepcts you enough it won't happen again
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