i get weird when a guy wants to make out when people are around like at a house,park,or with friends around.I feel like their watching and judging me like i'm a bad person or something.When i see people make out around me it's awkward.Small pecks are fine,but making out around people is awkward for me.I feel like making out should be a private thing.So when a guy tries to kiss me,i like tense up and dont want to kiss,when i really do just not when people are around,am i weird in thinking that?? because i feel like the only one lol
It's irritating, and there's nothing wrong with you thinking that. If anything, you should be proud that that's the way you think. It's rather honorable xD.
duudee_advicer answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 1:46 pm: Nah, you're totally 100% normal. :)
Lol some people just like to be a little more private about their own lives. That's perfectly fine.
Next time a guy leans in to make out with you at a time when you're not comfortable, kiss him gently once. Pull away and say, "Later" with a smile on your face. He'll get the point and be totally looking forward to 'later'.
karenR answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 1:32 pm: Making out in front of friends is really
pretty rude if you think about it. It
should be done in private. So I don't
think you are at all wierd for not wanting
to.
In public, hand holding, arm around you,
and as you said a quick kiss. Everything
else is private.
tami2lb answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 12:35 pm: I think you should be honest with your boy friend and tell him about this thing , and that it bothers you . And I bet he would respect that and stop doing it in public
good luck with that [ tami2lb's advice column | Ask tami2lb A Question ]
vindicated answered Tuesday July 22 2008, 11:25 am: No way you are definitely NOT weird because you think/feel that way. A lot of people are in the same boat. My previous boyfriends (now exes) whenever they would even try giving me a peck, I would tense up and feel awkward and such. I honestly think that people who are all for PDA have no respect for themselves or others.
So yeah, I think you're normal don't worry :) [ vindicated's advice column | Ask vindicated A Question ]
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