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I can't cum..
Okay, so me and my boyfriend were having sex on the internet (because he lives far off) and after, he asked "did you really cum?". I told him no, and I tried again. When nothing happened, I started to worry that it would mean I couldn't ever reproduce. I'm female, and turning 15. So shouldn't that mean I was developed enough to? What do I do? Someone help please.
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It is hard to get us girls to cum. It may take a lot of work to get us to. The quickest way to get your self, or for him to get you, to cum is stimulate your clit. (in case you aren't sure what it is, that the little ball like thing under the flap of skin at the top of your vagina) anyway, try gently rubbing that spot until you can't take it anymore. You should have an orgasm. also try fingering yourself and playing with that spot, for a blended sensation.
I hope this helps.
xoxo
Jackie
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It's okay if you don't, it doesn't mean you can't reproduce, but it's easier for guys to orgasm. It doesn't mean you aren't developed enough either. There's not much you can do, but don't worry about it!
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First off, you don't need to orgasm (or "cum" to say it crudely) in order to reproduce. Only the guy need to orgasm. If a penis enters your vagina without protection, you will get pregnant. Secondly, it's much harder to get a female to orgasm than it is for a guy to do so. Basically, you just need to keep practicing. Also, it's possible you may have performance anxiety with your boyfriend there, so try doing it alone. Just relax. It will happen. Have fun!
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