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I'm just wondering why my questions arent being answered they arent stupid or ridiculous or just it just take a while to be approved? (link)
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I'm not sure. I don't know which questions are yours but maybe they are super long? I know that sometimes when I am looking to give advice I skip the ones that are way too long, just because I can't keep focused. I hope it helped.
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what do you call a person's numbers that are on their prescription for glasses or contacts. like, how bad their vision is (link)
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I just call it their prescription. like "whats your prescription, oh its minus 100"
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so i guess the title for this question wasnt a very nice one haha but it got you reading it. well i do love my boyfriend to death we have been dating for 6 months. im 16 hes 15. theres just a few small problems. everything will be going fine, then sudenly a few weeks ago he wanted to take a break. all the lovey dovey stuff stopped n he really didnt seem to care about me anymore. well now we are back together and all the lovey dovey stuff has started again. he says he loves me more than anything. thats what he said before the breakup too. most days he is great and i love him so much. i couldnt imagine being with another guy. but some days he is in the worst mood and he will practically ignore me. i really try to help him out and i put up with so much stuff just for him. he is very outgoing so its not like him to be quiet and i always think its something i did. but he gets in different moods all the time. is he bipolar? he acts completely normal other than the mood swings and is captain of the football and lax team. hes popular and a really funny guy. but he also has told me that he hears voices in his head. he doesnt act like its a big deal and yesterday a voice told him to jump off a building. he obviously didnt listen haha but he doesnt act like his mental problems effect him much but the break and his mood swings make me think maybe they do. i dont want him to start listening to these voices in his head or go crazy one day. and i dont want his bipolar watever you want to call it mood swings, to effect are relationship either. i know he has suffered from depression and possibly still is. but he acts like hes the happiest guy in the world. you would never guess. does he have schizophrenia or bipolar or something else? any advice? (link)
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if you think he was being serious then you may want to tell someone, like a school councilor or his parents, or even yours. If the voices are telling him to hurt himself it might be a big problem, and you obviously don't want him to kill himself. If you love him you'll try to get him help. Once he has help with this he most likely won't have such extreme mood swings and you guys will be even closer because he'll know you're there for him no matter what.
I hope all works out for you two
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So I took a course on babysitting/kidsitting. I talked to multiple people in my neighborhood about it. Most of them said that if I took it they would hire me. So I took the course but now that I have the certificate nobody will hire me. I am afraid to put up flyers because I heard about how some people call the numbers and pretend they have kids to babysit but then they are like perverts and end up like kidnapping they babysitters. I want a job but noone will hire me. What is a good but safe way to get the word out that I'm certified and avalible to work? (link)
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hey, I understand how your feeling. I babysit and the way I got started is by babysitting my teacher's kids. it became a pretty regular thing- every time she needs a sitter she calls me. Also, she's set me up with her sister's kids and even the kids friends. its about networking, having people you babysit for to recommend you to other people who might need your services.
also, maybe babysitting for your family might get the ball rolling. like for an aunt so something.
hope my suggestions work out for ya. :)
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how can you tell someone you want to be sexual with them if you dont know 100% they feel the same? i dont want to make a fool of myself but everytime we hangout it's so intense, we flirt like crazy but he gives mixed signals. i know we're both attracted to each other but we've also been good friends for awhile now too so its hard to tell. how can i let him know i really want him, and to please him haha okay that sounded kinda stupid but you know what i mean. i need some suggestions when i'm with him and when texting without completely saying like i want to have sex with you or something as of that because if he didnt feel the same i would feel extremely dumb. but this has been going on long enough, he turns me on everytime i see him!!! (link)
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wow, seems kinda complicated. I think you should be subtle because you don't want to freak him out by being too forward like saying "wanna have sex?" lol so I would try flirting with him, but kick it up a notch. start by saying "hey sexy" then maybe on a text mention that you just got out of the shower or something. then jokingly say "maybe next time u should join" or something. anything to get him thinking about you naked. then maybe he'll respond jokingly and then it can escalate into the real thing.
Hope things work out
xoxo
JAckie
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I went to this girl's pictures, and ALL of the picture comments were in white. On every picture. So I looked for a code so I could do that to mine, but I couldn't find one. Help? (link)
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Try making the caption to the picture white. to do this type < font color=white > but with no spaces between the brackets and the letters. this should make all of the writing below it white. try that out. hope it works
xo
JAckie
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I need some unique ideas on ways to ask a girl to prom! Please help ASAP! (link)
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one idea is to talk to one of her teachers and get her to say that she has to go to the office to pick something up. and you be there outside of her class room with flowers and a sign or something that. she'll be very suprised. :)
just and idea but hope it helped.
~JAckie
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Okay so I'm 14 and my boyfriend is too. And I absolutely love him ! He makes me so happy and I never felt this way about a guy before. Like he's the first guy I lasted half a year with and I'm planning to stay with him longer. But we promised each other to stay together forever but I'm just scared that it won't last. I mean everything is perfect and we did have several arguments but we came through. But does forever really happen? I'm the type of girl who can stay faithful to a guy for a long time. And he is too but do you think forever is ever going to happen? (link)
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hey girl,
You and your boyfriend sound so cute. From what you said, this seems different than anything you've ever experienced. This is love, this is the real thing. Since its been 1/2 a year, and you've experienced some arguments you can last. It means its not just the cute beginning of the relationship that most people experience. As long as you both want it and try when ever things get rough, I believe that you can last forever.
Congratulations of finding what you have, hold onto it.
hope it was helpful,
xoxo JAckie
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to get homecoming dress?
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try Macy's. They have some really cute desses, and some of them are pretty cheep.
hope I helped
xoxo
JAckie
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ok any one pleassee help!!! i wanna kno if anyone knows how to get the paris hilton or mischa barton scrunch hair look i absolutly love it but have no idea how to get i once read in a magazine that they use some kind of sugar cube to make it have that dry wavy look! please help i need it for to night luv ya!!!:):):) xoox (link)
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What I do for scrunched, wavy hair is take a shower, and then put a little gel in my hands and run it through my hair. Then put your hands so the tips of your hair are in your palms, and squeeze up. Squeeze all the way up to your scalp, do this all over your head. then rap your hair in a towel, and let it dry. Try not to brush your hair too much, or it will straighten out. when you take your hair out of the towel, you may want to do the squeeze thing a few more times with some more gel. and Voi la.
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I have recently told my mom I am bisexual. My bestiest best friend in the whole world is now my bestiest best girldfriend. We love to hang at her house and talk. But not do anything innapproiate. I would love to tell my mom. But the issue is that if I do, I'm afraid she won't let us hang out without being supervised. We not into getiing "physical". We just love eachothers company. I would love to tell my mom. She has given me great advice on my other relationships. But I also value me and my girlfriends time alone. Anybody have any suggestions on how to handle this.
From ~ A girl
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I think that you should start by saying to your mom.. "hey mom what do you think of me being in a relationship with a girl" and if she seams to be open and happy then say because something is starting to happen between you and your friend. If she says shes ok with it, but she seams kinda of hesitant and not full heartily honestly happy for you, then don't tell her about the friend. Just say "ok just wondering, thanks mom"
Hope all goes well.
xoxo
Jackie
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hi i am a sex addict i have never acctually had sex but i do it to myself all the time is this bad i mean i am just so addicted i need help on knowing if this is bad.....please help. (link)
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hey, practically everyone touches themselves. If you like to do it to the point where you're doing that instead of other things that you're in trouble. But if you're addicted to touching yourself it's not like you can give your self STDs or anything. It's fine. When you actually have sex you'll be wowed!! lol
:)
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what is a quote that says something like those...im not gay or bi but ill date any one i care for...it ssays something like that.will someone please tell me the quote and/or other ones (link)
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how about... "I date for Love not Labels!"
I'm sorry that you didn't like my answer, I tried.
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Okay, so me and my boyfriend were having sex on the internet (because he lives far off) and after, he asked "did you really cum?". I told him no, and I tried again. When nothing happened, I started to worry that it would mean I couldn't ever reproduce. I'm female, and turning 15. So shouldn't that mean I was developed enough to? What do I do? Someone help please. (link)
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It is hard to get us girls to cum. It may take a lot of work to get us to. The quickest way to get your self, or for him to get you, to cum is stimulate your clit. (in case you aren't sure what it is, that the little ball like thing under the flap of skin at the top of your vagina) anyway, try gently rubbing that spot until you can't take it anymore. You should have an orgasm. also try fingering yourself and playing with that spot, for a blended sensation.
I hope this helps.
xoxo
Jackie
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I've been thinking about getting a pet — something extremely low maintenance. Already dead would be ideal. Where should I look? (link)
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low maintenance.. a fish, all you have to do is sprinkle some food in the bowl once a day, and if you have a filter then you really really can wait a while before you need to clean it.
with hamsters you only need to feed them about once or twice a week. and you don't need to change the cage very often, until it looks/smells really badly or until grass starts growing in there. (hamster food consists of seeds) but for them you really do need to play with them often so they become friendly.
hope that helps.
xoxo
Jackie
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my armpits sweat really, really, REALLY bad all the time. i've tried tons of different deodorants, & nothing seems to help. it's so embarrassing. any suggestions? (link)
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Hey, a lot of people have this problem. First of all make sure that what you are using is an ANTIPERSPIRANT rather than a deodorant. Antiperspirants block pores in your underarms stopping you from sweating. Deodorants just smell good to stop the odor coming from the sweat. Also, try anything that is called Clinical Strength, which means it's basically prescription strong,, but you can get it at any drug store or supermarket.
Hope you get it under control :)
xoxo
Jackie
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the girls at school wont stop teasing me im a tomboy (the only tomboy at school and im happy with the way i am i wouldnt trade being able to play ball with the boys and dress the way i want for the world) so that maybe the reason they tease me but i never teased them in my life teasing is mean i belive you shouldnt be mean to some one eles to treat other people the way you want to be treated but i feel really bad about the things they said one girl even said "at least im not afraid to be a girl" to me it made me feel really really sad here are some of the things they have said to me before:
"You are lesbian"
"The proms coming up soon who are you going with,oh wait no one would want a mud covered boy looking girl to go to the prom with"
"Where have you been wresling pigs"
"You are so freaky why cant you just be a girl"
Those are just a few of the things that they have said to me and every time my birthday comes around all the girls give me make up sets and those pink butterfly shirts the only people that are nice to me are the boys what should i do about this i really want them to stop thank you so much to whoever answers this question i really apreciate it (link)
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I think that these girls need to go away. They really are jealous of you. I'm sure you are a great girl. These girls are don't believe to be your friends. And you don't need them! If it were me, I would come back with snappy remarks.. they shut bratty girls up you would say stuff like "don't be jealous I'm with the guys" or "I don't need to wear pink and act like a bimbo to feel like a girl" or "I'm more a woman than you will ever be" or "are you sure you're not the lesbian? paying so much attention to me.." but if you feel that those are too mean, then I think that you should juwst ignore then and let the get bored..
good luck, and I hope that they stop being mean
*jackie*
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17/f. I have had an awful year. And I thought the worst was over at the end of the year. (I don't feel like explaining it; it doesn't really have anything to do with this...well sort of but I don't have to explain.) Anyway...I cut myself. And I haven't for say about a week, but I really have been wanting to lately. It drives me crazy; I sit there and my entire mind is focused on that. It drives me crazy when I force myself not to cut. Just like right now. I really want to and it is really hard to just not give in. And I know I should probably talk to someone, but I have a really hard time opening up to people, especially those I don't know. However, there is this teacher that I have talked to before. So, if I told him, then maybe it would be easier to talk to a counselor, or he could help me or convince me to talk to someone or something. I know I can't do it on my own. I don't know what to do anymore. What should I do? And if I do end up talking to a counselor, they don't have to tell my parents, do they? It'll stay confidential? (link)
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Hey, I just want to let you know, you're not alone. A lot of teenage girls cut. My best friend did for a while. I understand that it's really hard to stop, and I don't know you, but I'm prould of you for trying so hard to stop!
anyway, yeah I think that if you feel confortable with this teacher that you should tell him, he can help you, and then refer you to a counselor, they don't have to tell your parents, but it may be a good idea for them to know. If you parents know then they can get you help from a doctor or a "shrink". They may help you better than your school can. But that's up to you. It's your body and your choice. Your feelings.
I hope I helped
*jackie*
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Says that organisms that engage in homeostasis have needs, and one of those needs are sex. How does Maslow's Theory apply to asexual people? (Do not crave/want/need sex.) (link)
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I sort of agree with the other person who responded.. but the thing is the monks and Buddists ect. are not the only asexual people, those people choose to be, but some people do not have a choice, they just don't feel the disire to have sex. but other than that, the other person was right. Maslow wasn't thinking about asexual people, he just made a generalization. I hope that I helped
*jackie*
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so the other day i got my first pube, and it was really long for some reason. it wasnt that curly but i dont know why it was so long, it didnt match the color of my hair either. IT WAS RED and my hair is blonde i dont know why this is happening. I am really confused because it was my first one and i am 18 and im quite nervous. My brother who is 12 said he has 6 already and im jealous of him i want more pubes. Should i shave them or cut them with some scissors or what im not really sure please help me (link)
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its ok that your hair is red. Red hair is just a darker form of blond. most people have black hair, which is darker brown. so its ok. You shouldn't be jealous of your brother or anyone else with pubic hair. most people hate it, and do what they can to get rid of it. If it bothers you you can trim it.but I wouldn't shave it until all of it has fully grown in. Don't worry
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