18, f.
how can you tell someone you want to be sexual with them if you dont know 100% they feel the same? i dont want to make a fool of myself but everytime we hangout it's so intense, we flirt like crazy but he gives mixed signals. i know we're both attracted to each other but we've also been good friends for awhile now too so its hard to tell. how can i let him know i really want him, and to please him haha okay that sounded kinda stupid but you know what i mean. i need some suggestions when i'm with him and when texting without completely saying like i want to have sex with you or something as of that because if he didnt feel the same i would feel extremely dumb. but this has been going on long enough, he turns me on everytime i see him!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? TLBSANDIEGO answered Monday April 20 2009, 5:44 pm: Well the problem i see is that you have been friends,with this guy for awhile if you come forward and say that you intrested in having sex with him, and after you stay friends it can make things a little ackward.so my advice to you would be ask him how he feels about you and if the feelings are the same then maybe look at having a relanship then bring the sex topic up.I have seen some of the best and strong relaniships are based on friends first so you have somthing that most people dont have.Good luck I hope this helped.
oldhickory answered Tuesday March 24 2009, 2:55 pm: why apologize! this stuff makes me so angry. games..they are all games and you don't even realize it. the women that give you advice. that's great advice for someone who wants to enter into a passive agressive bullship relationship. Here's what you do. You act like a big girl and you tell him, he turns you on. And then you see what happens. And then you deal with the consequences like a big girl. [ oldhickory's advice column | Ask oldhickory A Question ]
bigflirtbabe answered Monday March 23 2009, 5:48 pm: wow, seems kinda complicated. I think you should be subtle because you don't want to freak him out by being too forward like saying "wanna have sex?" lol so I would try flirting with him, but kick it up a notch. start by saying "hey sexy" then maybe on a text mention that you just got out of the shower or something. then jokingly say "maybe next time u should join" or something. anything to get him thinking about you naked. then maybe he'll respond jokingly and then it can escalate into the real thing.
Dearbookworm answered Monday March 23 2009, 4:40 pm: If you really like this guy and he turns you on so much that you have the urdge to have sex with him.You should first ask him what he is feeling.
You said that he gives off mix signals find out what signal you are to him and ask him nicely to keep it. Then ask him if he is into you if he would like to ever has sex.
That is what I would do first figure out what signal he is giving me and then ask if he likes me and then go into if he would ever has sex with anyone. If he say's yes ask with what gender because he might say yes but only with guys who really knows these days.
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