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Is it acceptable to go out with someone you known for years is he or she is married? (link)
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it depends on who's acceptance you are seeking my friend. Im betting you know the answer to 99% of them.
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14/f
Okay, when I masturbate, I think of guys at first, but suddenly, I start thinking of other females and I really don't like it after I'm finished. I'm very confused. Could I possibly be bisexual or what? I talked to a doctor and he just says I'm 'experimenting'. Could that also be it? That I'm straight, but just going through 'the stage'? (link)
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here's what it means....it means that you are thinking of guys at first and then girls...and it can turn out that in the end you like guys and girls or girls on wednesdays' and guys on thursdays. or Girl guys. None of it matters. It's what gets you hot...it doesn't define you as a person and it never will unless you make it that way. it's your business how you get off young lady, until the day you die. The second you make it someone elses...you create yourself a problem. Don't be ashamed but don't think you are going to get 100% acceptance from people. Because that is never going to happen. The quicker you learn that our opinions don't matter, the happier you'll turn out. (Just don't hurt anyone ok?)
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18, f.
how can you tell someone you want to be sexual with them if you dont know 100% they feel the same? i dont want to make a fool of myself but everytime we hangout it's so intense, we flirt like crazy but he gives mixed signals. i know we're both attracted to each other but we've also been good friends for awhile now too so its hard to tell. how can i let him know i really want him, and to please him haha okay that sounded kinda stupid but you know what i mean. i need some suggestions when i'm with him and when texting without completely saying like i want to have sex with you or something as of that because if he didnt feel the same i would feel extremely dumb. but this has been going on long enough, he turns me on everytime i see him!!! (link)
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why apologize! this stuff makes me so angry. games..they are all games and you don't even realize it. the women that give you advice. that's great advice for someone who wants to enter into a passive agressive bullship relationship. Here's what you do. You act like a big girl and you tell him, he turns you on. And then you see what happens. And then you deal with the consequences like a big girl.
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I am 20/f my father moved out a year ago and things didnt end on a good note. I am in a very HAPPY 3 year realtionship. My sister just moved out and i live at home alone with my mother. I do not have any friends that I go out with so the only times I go out I go with my bf and his friends which isnt a problem because i like his friends. I just watched a movie called I Love You, Man. Its about a guy who doesnt have any friends and his fiance is woried he may become too clingy. I have that worry. I worry that I will drive my bf away or I will make him dislike things about it. Because of this worry or fear I tend to sometimes be emotional and cry infront of him. I do not like to let him see me cry I want him to never see the empty sad side of me. Me and my sister don't really ahve a friendship and me and my mom have NO realtionship. She is over clingy because she has no one, even though she has friends who want ot go out with her she doesnt want to, she just wants to be with her daughters and will ask me and my sister for permission to go out. She annoys me, she eats with her hands, chews really loud talks with her mouth full, IS CLINGY and always wants a phone call morning and evening to know where we are who we are with and what we are doing. I am afraid she may be the very reason I feel so UCK! When i was young i never went out much, my motehr didnt let me, I tried to join sports teams so i could get out and she wouldnt allow it. I blame her for not having good friends now and I just want to move out and live on my own, especially now that I have seen how happy my sister is, Im jealous. I am also going to school in september to work with kids and hopefully that will help. I need advice on how to fill my Empty hole. I speak to my boyfriend about this situation so much I don't want him to worry about me or our relationship. I don't want to talk about it with him anymore, there is nothing he can do. I don't even know what my question is. I just want opinions and thoughts on my situation. Please just tell me whta you think I should do!!!!! (link)
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I think you should go for a jog....and I'm not remotely joking. Your emotions are getting the better of you...they can do that. Don't repress them...that's worse...get them out. All sorts of ways. Find constructive ones. At least then you are moving forward to a new place. Because the one you are in now...doesn't sound fun.
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Blake(Sophomore,15,M) Ok not too long ago i told my gf that i don't live near how i feel. Before this we would basically text 24/7. We decided we are going to meet up in college since her mom doesn't want her to have any bf's before college. Now my problem is that ever since i told her how i feel she seems to be dodging me. Most of the time it's when i get to talking about seeing her or when we get to college. She always seems to have to go, and i am barely able to talk to her at all now I miss the long texting conversations we would have and occasionally talked over the phone. I don't understand do you think she is dodging me and if so do you know of anyways I can get her to be like she was before? Thank you in advance! (link)
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she's not into it the way you are or she'd be texting you the way you text her..wouldn't she? Move on. Not easy. But do not wait.
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I was in a wonderful relationship 2 years ago. I ended up in the hospital for 2 months in a coma. When i woke up in the hospital i found out i was pregnant, but my boyfriend changed his number and moved. I think he thought I didnt want to be with him anymore, he didnt know I was in the hospital. I tried for a long time to find him, but could'nt until recently. I got his phone number, but he has a girlfriend. I want to tell him we had a little boy who died 4 days after birth. I am nervous to call him, but I'm not sure what to do. (link)
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anyone that thinks they were in a wonderful relationship to a man that doesn't know when his wonderful partner goes into a coma for 2 months is probably a pro at fooling themselves. And...if I were to dig deeper..you have fooled yourself into thinking you can't get as good as this guy...you are wrong. You change, start thinking about yourself as valuable and move on. Calling him is a complete waste of time. Now...if the kid lived...Different story. All you are doing is dragging up mud. Drama. Drama Drama. Sorry Friend, you said you wanted advice.
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I'm beginning the college search process, and I would love to hear some suggestions of schools to check out! Here's some personal info:
GPA: 3.8
SATs: 2200
Am taking many AP courses, fluent in another language and a dual citizen, interested in foreign languages and linguistics, and history and philosophy. The school must have a good music program.
Thanks for the help! (link)
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My only advice to you is this...when you narrow your choices down and you are actually visiting them, pick a few kids randomnly and ask them what they think about the school. Don't go to any of them unless the words "this place is awesome" come out of their mouth. There are so many colleges that offer awesome experiences that have what you want...just make sure you find one.
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I'm in my 20s, in a long-term relationship. That said, I am well aware that I could become pregnant if I am having sex. I am old enough and in a situation where I can deal with the consequences, so I really don't need any sex ed lectures. Thanks in advance :)
Last year, I was on Depo Provera (up until the end of August). For those who are not familiar, it does stop the user from menstruating entirely. I got my last injection in May of 2008.
Since then, my fiance and I have been using only condoms, putting them on halfway through. We are both aware that semen can escape before climax.
I have not had a proper period since December. I spot occasionally, but nothing substantial. I've been feeling nauseous on occasion, and have gained weight (although that might be due to other circumstances).
I have taken several home pregnancy tests and gone to the doctor to get blood tests. All negative.
The reason I am concerned is that when my mother was pregnant with me, all of her tests came back negative too. She didn't find out until 7 months. Doctors have reassured me that this is rare. Not all that reassuring, though, if you ask me.
My question is, should I believe my test results? How do I find out if it's legitimate? Anyone else had a similar problem? (link)
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How will knowing this answer sooner than you can see for yourself change a thing in your behavior? Start acting like a grown up now, and if you are pregnant you might make a good mother.
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hey,
well you see i really liked this guy named Robert on my cruise and he liked me. He was from tennesee and i'm from canada,
so it clearly doesn't work out and i tried to tell myself this and i still can't get over him,
he ment alot, and i haven't liked another guy since.. HELP . (link)
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you got three options. 1. Go forward with him. 2. Go forward without him. 3. Stay stuck.
I tell you this, as someone who has chosen to stay stuck for 4 years.
Accept this is what you are doing and it slightly more palatable.
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My friends and I have been debating all week on the meaning of love. I think it's more than a feeling etc. etc., but their opinions are more physically based. I'm running out of ideas...
What is love? (link)
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be done with it already .....
Pronunciation: \ˈləv\
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English, from Old English lufu; akin to Old High German luba love, Old English lēof dear, Latin lubēre, libēre to please
Date: before 12th century
1 a (1): strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties (2): attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers (3): affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests b: an assurance of love
2: warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion
3 a: the object of attachment, devotion, or admiration b (1): a beloved person : darling —often used as a term of endearment (2)British —used as an informal term of address
4 a: unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another: as (1): the fatherly concern of God for humankind (2): brotherly concern for others b: a person's adoration of God
5: a god or personification of love
6: an amorous episode : love affair
7: the sexual embrace : copulation
8: a score of zero (as in tennis)
9capitalized Christian Science : god
— at love : holding one's opponent scoreless in tennis
— in love : inspired by affection
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