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Should I continue looking for him?
I was in a wonderful relationship 2 years ago. I ended up in the hospital for 2 months in a coma. When i woke up in the hospital i found out i was pregnant, but my boyfriend changed his number and moved. I think he thought I didnt want to be with him anymore, he didnt know I was in the hospital. I tried for a long time to find him, but could'nt until recently. I got his phone number, but he has a girlfriend. I want to tell him we had a little boy who died 4 days after birth. I am nervous to call him, but I'm not sure what to do.
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anyone that thinks they were in a wonderful relationship to a man that doesn't know when his wonderful partner goes into a coma for 2 months is probably a pro at fooling themselves. And...if I were to dig deeper..you have fooled yourself into thinking you can't get as good as this guy...you are wrong. You change, start thinking about yourself as valuable and move on. Calling him is a complete waste of time. Now...if the kid lived...Different story. All you are doing is dragging up mud. Drama. Drama Drama. Sorry Friend, you said you wanted advice.
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CALL HIM SOON! he needs to know he most likely thinks that you just got bored and left him or something. He was probably really hurt and needed to forget about you so he moved. But now that you found him again tell him what happened and that you didnt leave him and tell him everything he needs to know about you and his little boy (which im so sorry to hear about =/ ) well i wish you the best of luck and i hope i helped =]
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im soo sorry to hear about your little boy..thats soo sad.well to me i think you should tell him what happened because right now he doesnt know the truth he prolly thinks you stood him up or ran away with another guy he must of hurt soo much and you should tell him the truth i would and plus id want to know..you went through all of this on your own and he should atleast no about it.you should also talk to him and find out why he moved and changed his number or what happened in the 2 months time period.i think even though he has a girlfriend you should still tell him but dont spring it on to strongly.if it was me id ask him to go out for dinner with you because you want to explain to him what happened and that its important he hears it so that he can know you looked for him and tried your best to find him. did this help?
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I'm sorry to hear all this
Alot can happen over the course of 2 years, I know you said he never knew you were in the hospital but now it's 2 years later and he moved on into another relationship, He changed his number and moved. I would question myself why he never called while you were in the hospital...I know you mentioned that you two had a child who passed away 4 days after birth. (I'm so sorry to hear that too) but the thing is why would you want to bring it up? It will only hurt him to hear the bad news. I know it was his son but his son has passed. You could still call him and tell him but I can't garantee that you will get a positive response. I would personally try and move on, 2 years has passed now and I think if he really wanted to know what happened he would of called or tried to find out instead of just leaving.
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