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the girls at school


Question Posted Wednesday January 23 2008, 6:46 pm

the girls at school wont stop teasing me im a tomboy (the only tomboy at school and im happy with the way i am i wouldnt trade being able to play ball with the boys and dress the way i want for the world) so that maybe the reason they tease me but i never teased them in my life teasing is mean i belive you shouldnt be mean to some one eles to treat other people the way you want to be treated but i feel really bad about the things they said one girl even said "at least im not afraid to be a girl" to me it made me feel really really sad here are some of the things they have said to me before:

"You are lesbian"
"The proms coming up soon who are you going with,oh wait no one would want a mud covered boy looking girl to go to the prom with"
"Where have you been wresling pigs"
"You are so freaky why cant you just be a girl"

Those are just a few of the things that they have said to me and every time my birthday comes around all the girls give me make up sets and those pink butterfly shirts the only people that are nice to me are the boys what should i do about this i really want them to stop thank you so much to whoever answers this question i really apreciate it


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mothernature answered Wednesday January 23 2008, 9:30 pm:
Don't worry about what those girls say you know who you are and thats all that counts they are just jealous with you because you get along with the guys better than they do all they care about is oh my eye liner is running or my boobs are to small i totaly need botox injections in my lips. You are who you are and it doesnt matter what they say i have the same problem people at my school call me punk goth or emo but just because i dress the way i do doesnt mean im not good person they make fun of me and ask me if i cut myself no.... i hang out with the guys too but i know one day that while they are suffering from botox side effects ill be pursuing my carreer in what ever i choose to do and ill show them hey listen this is the person you made fun of how do you like me now....

_Me_

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Jadie answered Wednesday January 23 2008, 8:59 pm:
lol, i get the same probs but not from girls, from GUYS, it's awful then again i usually jus say something back, teehee but you should just relaxe they are probably jealous of you because you can knock 'em out, or you can just ignore 'em or tell on them, i kno it's snitching but, if they dont stop, you should really do something about it. for me i would just beat the guys up or throw my shoe at them, haha, well good luck ^^

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bigflirtbabe answered Wednesday January 23 2008, 8:43 pm:
I think that these girls need to go away. They really are jealous of you. I'm sure you are a great girl. These girls are don't believe to be your friends. And you don't need them! If it were me, I would come back with snappy remarks.. they shut bratty girls up you would say stuff like "don't be jealous I'm with the guys" or "I don't need to wear pink and act like a bimbo to feel like a girl" or "I'm more a woman than you will ever be" or "are you sure you're not the lesbian? paying so much attention to me.." but if you feel that those are too mean, then I think that you should juwst ignore then and let the get bored..

good luck, and I hope that they stop being mean
*jackie*

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orphans answered Wednesday January 23 2008, 8:33 pm:
Those girls are super mean. If I was there I would punch them all out for you, and they are just jealous because your hanging out with all of the boys and they're not.
But if you want them to stop, ignore them. They are just immature little girls who are gonna grow up and pump your gas while your driving in a mercedes benz with a guy beside you. Yeah, that's right. And I know that it goes against your morals to be mean to people, so I'm not going to tell you to be mean to them, because why change yourself? And I know that taking their criticism from them is hard, but I give you MAJOR points for even realizing that being mean and hurtful to other people is not the way to be. Most people never learn that, and why stoop down to their level?
You are a unique, beautiful, fun, and friendly person. You have your guy friends who I'm sure have your back, so why don't you casually tell one of them whats going on, I'm sure they will stick up for you.
My advice is to just be who you are, and if it really gets to the point where you can't take their bullying anymore, tell a techer, counselor, or your parents. Because this needs to be stopped and they need to be repremanded, you should not be trested this way.
Good luck sweetheart!

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