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is my boyfriend psycho?
so i guess the title for this question wasnt a very nice one haha but it got you reading it. well i do love my boyfriend to death we have been dating for 6 months. im 16 hes 15. theres just a few small problems. everything will be going fine, then sudenly a few weeks ago he wanted to take a break. all the lovey dovey stuff stopped n he really didnt seem to care about me anymore. well now we are back together and all the lovey dovey stuff has started again. he says he loves me more than anything. thats what he said before the breakup too. most days he is great and i love him so much. i couldnt imagine being with another guy. but some days he is in the worst mood and he will practically ignore me. i really try to help him out and i put up with so much stuff just for him. he is very outgoing so its not like him to be quiet and i always think its something i did. but he gets in different moods all the time. is he bipolar? he acts completely normal other than the mood swings and is captain of the football and lax team. hes popular and a really funny guy. but he also has told me that he hears voices in his head. he doesnt act like its a big deal and yesterday a voice told him to jump off a building. he obviously didnt listen haha but he doesnt act like his mental problems effect him much but the break and his mood swings make me think maybe they do. i dont want him to start listening to these voices in his head or go crazy one day. and i dont want his bipolar watever you want to call it mood swings, to effect are relationship either. i know he has suffered from depression and possibly still is. but he acts like hes the happiest guy in the world. you would never guess. does he have schizophrenia or bipolar or something else? any advice?
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he might just have an anxiety disorder. mood swings and hallucinations are caused by it even though anxiety disorder is hard to deal with he will be ok just go to the doctor n theyl take it from there. btw he doesnt sound schizophrenic or bipolar and please dont call him psycho..
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Maybe he is a tad off...hopefully he's not goin to that extent just 2 get u 2 leave him alone. At least tell him 1rst that you are worried about him so when u do go tell someone a counselor or cool school teacher he won't get super defensive. But don't be afraid 2 say something to him about how he is acting and let him know you are there to help.
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Sounds like he may have schizophreina by the way it sounds. But you also need to make him see a therapist or something. Because sooner or later he is going to start listening to those voices and that can't be good. So try to get him to go to a therapist more than likely he needs medication.
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if you think he was being serious then you may want to tell someone, like a school councilor or his parents, or even yours. If the voices are telling him to hurt himself it might be a big problem, and you obviously don't want him to kill himself. If you love him you'll try to get him help. Once he has help with this he most likely won't have such extreme mood swings and you guys will be even closer because he'll know you're there for him no matter what.
I hope all works out for you two <3
xoxo Jackie
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He might be bipoler or he is just having a rough year. i would talk about to him and dicuss what is going on in your relationship. Knowing that your not waisting your time is always a good thing. If he has suffered from depression figure out what that is unless you already know then just ask him to talk about it. okay don't pressure him into talking just suggest it and if wishes to talk he will. but for right now i would slowly try to figure out what is wrong ask his friends family and piece it all together.
Good luck hoped i helped you.
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