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Idk if I should Lose My Virginity
I want To Lose My virginty. IAm Only 15 But iDont if I Should casue iam Kind of Thick and I am really Uncomfortable With My Body.
Like I Want To But Some People Say It Hurts And That I Shoudntt.
So I Just Thought That i Would ASk You
What Age Did You Lose Your Virginty And If I Should or nott.?
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Okay, I'll be completely honest, I'm 16 and my boyfriend will be 18 in november. We have been going out since Valentine's Day this year (like 5.5 months now), and we haven't had sex. I am a little heavy as well, but when I'm with him he doesn't seem like he cares. I feel so comfortable around him, because I know he loves me, and I love him. (even tho i am losing weight haha)
My questions are:
- do you have a boyfriend? because I really would want your first time to be with someone you love and wanna be with your whole life. you should love him and know that he isnt using you for the sex and your relationship will only be sexual. once you have a boyfriend, make sure to take it nice and slow, you want your first time to mean something!
- are your friends virgins? im not saying they arent, but from what i assume, some of your friends have had sex, and you think 15 is a good age to start? dont worry or get offended, thats how i kinda am too, once i heard one of my friends is having sex with her boyfriend, i was really considering doing it with my boyfriend.
- if the boy you want to lose your virginity with really truly loves you, he wont care if you have a few extra pounds! if youre THAT uncomfortable with it, it doesnt hurt to do situps or something, but thats totally up to you.
from what it sounds like, you want to just lose the virginity and you are currently single. i strongly suggest that you wait until that guy comes along, so it will mean a lot. also, i have a lot of guy friends, some that are a little older, and they said if they had a girlfriend who wasnt a virgin, they would be a little offended, because youre still young, and you obviously felt really strongly for someone before them. i hope you can understand from a guys point of view. like say you stayed a virgin, and you met a guy and loved him, would you want to hear that he had sex with...you dont know for sure how many girls? i really wouldnt. so i guess my advice: wait for the a guy that you love and loves you, take it slow, and when the time comes, use protection and a pill! haha
hope that helped, thanks for coming to me,
val (16/f)
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