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Due to assholes on the site and people who have no idea what the hell they are talking about I have left the site. Ahem, Dangernerd...Who likes to make assumptions about people when they do not know them ;) Then has brass balls to go search up whatever information he can gather so he has back fire to use whenever he feels like starting a little hissy fit. Let me remind those who read this, Dangernerd has a nasty tendency of using what you post on the site against you if you where to ever have a problem with someone on the site. Mind you, He likes to gather false information in a way that he thinks will benefit him in the long run. This site is run by someone who doesn't have class, Who likes to pigeon hole people. The same guy who supposedly is running an "ADVICE" column but somehow has pre-teens asking about sex and how to do sexual things to their "partners" this site is also filled with people giving advice that is NOT helpful or use full in any form rather than most encouraging the young ones. Well lets get to the bottom of it, This site is a laughing matter. Dangernerd is a joke and couldn't be a bigger clown ;)
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This is embarrassing but I'd like some advice on it, I suppose. I'm an adult, by the way, not some 10 year old.
Three nights ago I was laying in bed. I was VERY, VERY tired and had really had such a long day. I was so incredibly wore out that I drifted off to sleep within seconds of my head hitting the pillow. Four hours later, when I was deep into my dreamland, something very unhappy happened.
I was dreaming that I had to pee very badly. I was trying to find a toilet in my dream. I was on a boat, rocking back and forth, and there were so many people around. I felt yucky on the boat but I had to GO! I was afraid I was going to wet myself in front of the crew members but, luckily, I found a restroom in the center of the ship. I sat down and began to urinate. On. Myself!
I felt the warmth of the pee on my legs and got scared and woke up from the dream. I thought at first maybe I just got startling THINKING I had peed myself but...the sheets were wet. It's REALLY embarrassing. I'm a grown adult in my 20s. I shouldn't be peeing the bed any more.
I'm not sick. I don't have any bladder problems or urinary tract infections. I haven't had an accident since I was like 8 years old at the oldest. I don't know why I "went" on myself! I don't know if I should see a doctor about it or not since I can't really figure out what may have caused this. I know adults don't do this and I don't know if I could admit it face-to-face to somebody anyway. :\
I'm mortified and now very afraid it's going to happen again!
So, I had an accident on the bed that night but I'm a grown adult now and shouldn't be having issues like that. What's wrong with me?!?!
Tips:
If you are drinking to much before bed, I suggest take it easy on the liquid intake.
Try to use the restroom before you go to bed at night
I'm not sure if you are on medications, but some medications can cause this problem.
This is some useful information I found on Wiki..
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nocturnal_enuresis
The best thing to do is call the doctor, It could be a medical issue that needs attention. As we cannot give a diagnosis on the site.
okay my cousin is having her baby in a week or two and we still dont know what to name it. We are not sure if its a boy or girl but we all think its a boy. What are good names for a boy? She loves the letter D. And N or J for a girl. Guys please help we cant think of anything!
Her best bet is to pick up a baby naming book
Here is a list of some good names
Boy
Damaine
Desmond
David
Dejay
Daniel
Derek
Girl
Nevaeh
Nicole
Nayomi
Jaqueline
Julianna
Natalie
Jailynn
Jaleah
Jennifer
Jade
Jasmine
I'm going to try to keep this from getting too long, but I don't know if that is possible! I'm 20 years old, in school and working while living with my mom. My parents just got divorced in January. My dad cheated on my mom with two different women- both were ongoing affairs and he is still seeing the last woman. My mom has been with him since she was 16 and is devistated. My dad was not involved in my life while I was growing up. He didn't show any interest in me and was very verbally abusive. Now that he is divorced, he sees what he lost and now is trying to be a part of my life. I appreciate it... however, I'm just so incredibly disgusted by him and seeing my mom so upset and depressed really makes me resent him. I don't know how to move forward with this and how far into my life I should let him. It's a tough situation. Thoughts?
Forgiveness is a word that has a million meanings.
This is a choice only YOU can make, Sometimes people do things in life that we can never forget. However, Remember you have one father and whatever choice you make in life he will always be your dad. Resenting your father is understandable considering all that has happened. A question you need to ask yourself is...Are you able to forgive him? One thing I've always told everyone who has a problem with someone is "Whatever choice you make, Make sure you don't go to your grave with regrets." Life is short, It is what we make it and sometimes choices we make in life become ones that have consequences. If you decide to burn the bridge with your father know that apart of you may always feel "empty". On the other hand if you decide to cut ties, Are you able to live with the consequences? I ask because I myself do not have a father due to a similar situation. Some say a person is perfectly capable of forgiveness. I say, We all have our limitations to how many times our feelings will be stepped on. YOU know your father better than us advicenators, Only you know if your father will choose his wife, If he is serious about being a role model from here on out. This is a choice you need to make. Are you able to deal with the fact that your father is with the woman that he was seeing while he was married to your mother? Are you able to except her? These are questions you need to ask yourself and when you have the answers you have yet to decide.
im 15/f.
And i had sex maybe 3-4 days after my period. It was not protected, and he came in me. He didnt pull out fast, but, he did pull out. I have been feeling sick. Its been a week today since we had sex. And i cant take an acurate pregnancy test tell the 23rd. Is there a good chance im pregnant?
thanks in advance.
Yes,
Condom, birth control, pull out, there is always a possibility. If you want to be safe I suggest using precaution.
(19/f) when I woke up I went to the bathroom and as I wiped in the front.. i noticed a really thick mucus all over "it". It took quite a bit to get it all off. It was just a clear/white color and I didn't even notice it. I've never had this happen before. Any idea what it is or what caused it?
Thank you!
This would be a discharge.
Many woman experience it from time to time.
15/f
Okay, every night, I have the same dream. It started about two weeks and has never happened before. In the dream, I am in India speaking to a child named Boujeet. It always goes bad when his eyes turn black and he opens his mouth. I try running but get no where. Everytime I run, I trip. Oddly, he drops dead right before he catches me. But, I soon realize that I am falling into a black abyss with no bottom.. I don't know what this means..? Can anyone give me some advice on how to stop the dreams or what they could possibly mean?? Thanks in advance
Courtesy of Dreammoods.com
Fall
To dream that you fall and are frightened, indicates a lack of control, insecurity, and/or lack of support in your waking life. You may be experiencing some major struggle and/or overwhelming problem. It may denote that you have failed to achieve a goal that you have set forth for yourself.
Chase
To dream that you are being chased, signifies that you are avoiding a situation that you do not think is conquerable. It is often a metaphor for some form of insecurity. In particular, to dream that you are chased by an animal, represents your own unexpressed and unacknowledged anger which is being projected onto that animal. Alternatively, you may be running away from a primal urge or fear.
Child/Death of a child
The loss of a child, signifies fallen hopes or a project.
If someone you loved & cared about got drunk and had sex with some other girl, what would you do?
If you are in a relationship with this person, I would dump them. Why? Despite whether or not he/she was drunk they are still in control of their own actions. Someone who drinks is well aware of the consequences that can happen when the take in to much alcohol. Clearly, There is no excuse. When someone picks up a bottle they decide whether or not they want to drink it nobody else decides for them. It categorizes as cheating
18/f
Today when I was changing my pad, because I'm on my periods, I say a tiny pinworm wriggling on it. I am so afraid as it what it is and etc. Is it going to kill me? Am I rotting down there?
Please help me.
Thanks..
This is a good site to lay down all the questions
http://www.medicinenet.com/pinworm_infection/article.htm
I would call the doctor
2 Months ago my dog started itching uncontrollably, i took him to our groomer and they said he had a bad case of dry skin. After that i made sure to follow what they told me to do, but he wasnt getting any better.
He has chewed off all the lower fur on his back legs, has itched off his stomach fur, and front leg fur to the point where it is bleeding and or scabbed over, and just tonight he chewed all of the fur off from over his butt and had a huge gaping gash. I dont know what to do, i know i need to take him to the vet tomorrow and i plan on doing that, but i just dont understand how dry skin could be doing this?!
Also i need to know if vets will accept payment plans, i dont get paid till next friday, and im afraid they'll turn my dog away. Please help im scared for my dog
My dog has experienced the same problem in the past, Try using flea shampoo three times a week. There is also a cream you can buy at the pet store that is for dry skin. It works great, My dog since has bit very little. If you DO have a case of fleas in the house you could try frontline. If your dog is a long haired a haircut would be recommended.
I'm just curious if a parent allows their child to drive without a permit & they get caught what happens? Does the parent get their license suspended? (:
Depending on the state they all have different consequences.
You could be denied a license until you are 18 maybe even 21. Not to mention you could very well end up doing community service and possible juvenile time.
The parents could get their license suspended and possibly have charges pressed, arrested or a big fat fine. It all depends but they as well as you would be looking at court charges.
Not a very smart idea kiddo
18f, it's so sad to say I can't stop shaking right now because of what i just heard and this whole situation. it may be long but i'm honestly depressed because of this so i will return the favor 100%.
there is this guy i like, his name is joe. we have known each other for a while. he broke up with his girlfriend of two years about 6 months ago, now he is a free man. he doesn't know what he wants though, he's kind of playing the field. one time he will be flirting with me and putting his arms around me, the next he will be cuddling with another girl by the fireplace.
sometimes i feel like he is intimidated by me which makes him shy away and not necessarily "put the moves on me" first. i'm older than him, by about a year and everyone tells me how gorgeous i am (do not want to sound conceited) so i'm thinking that may be the reason he isn't so out there with me.
it's basically between me and this other girl - samantha. the funny thing is my cousin nick, is joes good friend and also next door neighbor. joe goes back and forth between me and samantha, and we're both nicks cousins, from other sides of the family. it's a confusing situation!! i really dislike her, for good reasons. well bascially joe thinks that i don't know what he does with samantha, but my cousin (nicks sister) tells me everything. so a couple months ago i confronted joe about it asking if he liked her. of course he denied it saying "if i liked her i'd be dating her by now." then he was like why are you jealous? and i was like no, i just don't like her. and if you like her just tell me the honest truth because i want to know.
well tonight my cousin texts me saying that she walked in from coming home and saw joe and samantha cuddling by the fireplace. when i got the text, my hands started shaking and it ruined my whole night. i can't take this any more. why won't he admit to me that he likes her? joe hasn't kissed either of us, we don't get physical and i know samantha has never even kissed a guy before.
samantha uses nick to get to joe, and it upsets me. i will go to nicks to hang out with NICK, not to hopefully see joe like samantha does. when she is over there she doesnt even talk to nick and i tell nick this and he doesn't even say anything. it makes me so mad.
joe hasn't told either of us that he likes us, and i havent even told him i liked him but i just thought the feeling was mutual. i just feel like i don't even want him touching me anymore because i'm so much better than that, and than her. but next time he tries, i feel like i should say something about samantha but i don't want to sound like a creep and be like "i heard this, and this and this.." that would just be awkward.
how do i control this situation?? i can't stop thinking about it. i feel like she won, and i won't let that happen ..
If the guy is playing the field then that should tell you he isn't for a serious relationship, If he dates Samantha that doesn't mean she won in fact let her have him. In the end she is the one that is dating a guy that likes to toy with peoples feelings. Listen, As hard as it is to hear this someone who can't focus on one and only one is not mature enough to have a serious relationship nor is ready for commitment. Relax, Breathe, If he decides to date her then let it happen I can almost promise you by the way you've describe him that it probably won't work out anyway. Clearly, The guy is immature and doesn't seem to know what he wants. You focus on you, You don't deserve someone like that anyway and when the time is right you will meet someone who wants to be with you and only you. As much as it hurts you now know that if you don't end up with someone like that you've not only saved yourself a heartache but you are the stronger one in the end. Let Samantha learn the hard way...She has it coming.
so in the dreamme and my bff got kidnapped and they were trying to rape us then she just said "what ever im just gonna do it" when they tried on her sumbody finally caught them ,they were put in jail and we were safe...
can somebody explain this dream to me.
I'll gladly break it out for ya
Kidnapped
To dream that someone has been kidnapped, indicates that you are not letting aspects and characteristics of that person be expressed within you. You are trying to contain and/or suppress those qualities of the kidnapped person.
Rape
To dream that you have been raped, indicates vengeful feelings toward the opposite sex. You are feeling violated in some way or being taken advantage of. Something or someone is jeopardizing your self-esteem and emotional well-being. You feel that someone or something is being forced upon you. Dreams of rape are also common for those who were actually raped in their waking life
Jail
To see a jailer in your dream, suggests that you are being restrained in some way, either by your own belief system or by someone.Alternatively, it indicates your desires to control others.
Anymore questions here is a great website
http://www.dreammoods.com/
22/f here. My ex, Nathan, is 24, and my current, Kyle, is 28. This is gonna be a bit long...
I was with Nathan for about 4 years on and off. He was emotionally abusive, but I was addicted to him. Being in the mental health field, I know a lot about addiction and how to overcome it. I broke up with him. We ended things on good terms, but I asked him to let me initiate contact at some point in the future. He has broken this agreement many times already with e-mails telling me how much he loves and misses me.
Now, Kyle and I dated during an off-period with Nathan, but I ended it because I wasn't ready to walk away from Nathan, and I recognized that. I am now, though, and I did...right back into Kyle's arms. Kyle is a wonderful man, and makes me very happy (and is a very good kisser ^_^). I have no intention of leaving him anytime soon.
The problem here is that as much as Kyle denies it, I know I have yet to earn his trust back because of the fiasco that happened with Nathan before. I told him I would keep him in the loop if Nathan decided to try anything, and ideally, Kyle and I would discuss the situation and tackle it as a couple/unit instead of me trying to handle it alone. (I did, however, promise that I would never put them together in any physical way...)
My questions are:
1. Should I tell Kyle about Nathan's recent e-mails?
It risks bringing up a very negative past, and I don't want the focus of our relationship to be how to get Nathan out of it.
2. Should I respond to an e-mail and ask him to leave me alone?
I'm hesitant about this because I know how he works - any attention is better than no attention - but I also know that he doesn't give up easily. The only reason I'm consiering it is that I understand that, legally, if you tell someone to leave you alone and they don't, you can file harrassment charges. I'm not angry at Nathan, or anything, I just don't want him to make my life hell anymore...that's why I broke up with him. I am, however, prepared to take legal action if necessary to get him away from me. He hurt me many times in many ways that could've been seriously psychologially damaging.
Anyway. I apologize for the length of this question, and I'm aware that none of you are lawyers. I'm just looking for some unprofessional, uninvolved feedback on this situation.
If you want to have a healthy relationship with Kyle and not have to deal with drama then DON'T respond to Nathan, Ignore his calls, text, emails, etc. The more you read his emails the more you are going to think about him and the harder it will make having a healthy relationship possible. No, I don't think you should tell Kyle that Nathan emailed you if anything it might cause an argument between the two of you and only make it harder for him to trust you. The next time it happens IGNORE the emails just simply delete them. In time Nathan will realize that you are serious and that you have moved on. If he continues to stalk you, Harass you then this is were you would file for a restraining order. If Kyle treats you right the way you should be treated then that is all that you should be focused on and putting your attention towards.
I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and he really, really loves me a lot. We lost our virginities together, we went to his prom last year together, and I was with him when his mom and dad divorced. I understand that he loves me a whole lot. The problem is that I don't love him and I haven't for awhile now.
I use to love him just like he loved me. As time passes I notice I don't have much feelings toward him. It's not that I wouldn't care if he died or something but I don't have any emotional pull toward him. I don't have that bond like we use to share. I don't feel butterflies when I see him or when we kiss. To be honest, I don't even want to talk to him or see him so often. I would be happy and satisfied if we only talked once every two weeks and "went out" once a month tops.
I stopped having sex with him two months ago but I didn't tell him it was because I felt guilty about doing it with him and not being in love. I told him that we really couldn't have a kid right now and I had had this realization of it. He bought it but I feel bad for lying to him about that sort of thing.
How do I break up with him? I know it's time to get it over with and tell him that we aren't meant to be together and that our relationship is not working out. He is crazy about me though. I don't want to hurt his feelings. His parents love me and I'm sure they're going to be upset about this too. How do you break-up with somebody who loves you when you clearly don't love them back?
There usually is no nice way to tell someone you want to part ways. The only thing you can do is be honest about how you feel.
People fall out of love, If you don't have the feelings for him anymore than tell him. How? well here are is a example line you could use..
1. (I wanted you to know that I care about you a lot but I wanted to express how I feel and I don't feel the way I used to anymore and I think it would be best if we went our separate ways)
Remember, If he is still attached he very well might not take this split lightly. If you feel the need too you might want to cut contact. When you do tell him make sure you are clear and he understands that you want to end the relationship. Not (Take a break, Work things out etc.)
I know that this is long but I need help. I have been with my boyfriend of two years since i was 16 years old, I am currently 18 and in College working towards my maters. He has always been good to me and is my best friend, I can tell him anything and I know he will listen and understand. We have been through a lot together, vacations, deaths, proms exc. and I have seen him every single day for 2 years. Although are relationship was good there are many negatives. When I met him he had gotten in a lot of trouble the year before and I had to deal with it, it was hard but we got through it. Nothing major , just stupid kid mistakes. Although it was not serious, what he did still came back to haunt him and I always was there to swing to the rescue. He has gotten alot of speeding tickets and would never pay them and continues to speed. Just things like that bug me and we would argue about it alot. He is currently about to turn 21 and does not have a degree and was laid off of work 2 months ago. Once again I had to swing to the rescue to give him money because he needs it. I do it because i love him and its not really his fault but its hard for me. He doesn’t really think a lot of things throught before he does them and I always have to deal with the consequences, for example getting an apartment when he cant really afford one. He has come a long way from when I first met him but he still has a long way to go. About two months ago i was introduced to a guy through my now ex boyfriend. I ran into him a month ago and we started to text. He knew I had a boyfriend but continued to pursue me. I started to develop feelings for him and left my boyfriend for him to figure out his situation and for me to figure out mine. I have been spending more and more time with this new guy “John” and he is everything my ex is not. He has a degree and a great job and is good with his money. He is saving for a house. He has set incredible goals for himself and knows that he is going to be extremely successful . His smile drives me crazy and he makes me so happy and I want to be with him and he would do anything to be with me. We recently slept together and the sex was amazing, nothing like I have ever felt before. He is stable and I know that he will always be able to take care of me. The only thing is when I told my ex he was devastated. He’s written me letters upon letters pouring his heart out to me claiming that he has changed and how he does not know how to get over this and calls me balling his eyes out. The letters make me cry and I feel like such a horrible person for what I have done to him. I still love him but after being together for 2 years I feel like the only thing let is to get married and I don’t really want to be the one supporting him. I still talk to him and its hard because he was such a big part of my life for so long but I don’t know what to do. I want to commit myself to “John” and he asks me everyday to be with him but feel as though I can’t because of the guilt and sadness I feel from my ex and I feel as if I’m not ready to but I do not want to lose him over a relationship that most likely will always be the same. Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated, I really could use it.
People fall out of love, Time passes, we grow up and some times people go their separate ways in life.
You have moved on from your ex, It has also been two months since you two broken up (if I read that correctly.) Two months is not a very long time to be apart from your partner especially considering you two were dating for 2 years. You found someone who is successful, who treats you the way you should be treated, Someone you are happy with. Of course if your ex finds out he is going to try to get you back. Guys/Woman sometimes have a tendency to tell the other what they want to hear when the split up and it often occurs when the other person still has feelings for them. All you can do is move on, In 2 months it's hard to believe someone has changed... Think about it. If he hasn't changed in a 2 year period what makes you think he will change in 2 months? The best thing you could do right now is to cut contact, Don't read his letters, Don't answer his text messages. Focus on yourself, Your happiness and what you want in life. Don't let people hold you back and put you into "what if" mode. This is about you not about him.
my vagina smells like fish, its really gross. i'm so self conscious when doing things with a guy because it smells. is their any way to get the smell to go away besides just washing with soap and water? cause i do that and it doesn't seem to be working out for me :/ thanks
Cotton underwear
Baby Powder (Just a little bit)
Wash Frequently
Hair traps odor so shaving helps to
16/f
please, i'm not looking for any criticisms, hearing how terrible i am, or what i'm doing is wrong, or to be judged. i'm looking for advice. i'm sorry this is long, but the more details to more it would make sense.
i have been with my boyfriend for about 14 months now, and we don't exactly have a healthy relationship. when i say that, i mean whenever i try to break up with him he would most likely get an asthma attack from crying too hard. so i'm somewhat stuck in the relationship somehow, even though i didn't have a problem with even being with him. but then for the past week, i didn't get to see my boyfriend at all or even get to have a full conversation. even my older sister said that she can tell me and him weren't going to last that long. during that week, i met this guy that eats at my work place and he goes to the same school as i do. he's not the best looking guy i know or anything, but he is interesting and fun to talk to. i was just interested in being his friend, and there was a misunderstanding when we met and he said "how could i be interested in you when you have a boyfriend?". even though i didn't care that time if he wasn't even interested in me... he also told me he was interested in a girl but has never spoken to her, but that it was because she was pretty. so for the past week, me and him have been talking a lot and again, i barely got to talk to my boyfriend because he was always so busy. so i was thinking i was just talking to a new friend. and it's obvious nobody can control their feelings, i started to like him or be interested in him. he always walked me to class, he offered to help me in math, he always thought it was fun to talk to me and stuff. i guess i got the wrong message from him? because today, he finally told me who he was interested in... and he acted nervous and for some reason i was hoping it'd be me. (btw, i was thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend because i didn't want to lead him on... but yet i wanted to be sure that i did lose feelings for him completely and that i just didn't see the new guy as a best friend). and it turns out that it was this girl, who i knew... my friend, but i didn't talk to her as much. he still didn't talk to her but he heard she was nice and he was attracted to her looks. after hearing that, my mood changed completely towards him and made me feel worse when he kept saying "darn it, you were talking to her earlier i missed my chance to talk to her. i should've went up to you and started a conversation." he asked how she was like and of course i'm going to be honest, i'm not going to make up lies. but it started to bother me... i kept thinking "why doesn't he like me? he actually knows me, am i not as pretty? is it because i have a boyfriend?" and i thought about my boyfriend, nobody can exactly compare to him because he would treat me so well, and my friend would too and i did think he was interested in me... but obviously when you first date someone it's going to be awkward for a while. but i thought he was too "high class" for me, so i wasn't sure if i should even be interested. but now, i'm feeling really down.. i have nobody to talk to about this because i have a boyfriend, of course. what should i do? and if breaking up with my boyfriend is part of the plan... how can i go through the asthma attack? please and thank you!
Communication is the key, If you haven't talked to your boyfriend then you need to have a sit down and discuss how you feel. If you are leading anyone on it would be your boyfriend because it is only fair to your partner that you be honest and faithful to your feelings. First, Not everyone takes a break up lightly but that still doesn't mean you have to be in a relationship that you are not happy in. If you aren't happy then you need to tell him, If he takes it badly well just like the rest of us he will in time get over it. As for guy #2 personally from what you said it could be maybe he has feelings for both of you?..but at the same time I can't help but think maybe seeing you also know your friend he might be getting information through you? I don't know again you need to talk to him.
i always wake up thirsty, about 5-6 times and if i don't have a drink i get an immediate sore head. If i don't have a drink i also won't get back to sleep....
This could be caused from a few things...
Dehydration
Stress
physiological or emotional issue
Diabetes
(If you are drinking tap water, You might want to try switching to a water bottle)
This could even be caused by a medical condition, I would try and make an appointment with a doctor.
Hi
T-mobile has unlimited calling to any person on their network. So t-mobile to t-mobile calling...
My question is: if I have t-mobile & a person who has t-mobile calls me, but uses *67 to be seen as private, is it still the free unlimited calling because it's from a t-mobile number?
Thank you to everyone who reads and answers :)
Yes
18/m. You've probabaly heard this story before, but oh well.
I broke up with my girlfriend a few weeks before christmas.We had been going out for 6months prior. I thought that the relationship was really not working out. She thought the same but she didnt want to break up. After breaking up, she was rather depressed, you could see it in her face, and was crying a few days after.
On christmas eve, we met up to exchange presents which we bought before breaking up, and had breakup sex (probabaly not a good idea now that i think about it).
Before we started going out, she liked this other guy, jack. So the other day, i found out (on facebook) that she's going out with jack. Im sort of feeling the whole "now that you cant have her, you want her". Im not even sure that i want her, i guess im just confused that she's going out with him, just 2months after we broke up. Im not really sure what i think...abit of jealousy i think.
So whats your opinion. Am i right for being jealous, or feeling this? obviousely i cant do anything about it. Hope you can help, and sorry if its long. Thanks in advance.
It is okay to feel jealous that your girlfriend is going out with a new guy after a short time of being split. However, On the other hand I'm not going to say she never really had feelings for you but she probably always liked him all along and now that she has the chance she is going to go for it. I agree with you, Having breakup sex probably wasn't the best idea but having contact in general after a breakup isn't always necessarily a good idea also because you prolong the pain and it makes it harder to move on. All you can really do is except it for what it was and try to move on. The best thing to do is to cut contact, I know you are "curious" to know the update on things but peeking in on her new relationship isn't going to make things better.