Q: Well, I've had my period for a couple years but I've never used a tampon before.
Anyways, all my mom has are Super ones or whatever. Well I was wondering if this would be to big? Or if it would hurt.

14/f

Q: I'm a 21 year old female and my husband and i got married a little while ago a year to be exact. i keep track of the money and were doing well so i asked if we could try for a baby. he said one day but i can't stop thinking about it. i see babies everywhere what can i do to convince him to have a child now?

artlover89

Q: I am getting a toyota celica, i just dont know if i want an automatic or a 6 speed manual. Im afraid if i get the 6 speed then i will get tired of it. I know the basics for driving a stick, but an automatic seems so much easier.

Pros and cons?
What do you think i should do?

thanks

Q: 15/f sorry if this is in the wrong category..

Okay, so I met this guy on Deviantart (a site where you post artwork and such). We talk a lot, and I think he may be interested in me. I would be fine with this, but he is an adult. He knows I am only 15, but he keeps flirting with me and e-mailing and calls me by all of these cute nicknames. Is that bad? Should I stop talking to him? I dont know what to do. I feel guilty, like I'm doing something bad. But at the same time, I see all of these girls that date older guys. Someone please tell me what to do!

Q: at my old school i had a whore && dumb bitch reputation what do i do to have a positive rep at my new school??

Q: Hi,I am 24, me and my husband have been together for 9 years and married for 2 1/2. we had our up's and downs, like all couples do bit lately we've been at each others throats. We argue constantly mostly because he's a 24 year old man with three kids who only wants to spend time with his playstation3.I feel like he doesn't care about me. For example last night I was feeling really sick and I ended up running to the restroom leaning over the toilet and you already know what happened. But, what bothered me is that my "husband" was fully aware that I was sick and he just watched me cup my mouth and run to the restroom but he never moved from in front of the television. the only one who came to check on me was my 6 year old. I feel that he doesn't care. and I can't make him. I want love, he tells me he loves me but he doesn't show it. There have been times when I have been crying because we've gotten into an argument(i don't cry often)and he'll walk away singing like nothing ever happened he won't even see if I'm okay but then he expects me to hug up under him later like nothing ever happened. I am at my wits end and seriously thinking about divorce. I've already talked to him about it, even when he does listen he's goes right back to acting like he doesn't care about me the very next day.What should I do?

Q: Hello, lately I've been having some friend problems. I'm a guy and I met this girl in University on September of 2009, we're both first years, and she is one of my closest friends so far. The other day we were on the phone and the topic "did you ever like me?" came up, I was honest with her because I've just been that comfortable with her to tell her that I did. She said that she did not see me that way and she would never want to lead me on, and i accept that. The rest of the conversation went well and there was no awkwardness whatsoever, but a few days later I saw her again for the first time after the conversation on the phone, everything seemed so different, it seemed like she was keeping a little more distance than usual even though we tried to make it clear with each other on the phone that there would be no awkwardness and this wouldn't affect the friendship. Now it seems like we're talking a lot less, I haven't had a real conversation with her for the past week (I usually have 1-2 hour conversations with her on the phone once a week)

I just feel like the friendship is falling apart, especially when we've been so close. She even told me once that I'm one of her closest friends. I'm okay with her not liking me back that way, but It would be very painful to know that our friendship is drifting further and further away. Is there anything I can do to help the situation?

Q: 17/F
Sorry if its long, so lately ive been feeling so lonely. My best friend and I are no more, my best guy friend and I havent been very good and dont talk as much as we used to,and i dont have as many good close girlfriends as alot of girls do. Because id always do and go everywhere with my ex best friend,so now its harder for me now that were not together. I also just transfered to a new school my junior year(last year) and I have made some girl friends but were not close, and now lately theyve all obsessed with there boyfriends and UGH!! im going crazy! I feel like im not good enough for anyone! what can I do to meet new people or friends? Because im not in sports and in extracurricular activities. As dumb as this may sound but advice would be great! (: thanks much!!

Q: is it possible to lose weight without exercising? its winter andi cant go out and run because of my asthma but is it possible to just not eat alot or just eat like fruits and drop like 10 lbs?

Q: I didn't get into the course I wanted to get into, and so I was thinking maybe I should make an appointment with the Head of Dept. of Psychology, and talk about it. Because I was only 2 points away from getting in, do you think it's a good idea?
I did really well in my Cambridge IGCSE exam, and so I was wondering if I could use that to show that I am serious and that I can do well, it was just a slip of 2 points this time. And that psychology is truly my passion, it really is. I adore helping people out with their issues and just making them feel better about themselves and understand that they can't control everything that happens in their life.
I'd be a terrific psychologist, and I know it! I just need the chance to prove it.

Please let me know if this sounds a little crazy. I'm thinking about meeting with the Head of Dept. of Psychology at the Uni of Queensland, in Brisbane.

Thank you!
oh, and has anyone ever done this before? I'm quite nervous.

Q: Ok so I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is about to be 20 years old. We always talk about how we can't wait to finally live together and start our own live together. Now the only problem I have is that I want to have a baby already. How should I tell him that I want to have a baby? He loves children and we have both talked about how we would like to have a large family together. I know that a baby is alot of work, but I feel that we are ready for it. Please help!

Q: Last year for junior prom i went to junior prom with my friends even though i didnt want to and i didnt like it that much considering i didnt want to do i was dateless and i get extremely annoyed with people at my school. This year I really want a date but its hard considering I am tall african american girl who likes tall black guys . theres not a lot of tall guys and im not close with anyone that i would want to go to prom with. Theres one kid i met and hes a freshman in college about an hr away. I really like him and i know he likes me but idk how...i mean we talk once in a while he will chat me but our conversations are general. when we hang out which we only have a few times we get along he makes me laugh and we hook up nothing like sex though. i was wondering if i should ask him? and ive only hung out with him twice...so how many more times should i hang out with him? and i dont want him to think its weird im asking him to my prom, and i dont want to seem desperate...please help!

Q: To put it bluntly, im scared of having sex, i feel its wrong and i hav this new bf who has done it a few times. He keeps saying stuff 2 me but i just hate the thought of it. i know thats really immature but i do need help

Q: f/16 ok iknow this might be a werid qustion but here we go! my friend told me that she gets confused when shes havin sex like she doesnt know if she's about to cum or pee she said they both feel the same. im confused too! like wat happens!? is it like yu pee first && then cum or yu cum first && then pee! or wat!? please help thanks ;-%

Q: 18 year old male
i've been with my girlfriend for about more than 4 months.. our relationship have been on and off for a while and recently we broke up. But today she stopped by my house and it surprised me and she wanted to be close to me.. she didnt tell me she was going to stop by or anything, she walked home from work which isnt too far from our neighborhood and she said that she wants me, but the problem is out of the 2 weeks that we've been away i've been working my way to get out of her grasp, because we keep breaking each other's heart.. i hate going back and forth like this because i want to have a stable life. one side of me is screaming to have her but another side of me is wanting to pull away.. it affects my school work and my mood.

Q: 17 f
im sorry if its a little long its a long story but i would apreciate it if u guys read the whole thing. ok so about a month ago i met a really cute 20 yea old guy. he asked me to hang out alot of times but i wasnt able to. this saturday night i was able to and we met up at his house. i asked my sister (whose 20 yrs old also) to take me. so she took me and i was at his house just talking we did makeout like once and by the time i got home i was already totally hooked on this guy. he seemed like a good guy. so sunday rolled around and he asked me to hang out and i brought my sister and cousins. we went bowling then to a cafe. i was really nervous and never spoke muh but i noticed him and my sister spoke alot and my ousin even told her that he might like her. in the end the date was horrible me and him barely spoke i got mad and didnt even bother speaking to him. when i got home i felt bad and called him he said it was ok and i thanked hm for paying for bowling and the dinner. so the next day (morning) my sister told me that she didnt trust him at all, he looked like a player and he had 80 something unread messages on his phone. he was also really paranoid about it and didnt want anyone seeing it. i found that weird and knew i couldnt trust. ok so monday my sister goes out says its with her friends and i stay home. i texted the guy (nate) and called him he didnt answer. my sister gets home with a hickey. i asked her where she got it from she said it was her ex. which they still talk and im pretty sure she still has feelings for him.(her ex).next day one of nates friends whose very nice called me and said did you know where your sister was last night? i asked her she said it wasnt what i was thinking. she said her and my cousin (whose 24) made a plan to see if they can trust him. she said he had texted her that night and asked her to hang out and she said she went to see how far he would go. and that she was only trying to protect me.she said to forgive her and that they went to watch a movie as friends and he invited her inside then tap kissed her and started giving her a hickey she said she got mad and left. and my older cousin (whose very protective of me) said not to tell me anything becuase they wanted to tell me together about nate. heres what i dont understand. that night she told me to lets make a plan but i said NO becuase i didnt want to find out atleast not now if he was a player. they went behind my back and did this trick yes offcourse im never talking to him again but what do i do about her? everytime i look at her i see them making out. thats not right she knew how much i liked him.i knew he couldnt be trusted and yes it hurts becuase i really liked him but i am more hurt becuase of my sister. she said she was only trying to protect her and to forgive her she didnt mean for it to go that far but once he was so close she couldnt stop. she admitted to being wrong and asked for forgiveness. i cant. i dont find it in my heart right now to forgiv her i feel betryaed, eventhough she said she was trying to help me. i was sos tupid i was the one trying to help me get rid of that hickey so my parents dont see it. i have t admitt when she got home she started crying, and was paranoid. i dotn know why she did this she was my best friend and was always there for me. i didnt want to know if he was a player atelast not now, and not this way. i cant stop crying all i can think about is them making out. and her hickey. this wasmonday night and that hickey is still there and she said it was like a 3 sec thing and she knew she was doing wrong and left. but she is a little dark skin that hickey wouldve nevr been that bad, if it was 3secs would it have? should i forgive her? i feel so desperate betrayed i spoke to my cousin she said that they were only trying to help me. i can get that image out o my head though. im crying as im typing this sorry i just needed to let it all out. please help? i spoke to my cousin she said that they were planning on telling me together on thursday, thats why my sister didnt say anything to me. i told my sis you couldve gone and made the plan but as soon as he was leaning in to kiss you you shouldve backed off. she keeps apologizing and saying everyone makes mistake. but she keeps saying shes not sorry for doing the plan becuase she didnt want me to be hurt in the end. well how does she think i feel now? its worse now becuase its her she meant everything to me. .

Q: Has anyone ever had a boyfriend or husband in the air force? What's it like?

Q: I have a really awesome guy best friend who is like a big brother figure for me. He is like my guide, he always waits for me in every class and after school, he makes sure I'm alright, and he spends his free time with me... people always comment on how inseparable we are. Lately, he's been very attached and I get confused. My boyfriend and I are currently on stage where we're unsure about where we stand at the moment. Because he was away for few weeks and when he came back, I realized how I just felt much more comfortable with my best friend than with him. During the time my boyfriend was away, my best friend acted as if taking over his place; he'd do things my boyfriend would do for me [except all the hugs and holding hands etc] My best girlfriend starts worrying now, she thinks he has feelings for me,,, and since I've always prioritized my friendship over romantic relationship, she's afraid I'll make bad move... and now I've been dreaming about my best friend instead of my boyfriend.. and I am confused now... I don't even know to whom my loyalty and love are with at the moment... but I know that if my best friend loves me, then I'll leave my boyfriend and try to give him my heart. because I'm willing to do anything for my best friend... but then again I'm scared... what if he really has feelings for me? what if I do have feelings for him too? Am I really ready to leave my good relationship for this if it really is there? Because if I make a bad move, things won't go well since we all will end up in same area for college...

Q: K so ive been on a strict diet for a month and have lost maybe a pound or two but i gained it back i have been eating 1500 calorie meals 3 meals per day and nothing is happening i tried exercising but i cant deal with it anymore ive been getting up everymorning for a week at 6am and exercising for 20-25mins everyday but still nothing im starting to lose hope and think i will never lose weight basically my question is can i lose weight without exercise and just dieting i mean if i just eat healthy and drink like lots of water and green tea or other herbal teas can i do it i know it will be slow and might take another month or two but will i lose weight without exercise besides its not like i wont be moving at all i can still walk around and stuff and go for walks with my dog will that be enough please help me im so confused and so tempted to ruin my diet by eating something totally unhealthy right now lol also if you have any simple meal ideas please let me know thank you so much to whoever replys :D

Q: For many nights in a row I have been having different dreams all within the subject of cheating. I'd usually have two dreams a night and one of them is relating to cheating. Me and my boyfriend have been together for only a little less than four months. He picks me up for school every day and drops me off or he spends time with me afterschool. He does so much for me and I do so much for him in return. Lately, for plenty of weekends his dad has been taking him away to hunt. I miss him. I can't see him friday night or saturday. and i see him sunday for about four hours.
I just know i see him a lot more than his ex girlfriends did, but I see him less than I want to!
We miss each other heaps and would like to spend more time with each other. We both like to make love so for the little time we're together before he left to go hunting again, we make love.
Night before thanksgiving he was there for two hours and we made love and he said that he had to go, I got upset and told him to get what he wants and leave. but he realized what he was doing and cuddled with me for the time remaining.we hung out thanksgiving, and we made love for a little then hung out with my family. Ive had dreams of him holding hands with a girl i know that we both don't like at all. Ive had dreams of his ex girlfriend crashing in on the situation and my boyfriend's dad suggesting he get back with her. Ive had dreams of me making love with another guy and feeling really guilty afterward, and when i wake up i feel amazing cause i realized it was a dream. Ive had a dream last night where a mobster had sex with me and i felt guilty and later i shot him. I think it may mean that im not spending enough time with my boyfriend. and my worries are coming in way for some reason. I know he's not cheating. and i havnet cheated.
help ?

bio

Info