Dreams of me cheating on my boyfriend and vice versa
Question Posted Friday November 27 2009, 12:21 pm
For many nights in a row I have been having different dreams all within the subject of cheating. I'd usually have two dreams a night and one of them is relating to cheating. Me and my boyfriend have been together for only a little less than four months. He picks me up for school every day and drops me off or he spends time with me afterschool. He does so much for me and I do so much for him in return. Lately, for plenty of weekends his dad has been taking him away to hunt. I miss him. I can't see him friday night or saturday. and i see him sunday for about four hours.
I just know i see him a lot more than his ex girlfriends did, but I see him less than I want to!
We miss each other heaps and would like to spend more time with each other. We both like to make love so for the little time we're together before he left to go hunting again, we make love.
Night before thanksgiving he was there for two hours and we made love and he said that he had to go, I got upset and told him to get what he wants and leave. but he realized what he was doing and cuddled with me for the time remaining.we hung out thanksgiving, and we made love for a little then hung out with my family. Ive had dreams of him holding hands with a girl i know that we both don't like at all. Ive had dreams of his ex girlfriend crashing in on the situation and my boyfriend's dad suggesting he get back with her. Ive had dreams of me making love with another guy and feeling really guilty afterward, and when i wake up i feel amazing cause i realized it was a dream. Ive had a dream last night where a mobster had sex with me and i felt guilty and later i shot him. I think it may mean that im not spending enough time with my boyfriend. and my worries are coming in way for some reason. I know he's not cheating. and i havnet cheated.
help ?
GingerSpice answered Friday November 27 2009, 8:06 pm: Hey girl I know how you feel, I used to have dreams like this too, of my man cheating on me. I then realized that these dreams occur probably because its something that im too afraid will happen. Like I knew he'd never cheat on me and at the same time I tried to spend more time with him and do little special things with him. Same thing with dreams of having sex with other men, its something youd never do but you dream about doing it and it almost scares you. One can dream of the most ridiculous things that wont make sense but you still dream about it, pretty wack.
Most important thing is, they're just dreams and soon enough they'll pass. I used to have dreams like this almost every night for weeks, but they went away just as fast as they came. So nothing to worry about hun, both of you are faithful and thats all that matters.
Hope I helped and good luck =) [ GingerSpice's advice column | Ask GingerSpice A Question ]
gibs96 answered Friday November 27 2009, 6:13 pm: oh my god this scared me at first cause all i saw was- Dreams of me cheating on my boyfriend and vice versa.... It was so creepy cause this morning my sister was like "omg i had a dream that i was cheating on my boyfriend, and i was cheating on him with his room mate, than she was like and i was scared that he would see me so the guy she was cheating with cut his head off and threw it." My sister was freaked out, so she calls her boyfriend to tell him she had a dream about him dieing and stuff what i just told you ^^ and he was like "omg i had a dream that i was cheating to and i killed you" That is so werid that it is happening to you and my sister ughh freakkyyyy, but i will tell you what i told her... it's just a dream and you have nothing to worry about as long as you don't take it serious you will be fine! [ gibs96's advice column | Ask gibs96 A Question ]
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