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take her back?
18 year old male
i've been with my girlfriend for about more than 4 months.. our relationship have been on and off for a while and recently we broke up. But today she stopped by my house and it surprised me and she wanted to be close to me.. she didnt tell me she was going to stop by or anything, she walked home from work which isnt too far from our neighborhood and she said that she wants me, but the problem is out of the 2 weeks that we've been away i've been working my way to get out of her grasp, because we keep breaking each other's heart.. i hate going back and forth like this because i want to have a stable life. one side of me is screaming to have her but another side of me is wanting to pull away.. it affects my school work and my mood.
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If you're that unsure than its a NO! If its affecting your school work or mood than its not worth it. Right now you are either getting ready to go to college or you're in college right now. Either way you need to worry about your schoolwork and your futre those are the important things right now! Its time to move on!
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This is hard sometimes you need to stop and ask your self is this what you want,there is alot to a relationship and sometime stress is one of them one thing you need to ask your self is do you love her and would it make you happy to be with her and you need to sit down with her no sex know try to change the subject but straight and you need to tell her how you feel and why its hard for you to have a relationship with her.I hope this helped
Thanks
Tim
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I don't think you should take her back seeing as it's affecting your school work and mood there's no point of being in a relationship if you aren't happy the main thing that truely counts in the end is that your happy and if you aren't then it's not worth it it seems like she's being clingy seeing as she wanted to be close to you i think even if you did get back together with her your relationship would probably still continue to be on and off seeing as you aren't interested anymore i say just focus on your school work there's plenty of chances for love and it would be ashame if your schooling got messed up because of a girl and relationship problems
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Best thing to do right now is stay single and do what you think is best for you. The relationship seemed to already been stressful for you so just chill out with it all for a while and do you. Its good that youre looking out for yourself.
Its never easy letting someone go but the advantage you have right now is, well, you havnt been with her for too long and you havnt fallen too hard. Do you hun, you dont need something like this affecting other aspects of your life.
Good luck and hope I helped.
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I think you have your answer. You seem to already know what the right thing to do is. And you'll do well to remember throughout the rest of your life that the RIGHT thing to do is rarely the EASY thing to do.
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