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Sex fears
To put it bluntly, im scared of having sex, i feel its wrong and i hav this new bf who has done it a few times. He keeps saying stuff 2 me but i just hate the thought of it. i know thats really immature but i do need help
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Um......it's not wrong. You'll have sex when the time is right. If it's not time, don't let him pressure you. Also, if you're still in school/college, finish that first and then be serious with guys, k? Good luck!
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You're not immature at all! I know this may sound cliche but you don't have to have sex just because your boyfriend did. You'll have sex when you feel comfortable and if he doesn't understand that or is pressuring you he's not worth your time. You need to listen to you and you need to think about you so if you don't want to then don't!
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No its not immature i am the same way. Honestly when the time comes then you will know it is right and it wont feel wrong to you but not until then. Be honest with him bout how u are feeling and always stick to ur beliefs nomattwee what he says.
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if you feel its wrong, then stick with how you feel. its your life, and your morals. you have to live with yourself and what you do for the rest of your life, your boyfriend and no one else for that matter does.
just because hes had sex a few times, doesnt mean he should EXPECT it from you. if youre not ready, and youre not comfortable with it, and it doesnt feel right.. then dont do it. he'll just have to wait until you bring it up and until YOU are ready.
its not immature at all. and you dont need help, youre fine :] i actually have a lot of respect for you for NOT giving into your boyfriend. if hes pressuring you into having sex with him, you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel and that he has to wait.. and he has to wait PATIENTLY.
follow your heart, and instinct. stand your ground. and by the way.. everyone gets scared or nervous :] so its okay. but, i hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! good luck :]
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One should never have sex if they dont want to. And most importantly since you're in a relationship, dont let him talk you into it especially if youre not ready. Being scared & those other thoughts of you not wanting to have sex i wouldnt call immature, it could quite simply mean that you're not ready for it yet and thats perfectly fine, there are a lot of people out there that are in relationships that feel the same way. Dont rush it and dont let any guy tell you you have to when you dont want to.
No you dont need help hun, you're fine the way you are. :)
Hope I helped.
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