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Hey, im a 15 year old girl, and i made a mistake. I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. I finally agreed to have sex with him. I got my period august 19th, and stopped bleeding on the 26th. On the 27th, i had sex with him. We used a condom, and i dont think it broke, but it is possible, and i know its really early, but ive felt weird. I have been tired a lot, my boobs are sore, and ive felt nauseous for all of today and yesterday.I have been a vegetarian for 5 years, and suddenly, for the first time im craving meat, and also fatty foods. I am irritable, and i feel like im pmsing, but its impossible because i just finished my period like 10 days ago...Is it possible i could be pregnant? When can i take a pregnancy test? I live in New York, and if i am pregnant, would it be possible to get an abortion without my parents ever knowing? Thank you so much. (link)
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Okay relax,
I am going to suggest taking a pregnacy test, If you want an accurate result wait 2 weeks. As far as abortion goes, No there is no way to get around it without your parents knowing about it. For starters, Abortion is surgery and you are a minor. Doctors will need your parents permission to operate not too mention there will more than likely be papers your parents will have to sign.
Take a test
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So my cousin is devastated because her fiance broke up with her after almost 4 years together...
I know that I can't really help her the way she wants me too and I know she will get through this but I was wondering if anyone had any ideas of things she can do that will help her feel better even for a moment? Like when I was heart broken I started coming on here and giving advice because it took my mind off of my problems (I already sugested it...she shot it down) I also liked to read quotes and listen to songs that described how I was feeling (I don't know why but it made me feel better)
tell me stories about what you did to make yourself happy when you were heartbroken so I can get some ideas to help her.
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Sometimes the best way to help someone is to listen to them. When I am really down things that made me feel better was spending time with friends and family. I'd get out of the house even when I felt at my worst. Spend time with her, Take her out for a little while grab a bite to eat if she is hysterical over the situation it won't hurt to get it too go and park somewhere and try and listen to her. Support her and comfort her and try to be understanding assure her that everything will be just fine. If you have too keep telling her that he isn't worth it and never was and keep assuring her that things will be okay. Yes she will get through this, It will just take some time.
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So, I'm a sophmore, and my guy friend I've know since first grade likes me.
He doesn't know I know, but me and my friends ave figured it out.
I doubt he'll do anything about it. Cause last time he dated one of his chick friends it ended horribley.
But if he DOES happen to tell me one day, how on Earth to I let him down without compleyely ruining our friendship?
I love him to death, but I'm not attractied to him like that.
I did have a pretty huge crush on him seventh-eighth grade, but that is compleyely over and done with now.
Tips? (link)
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If he confronts you, You could tell him any of the these..
1. You are flattered that he likes you but you are not ready to be in a relationship at this time.
2. You see him as a brother and you wouldn't want to ruin that
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I have a very loving live-in boyfriend of 1.5 years. I consider him my best friend. I'm all around thrilled with the way things are going and I can see making a life with him ... except for one thing. I recently confirmed some suspicions that, very early in our relationship, he was still involved with an ex-girlfriend.
Something never felt right about the way he talked about his ex. He was evasive and mumbled and was generally unresponsive. Things got worse when I noticed files of hundreds of photos of her on his computer (not hidden). I know that he has had problems with fidelity in the past, despite assurances that he would never be unfaithful to me. I still had no hard evidence, but, as time passed, I began to worry more and more that something was or had been going on with her. I brought it up in passing, mentioning that it's no big deal if he was with her for a few weeks when we first got together, but he adamently denies it.
Despite my 100% certainly that he is not currently cheating on me, I am obsessed with finding out if he is lying about those first few weeks/months. So I snooped through his email last weekend (I know, I know). I just couldn't get these questions out of my head.
And here's what I found: extremely flirty/outright sexual emails between my boyfriend and his ex, dating to about two months into our relationship. They discuss having seen each other, and what sexual things they would like to do to each other (although never outright confirming that they were done). I am not concerned that this has any impact on our current relationship. But I am heartbroken that lied to me about it and I am worried that this incidates a lack of morals on his part. Can I trust him now? Has he fundamentally changed since falling in love with me, or do his lies mean that he might cheat again?
So my questions are as follows: is it worth admitting that I snooped (several times) to air these concerns? Is it worth risking our wonderful current relationship, just to make him admit some past truth? Is the old adage true: once a cheater, always a cheater?
Please help! Thanks.
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You've just about hit the target with all the cheating clues. If it were me, You bet I would bring it up that I snooped around. Not only would I be steaming through the roof but there is no excuse for him having a file of photos with his ex girlfriend while he is involved with you. At 1.5 years, That is a long time to STILL have photos of someone eles laying around. However, Not only is that the case but "the way he talks about her?" The fact that he even talks about her at all should give you a heads up. Pointing this out...
Here is what you said:
extremely flirty/outright sexual emails between my boyfriend and his ex, dating to about two months into our relationship. They discuss having seen each other, and what sexual things they would like to do to each other (although never outright confirming that they were done
Well, Clearly he has thought about cheating on you right there, I don't know if he actually went through with it or not but the fact is he was sneaking around talking to her and planning on seeing her again not only that but talking sexual to her as well. The fact is he did pretty much cheat on you, Cheating doesn't always mean you need to have sexual contact with another. The relationship can't be that wonderful if he played you early in the relationship. (Sorry but that's the truth) If someone played me like that they'd be out the door without hesitation. Yes, In my mind once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater.
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Wrong website guys, sorry!!!
anyways, what do you guys think about this site:
www.thinkbeauty.weebly.com
thanks for your help! (link)
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I think it's very well done, The front page looks good not too overwhelming, A little tip though...I would not use so many "!" Also, You could write a little bit about the author. :)
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Okay so i should be a pro at this by now, but i'vee been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 3 months today. I love him very very much, but he recently found out that i find a guy at work extremely attractive. my boyfriend and i have disscussed marriage and about a life together. i don't plan on marrying him too soon, but what i really need help on is how do i just focus on him and turn away from this other guy? The other guy that i fine attractive is so sweet to me, but i don't know very much about him. I want to stay with my man, but another part of me is saying it's alright to think this other guy is cute. Is it alright for me to think someone's cute even though i'm dating someone else? I should know this, but i just want some people's opinions. thanks and godbless. oh and i'm 19 and not in school and my boyfriend's almost done with school and he's 20.
your friend, lulabell aka lulu (link)
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I would stay with your boyfriend, A year and 3 months is a long time to second guess someone unless of course you are truely unhappy. This guy that you find attractive, You said yourself that you do not know him well. Do you know enough to know that he might have a girlfriend?...I wouldn't talk more about marriage until you have surely decided on what you want too do.Anyway to answer your question yes you can think someone is cute sure, Remember they say you can look but you can't touch.
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is it actually legal, if your over 18 to smoke weed? (link)
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No, Marijuana is illegal.
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i'm 15 years old, 5'3 and 3/4, 104 lbs, started my period about a month ago, and have all signs of puberty- except boobs. i cant stand seeing myself in a mirror when im getting changed because its repulsive to see my non-existant chest. i dont just have small boobs, im completely flat chested. i might as well be a ten year old boy. every time i look for advice people say theres still time and im just a late bloomer, but i've been waiting to get them for 5 or more years (some of my friends started developing as early as age 9.) i'm so worried i'll stay this way my entire life. is that possible? i don't want any answers if all your going to say is "your 15, there's still time. :)" no. wrong. unless you were in the exact same position as me but still got them eventually you can't say that. every single person i know my age has them and i've already started my period, your supposed to get your boobs before your period. so please no answers like that. and i'm sorry if im coming off bitchy, im just frustrated as im sure you can imagine. (link)
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We are all different, We grow at our own pace.
I highly doubt it is a growth problem like the person suggested below me, The truth is there is no age that we stop growing in the breast area. Our breast is fat tissue, It grows and it shrinks with our body weight. When we loose weight, We loose weight everywhere and it is pretty much the same as when we gain weight. At 15, Everyone who has been telling you that you still got time is right. I am 24 years old and I did not start growing breast until I was about 17 years of age. Then again, As I hate to tell you not all of us are born to look like Pamela Anderson...
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My favorite time of the season is fall. I love it so much that everytime I go to the store I always buy some little something to add to my decorations, all of which are being stored in a box in my attic. My question is, today Sepetember 1st, is it too early to decorate for the fall season? My family and I just moved in this neighborhood less than a month ago and I don't want them thinking we're odd balls lol. I really want to go ahead and decorate, the inside of my home is already FALLtastic lol, but just not sure if it would be weird. Thanks for any help I can get. (link)
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Why not?!
It's fun and fall is not that far away it starts September 22nd. If you love decorating then I say go for it! Who cares what others think ;)
Be yourself.
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well i jus signed up for one called blogger but i have no clue how to do it lol and are there any other ones that are better ?? thanks in advance ! (link)
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Try LiveJournal.com I have used it and it has worked out the best for me.
Xanga.com
Vox.com
Weebly.com
Terapad.com
Bloki.com
Blog.com
Blogster.com
ShoutPost.com
GreatestJournal.com
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I am having an extremely hard time forgiving my husband for cheating on me, but for the life of me can't leave him over it. Am I crazy? (link)
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No, You are not crazy. Forgiving comes in time and the truth is we can forgive but we can't always forget. If your husband has cheated on you not only did he abuse your trust but he disrespected you and it will take time for him to gain that back that is if ever. You state that you can not leave him but the question is if you forgive him what will change? Can you believe him, is he trustworthy? Like Rahzie suggested below you might want to concider marriage counseling. We can try to forgive someone but sometimes depending on the situation forgiving is out of our hands...
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So, my girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, and saw each other for the first time in a long time this weekend. We had sex, and usually I am very stern about wearing a condom, but we didn't have one, and we were both being stupid. Obviously I pulled out, but I know that is still not a great idea. This was this weekend (saturday night, sunday morning) and now it is monday, and we got into a fight. She said she is feeling all hormonal, and freaking out. I am trying to calm her down and tell her that its too early to be feeling anything due to pregnancy. Also, she is supposed to be getting her period soon, so it could be that as well. Either way, I just need reassurance for myself. (link)
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It has only been three days, If she is exspecting her period in a few days more than likely that is why she is moody as most woman tend to have mood swings around that time. It's perfectly normal
I also found this on Wiki..
How Soon Pregnancy Symptoms Start
The onset and degree of pregnancy symptoms will vary within women. Many women experience them within days of conception, others take a few weeks before pregnancy symptoms kick in and a lucky few feel no discomfort at all. The early pregnancy symptoms listed on this page generally can be felt once implantation occurs (8-10 days from ovulation) and will lessen after the first trimester.
Way to early to tell, Wait and see if she gets her period. She also may want to wait 2 weeks before taking a test for an effective answer. However, Like I said it's probably just mood swings due to an exspected period.
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I am a guy, 17. I have a friend, 16 and her boyfriend, 17 looked up gay porn on her computer. She found it while looking on the history. She dumped him for a couple of hours and took him back. He acts childish and talks down to her and calls her names in front of her. She takes the crap. Sadly I was kind of happy she dumped her boyfriend, but then she took him back a couple of hours later. We start school tomorrow, September 1st... and when she told they talked it out and got back together I pretended to be okay with it. Should let it go or tell her how I feel? I've been friends with her since fourth grade and we have been friends since then.
WHAT SHOULD I SAY OR DO?
Thanks,
Onebirddog2000 (link)
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You can tell her how you feel but there is no guarrantee she will do something about it. As this is between her and her boyfriend and she is the one that needs to realize that he is no good for her. Unless he is not abusive and is hurting her physically than there is nothing you can do about it. In my opinion If he was looking at gay porn I start to think that he might be into guys or both. However, Like I said you can tell her how you feel and let her know that you care but this is her choice to make.
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should i have sex?i am in love and we have kissed,and we love each other like mad.he is crazy,and all my used friends to nag me aboutdumping him,but now they want us to sex!i would love to,but all my friends nag and are putting preasure on me too!help!from;desprate house wife(to true!) ps im21and a gorgeousgirl! (link)
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Okay lets get this straight..
Not only do you sound concieted but any sane 21 year old should know enough that love isn't just about looks and listening to what your friends say. Unless you are a full blown blonde..I don't think you should start a family just yet because you don't sound close to being ready as to what the person below me said it takes a lot more than someone who thinks highly of herself to support another.
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Since the end of June / beginning of July I have had issues with my voice. In the mornings my throat hurts and it hurts to speak. Then a few hours later I can talk without it being painful and sing a bit. I realized that there has been a decrease in the notes I can hit without my voice giving out. Later in the evening, my throat begins hurting again and it hurts to talk.
I used to sing a lot, and now I find it straining to get through three songs.
Mostly the pain lies deep in my throat, I looked at some pictures and its mostly near the vocal cords.
Any idea what this can be?
I'm going to the doctors on Wednesday, I just want an idea in advance what it can be (: (link)
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Well it could be a few things
Allergies
You could also be getting a sore throat
Try drinking a lot of water and suck on some cough drops but if it doesn't go away within a day or two see the doctor.
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16.F / Junior in high school
I think that I unfairly judge others based on their GPA / class levels in high school. I'm a very competitive student in all honors and AP classes and I think, unintentionally, I base people's intelligence based on what classes they are taking (e.g., if another student is taking B-level classes, I assume they are lazy and that he or she doesn't care about school, college, or career success, or I greatly respect students taking many honors / AP classes). How do I STOP judging people based on their GPA / class levels and realize that not all students in honors / AP classes are necessarily intelligent and that not all B-level students don't care about getting into a top university?
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Everyone has there own ways of learning, Some of learn slower than others and others learn visually etc. Instead of judging others you should try and think about their situation first. They could be trying and just might not be as fast in learning as you are. I personally was in under classes myself that didn't make me stupid and there was a reason for it. I am hard of hearing and I'm a visual learner. The way to stop judging others is to stop and ask youself why they might be in those classes, They could very well be lazy and not care but I'm sure that is not always the case.
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For halloween my friends and I don't want to use wigs because they arn't very realistic. We were deciding weather or not to use black hair dye. I have light brown hair. If I use black L'Oreal Colour Pulse will it actually wash out or will it become permanent? (link)
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I'm not familiar with L'Oreal either but if you aren't looking for a permanent color than I would go with temporary the brand. If you want permanent seeing I've been dying my hair for 8 years now I am going to have to say Herbal Essences worked the best for me and they are not too pricey they are about $7.00 at Walmart and it last me about 3 months.
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im cheating on my bf. how do i tell him? im fifteen. (link)
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Yes, I think you should tell him the truth. If you don't want to be with him than I think it's only fair that he knows so he isn't being held back from meeting other people. If you don't want to tell him you are cheating than don't but at least tell him you don't want to be with him and if he ask why and you are uncomfortable telling him than just keep it simple and say you dont' want a relationship at this time.
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So... I been talkin to this guy and I think im starting to like him like him. BUT he had to many other girls in the past. He tells me that he changed and that he isnt the same guy he used to be. He's about 40mins aways so we see each other every other weekend. I hope im not just his girl on the side. I dont want to get too attached and get hurt at the end. Should I leave him alone?? :[ (link)
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A guy can tell you a thousand times that he has changed etc. However, there is never a guarrentee that it is actually the truth. At 40 minutes away, If you are doubting the relationship then clearly you are having second thoughts. It seems you have pretty much made up your mind, If you don't want to become to attached than maybe you should go your seperate way as the longer you are with him the longer you prolong the pain. If you think he is trustworthy and he won't hurt you than go for it but the truth is at 40 minutes away and visiting every other weekend I hope you two have a really really close bond...
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can a woman contract hiv or aids from a man just by the penis going inside of the vagina, and nothing at all comes out of it? (link)
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If you used a condom than there is a lower chance but either way yes it is very possible.
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