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So... I been talkin to this guy and I think im starting to like him like him. BUT he had to many other girls in the past. He tells me that he changed and that he isnt the same guy he used to be. He's about 40mins aways so we see each other every other weekend. I hope im not just his girl on the side. I dont want to get too attached and get hurt at the end. Should I leave him alone?? :[
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Well friend, this could go either way. He could have honestly changed, and you will see this as your relationship further progresses and things will go well. OR he could be lying just to get you to trust him and end up hurting you in the end. I cannot tell you which way it is because I do not know the guy, however, what I can tell you is that you should really try to watch things. I mean, if you like him enough to see if he's changed and you feel it's worth it, then stick around, but always be mindful that he may still be a player. So keep your eyes wide open (ears too!) and see how things go. Best of luck to you!
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to be honest personally, i dont believe in change. i dont think hes changed i mean he might say he has and might stop going after a girl but he can always go back to being who he was. what if he gets sick of you or gets into and arguement with you hell probibly go after another girl..i say dont go there hell only hurt you unless hes reaallly proved to you that hes changed but most likely he hasnt. sorryy but i dont want you getting hurt
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A guy can tell you a thousand times that he has changed etc. However, there is never a guarrentee that it is actually the truth. At 40 minutes away, If you are doubting the relationship then clearly you are having second thoughts. It seems you have pretty much made up your mind, If you don't want to become to attached than maybe you should go your seperate way as the longer you are with him the longer you prolong the pain. If you think he is trustworthy and he won't hurt you than go for it but the truth is at 40 minutes away and visiting every other weekend I hope you two have a really really close bond...
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