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ok well one of my best friends says i can't dump my boy friend and then my other best friend says i should do what i want and sometimes i want to dump cuz he can act really stupid but then he can be a real sweety what should i do
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my answer to the question you just asked me-- if you like him stay with him. and you probley do look cute together. i think do what you want unless theres a reason like family doesnt want you to see him then yeah
wow this like just happend to me . and i just dumped him like 4 days ago.
but i still like him, he always got in trouble, he stayed back and everything and ive been dating him for 3 months but my best friend lets call her miley. well miley was my bestest friend and told me not to dump him then my other best friend lets call her jane well jane told me she hated him and want me to dump him, and miley hated my bf sometimes. i liked him alot, but then he was different. sometimes i liked him sometimes i didnt then im like i like someone else so why should i be going out with this guy if i dont care as much as for him as i did before.
kind of confusing my answer is
that follow what you feel, unless your boyfriend is abuseing your best friend then dump him. always friends first. most times. but dont listen to them, well do but ask them for reasons why they want you to or dont want you too.
xoxo i hope i helped.
it was kinda confusing but i tryedd.
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I have this problem alot.
I usually go for dumping him and getting over it.
Then within a week, I want him back.
Really take time to think about this.
You don't want to make a choice because of your friend's opinions.
Try this:
When you see him, do you still get butterflies? Well, if yes, you still have feelings about him.
Guys can be great, guys can be horrible.
Sorta the Can't live with em, can't live without them type of thing ya know?
He's not perfect, so try to give him a break when he does something stupid. But make sure he knows whats right from wrong.
Good luck :)
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You should do what you want.
I mean if you have a good reason though.
Like if you are no longer 'interested' in him.
Or if he cheated on you... then you should be with someone else.
If he hurt you by saying something stupid, isn't a big thing unless.. he continues it over and over and won't stop when you tell him to.
But what do you mean act really stupid?
What is he doing?
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Don't listen to anything any of your friends say...they are smart, but you are the only one that knows your heart. Go with what your heart says...And here is a little more advice...some guys act sweety so that you won't dump them, or won't catch on to their stupidity....I have fallen for the sweety talk many times before...and only bad things have come from it...I'm not saying dump him, I'm just saying you should be cautious...hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice. Thanks!
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Hey,
For starters, if your boyfreind treats you with respect and in a proper manner, and if he cares about you, defends you and stands up for you. And if you trust him and he does too. Then you have no right to dump him. There are some guys who are really naive and childish, but every person has a good side and a bad side, and i can asure you that your boyfreind has some really nice qualities that you wouldn't find in anyone else. And you shouldn't listen to your freinds for advise, when they tell you to dump him or not, because you should take this decision on your own, according to how you feel about him and what you really want and feel comfortable with doing.
So try to give your boyfriend a chance ,and think things over and don't just dump him because he has a silly kind of character that could be changed, and if it really annoys you, then try to point it out to him and ask him to change his attitude a bit , but just be cool and don't make it sound mean .
Goodluck:)
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