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Who do i pick?
Okay so i should be a pro at this by now, but i'vee been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 3 months today. I love him very very much, but he recently found out that i find a guy at work extremely attractive. my boyfriend and i have disscussed marriage and about a life together. i don't plan on marrying him too soon, but what i really need help on is how do i just focus on him and turn away from this other guy? The other guy that i fine attractive is so sweet to me, but i don't know very much about him. I want to stay with my man, but another part of me is saying it's alright to think this other guy is cute. Is it alright for me to think someone's cute even though i'm dating someone else? I should know this, but i just want some people's opinions. thanks and godbless. oh and i'm 19 and not in school and my boyfriend's almost done with school and he's 20.
your friend, lulabell aka lulu
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This is completly normal to be attracted to someone else. You will do it and so will your boyfriend. Dont worry about it, it will pass. There will be another guy in the future that you will be attracted to too and its not that big of a deal as long as you dont have anything with him.
I know that it may make you feel bad, but really there is no reason to worry. And if you and your boyfriend are really close you may even consider telling him how you feel that way he can do the same. Ive always said whats the point of having eyes if you cant look?
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well first off it is not okay to be thinking that this other guy that you work with is "cute" or "attractive" at all. you shouldnt evenbe thinking of other guys. the only guy you should be thinking about is your man. the guy that you are with. plus when you think of other guys especially ones that you work with it's not good. you might tell yourself that it might not lead anywhere but in due time the more you think that the guy u work with is again is "cute or "attractive" the more you are going to be thinking about that person and not your boyfriend.
and that's something you dont want to happen. i nknow that you love your boyfriend but i dont think that it's a good idea to think about the guy at work in the way you think about him . i think that you should just focus on your boyfriend and nobody else ok?
hope my advice helps:)
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It is completely OK and natural to find someone else cute even though you are already in a relationship. Getting into a relationship does not make you blind- you will always find other people you are attracted to. For the time being, pick your boyfriend. You've been a stable relationship for some time. Of course, if you no longer feel attracted to your boyfriend you should think things over before taking the relationship further.
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I would stay with your boyfriend, A year and 3 months is a long time to second guess someone unless of course you are truely unhappy. This guy that you find attractive, You said yourself that you do not know him well. Do you know enough to know that he might have a girlfriend?...I wouldn't talk more about marriage until you have surely decided on what you want too do.Anyway to answer your question yes you can think someone is cute sure, Remember they say you can look but you can't touch.
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