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theres this kid i like and he came over my house and me n him kissed like 6 times and then the next day he kissed this other girl n i dont no if i like him anymore but i invited him to the movies with a bunch of my other friends and some how the other girl he kissed found out about the movies and shes goin n shes like im gonna make out with him right in front of her(meanin me) face and i dont no what to say to him

Dont take it any farther with this guy. If you do, it will only hurt you more.
Especially with this girl, she seems extremely competitive. Its not worth getting into a fight over some guy who kissed you, then another girl the next day.

Hope I helped!
Jenna

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My boyfriend & I were on the phone a few nights ago & everything was fine. Then I started talking about a dream I had where we broke up & he seemed to be interested in what happened. I was worried he was going to break up with me so I said "As for breaking up in the near future..." & I realized a few days later that putting 2 and 2 together, it sounds like *I* wanted to break up with him. A little bit after that he called me back & started saying how he talked to his dad & he wanted to slow things down. Then by the end of the night we had no more relationship. I know this is hard to explain but the next day we talked & I said I still had feelings for him & I didn't want him to think I wanted to break up. He told me neither did he but he did it because it got scared & now it sounds like a good idea to him. Needless to say, I want to get back together. I can't believe this has ended, it really affected me & I want things back to normal. What should I do? I've already tried talking it out with him & I admited that I still like him but it feels like he's not gonna bounce back. He wants to be best friends but I'm not sure if I can be JUST his friend...

Give him time. Yes, I know this might sound like a horrible idea, but it will help in the 'long run'. If he's not ready for a commitment with you now, its no bother trying to ask him to go out with you, and "why did you break up with me?" over and over again.
After a while, when he's cooled off, you should talk to him. He might be ready to go out with you again by then.

Hope I Helped!
Jenna

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look today i just found out that we were moving from clinton to byram,ms! i have been dating my boyfriend for about 1 year and all of a sudden i find out that im moving!!i love him sooooooo much and when i told him today about me moving it totally crushed him. he asked me what he was going to do without me. i wanted to cry so bad. now my question is that if i move should i be worried about him cheating on me without me knowing??? i am sooo confused right now.i really need a friend right now. all of my friends turned their backs on me because they like my boyfriend and they really want to go out with him but he said no to them because he loves me!!!
plzzzzz someone give me advice or have a personal talk with me!!!
thanks

No, you shouldnt be worried about him cheating on you without you knowing. Why? Because if he Truly loves you, he wont want to hurt you. It sounds like he loves you.
If you really need a friend, talk to your mom, your boyfriend, your sibling . . . anyone that is close to you that accepts you for who you are and who you are going out with.

hope i helped!
Jenna

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13/f-i no this is kinda long but plezz read!!
well my best friend is like my sister. but we both like the same guy. ive known him for 8 yrs--since i moved here, and she met him thru me. ive liked him since i moved here--since hes my neighbor. im datin this guy, that i dont reli no. i always say if sum1 i like asks me out i will go out w/ him. and shes like your gonna dump your bf jus to go out with him? and im like yea.shes always so jealous and always talks bout him like shes gonna go out w/ him-shes like if u go out w/ him im gonna be so upset-i jus wanna be like accept it bitch!! but ugh...she can b a bitch...she always talks bout him n wen i do shes like shakes her head n makes a grin--i wanna fuckin shoot her sumtimes. god i like him soo much!then she talks to him online n doesnt tell me hes on. im mad-she always needs things her way!! o yea hes a junior n im a freshman. so i dont reli no wat my ? is but i need help!!!

Well, theres a couple of things you could do hear.

1) Dump your boyfriend, and go out with this guy. The only problem is that if you DO go out with this guy, i doubt your friend will ever forgive you for going out with him. and any relationship isnt worth giving up for some guy, even if you may be in love with him.

2) Limit your best friend as well (she said that if you go out with him shes gonna be so upset) Tell your friend the same thing. It's not fair that shes allowed to go out with him while you're not.

hope i helped!
Jenna

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Ok, when my friends all hang out and leave me out.. I get extremely jeallous and think "Oh they dont like me as much as they like each other." I know it isnt the case, but I can't help feeling jeallous. Is this wierd?
15/f

Not weird at all. If MY friends were leaving ME out, id feel jealous as well. tell your friends that what they are doing is hurting you. if you already told them and it didnt help, or you dont want to tell them, leave them alone for a while. either they're going through a phase, or they just want to get closer. dont worry about it. after a while, things will settle down. hang out with some of your other friends in the meantime. also trying to take each of them out, SEPERATELY (without eachother) so they focus more on you than eachother.

hope i helped!
Jenna

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my sister always takes my parents side. like, usually when a parent is unfair to the kids, the kids take sides right?? well for example, my parents won't let me pierce my ears till i'm 18 (i'm 13) and she totally supports it. she's like "oh i'd do that to my kids too". and when my parents complain that i have too much clothes when i only own about 15 shirts and some of them were from about 2.5 years ago, she supported them too while she had like 3495783475 more shirts. and she just never backs me up. every girl i know-they're sister backs them up. mine never does. it's not that she's some suck-up to parents,she's not shes like 21 and shes not like that...but she just never defends me. i just don't fuckin get it. it annoys me so much. i don't get to see her that often but sometimes i wish she would just go away because sometimes she can just be so rude and mean and bitchy to me. please help

wow. do Not take dr.socko's advice. i read it and fell off my chair laughing.
i have a sister EXACTLY like that. when shes being unfair, tell her. thats what i do. i break down crying telling her how mean she can be and ask her questions about how unfair she is to get it through her head that what she is doing to you is hurting you.
after a while, she might susbside and do it less and less. my sister is now doing it half as much as she used to. mostly she keeps her opinions in her head and doesnt express it to my parents. sometimes now, when im right, she'll take my side.

hope i helped!

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ok this is gunna be rlly confuzing .. but here it goes....

my BFF n i became friends w. this girl who is really cool n all.. shes now like one of my bffs too. but the 2 of them keep leaving me out of things. like they would go to the mall when i cant go n like brag about what they got n stuff. they even went to 6 flags w.out me!!! n the guy i like was there also. n they even met guys at the mall. now one of the guys wants to hookup w. both of them n im letf out allot b.c they are allways talking to them. n making plans w. them. they have been hanging out n leaving me out even when i can hangout. so its not like i couldnt hangout. ((my parents have issues w. me going to the mall)) they have just been leaving me out. what should i do? they have been choosing to hangout w. other people rather than me! :( HELP!!!!!!!

((im a girl n im 13))

ok, i think you should tell them right off that what they're doing is hurting you. tell them that they have been ditching you lately. spend some quality time with one girl alone at different times (they will pay more attention to you if they are not together). you should also consider getting closer to some of your other friends. i also say forget about that guy. if he wants to hookup with both of them, then A)hes a player (because he wants to hook up with more than one person at a time) and B)hes not noticing you at the moment. try to do things to get him to notice you. but if he still doesnt, that means he just wants to be friends. try to stop liking him (yes, i know its hard) but he's just going to keep hurting you.
hope i helped!

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hi jenna i'm 11 years old and im a boy. i have a girlfriend but sometimes i like to look at other boys and sometimes at night when im trying to sleep i think about those boys and touch myself "down there". it feels really good but it's scary. is this normal? what should i do?

yes, it is completely normal. its also OK to have an attraction to other boys. you shouldnt worry about it at all! all boys masturbate at some point in their life, also. you're just starting at an early age.

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ok, so i was at this girls sleepover party on july 28th and there was this guy there and sisnse he was gay too i figured id flirt with him.. anyway i ended up in his parnts and i didnt finish him and then i told my friends and it spread around and he denied it.. did he just deny it becasue i didnt finish him? please help me oxjennaxheartxo thanks!

no, he didnt deny it just because you didnt finish him. he denied it because either A) he doesnt want anyone to know about it, or B) hes ashamed he did it in the first place.
but chances are that it is A, and that he wants to keep it a secret. that is why he is denying it to everyone who think it's true, so they believe its not.
hope i helped!

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um...this is kind of a queer question...but why am I soooooo in love with JENNA?!?!?! I mean...she's alll I think about...
it's like, I can't seem to get her off my mind
I wanna make out with her...
I think that I love her too much
but can you really love someone too much??
Like, Is there a rule saying that you can only love Jenna Zito this much or else you have to go try on ugly purple fuzzy jackets at the GAP and take pics of them in the dressing room???
Is it against some law to be more obsessed with Jenna Zito that with TEALEMONADE?!?!
I mean...I'm just in the biggest pickle...JENNA, I need some serious hep!!!

P.S. Have you heard how great our jeans fit?!
Thanks...Sarah

ahhaaaa!! i love you sarah ruubbyyy!!

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I asked about the yellow cartoon pictures. I was wondering what you typed in when you did search because i'm not sure what to type in to be able to find them. Thanks

i typed in : azuzephre
you can find them on any search websites, like google. =]

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i've been goin out with this guy on and off for like a month and a 1/2. and he can be really sweet! but he was kissing me today and then a few min. later one of his good friends asked me out.. i feel bad 4 the guy (i wasn't going out with him when his friend asked me out)

wat do i do?

reject the friend.
if you've been going out with this guy on and off for like a month and a half, and it seems like you still really like him, ask that guy out.
if you say yes to the friend, then "the guy" and his friend will get into a fight about you.
im sorry if thats extremely confusing....but i hope i helped

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I am thinking of making a website. I know HTML and that stuff. I was just wondering if anyone knew of any Good but Free Web Host?
~Thanx alot

freewebs.com

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how do you make your own graphics like banners and stuff? with liek what program?
thanx

i use : paint shop pro 8. its really good, but very expensive. you can use paint, its free (you have it already on your computer) to use it.
then go to walagata.com and upload it.

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does anyone know where i can find picture of a yellow cartoon charater that has sayings in the picture like for example i have one that say "i can't sleep cuz my pillow is too wet." here the picture. http://i6.photobucket.com/albums/y210/brokenpromisex89/wetpillow.jpg

thanks in advance

http://photos1.blogger.com/img/121/1286/640/While_I_Sleep_by_azuzephre.jpg

http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y1/ahmazivahmazi/Too_Far_Away.png

http://tn7.deviantart.com/150/fs6.deviantart.com/i/2005/055/9/1/Pesticide_Please_by_azuzephre.png

http://www.joy.gr/files/2005/3/14/244875/Pons_Lips_by_azuzephre-t.jpg

http://tn8.deviantart.com/100/fs6.deviantart.com/i/2005/016/a/4/Just_until__by_azuzephre.png

http://www.joy.gr/files/2005/3/16/129391/Awww_by_azuzephre-t.jpg

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my boyfriend cheated on me & my best guy friend gave me a shoulder to cry on. while i was venting to him, he just kissed me. why he did this i dont know, but Im just really confused. did he do it to make me feel better or because he likes me or what? i'm really confused.

if he kissed you while you were telling him your problems, i think that he really likes you and he was trying to find an excuse to kiss you.
good luck! =]

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hi ive been using proactive for about 3 weeks. at first my acne was just around my nose, eyebrowns, and mouth. now its still there and alot started to form on my cheeks and forehead! This really depreses and upsets me because i thought this would work and ive been putting up with this for a while and im really starting to get really low self esteem because i see people with perfect skin and i just want that so bad. i dont know what i should do, i also tried on the spot neautrogena acne treatment, but it made me acne really red. Should i keep using the proactiv and just wait a little longer and see if it clears my face up? I dont know what to do, i have no more money i spent it all on the proactiv so i dont realy no what to do.

if youve been working with proactive for 3 weeks, you should stop using it. especially if it isnt working for you.
i use clearasil and it works really good, you should try it as well. the results are different on everybody, though.
tell your parents about how it is giving you low self esteem, and i am sure they'd give you money if you asked for it (and told them what you were getting).
you can get it in any local drugstore for under 10 dollars.
good luck!

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this is weird but.. how can a person be gay? like.. is everyone born gay and they discover that they're gay later on in their lives, or do they somehow become gay from experiencing something? i'm 14/f, and i'm totally straight, i really dont want to be a lesbian or anything, but is there a chance that i might become one when i grow older?

no one is born gay.
if you dont want to be a lesbian, then there is no chance that you might become one when you grow older. but you never know, you might change your mind. but chances of that happening is really rare.

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I'm really tired of just wearing jeans and a t-shirt to school. I want to start dressing nicer. But all the nice/cute clothes that I find are tank tops or spaghetti straps. And the problem with that is at my school all tops have to have a strap of 3 inches.
Does anyone know of any place that has nice/cute tops that aren't tank or spaghetti?
Thanks.

abercrombie, hollister, and american eagle.
but if you want to go with something less expensive, i would say delias. they have really cute short-sleeved shirts, that are usually under 30 bucks each.

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okay so I go to a performing arts camp... and I know I am a good singer... but this girl keeps puttin me down and is saying that i suck at singing and stuff... now it seems like no1 thinks i am a good singer at my camp... should i just quit?

no, you shouldnt. if you know you are a good singer, than dont listen to what anybody else says! that girl has some nerve telling you that.
if she was truly your friend, she would never tell you that. if anything, she's jealous of your voice and wants you to feel bad about youself.
next time she says it, just laugh it off. dont let her hurt you -and if she does, dont let her see that she's hurting you, she'll just keep doing it- have a good time in camp and make the best of it!

good luck =] !

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