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my sister always takes my parents side. like, usually when a parent is unfair to the kids, the kids take sides right?? well for example, my parents won't let me pierce my ears till i'm 18 (i'm 13) and she totally supports it. she's like "oh i'd do that to my kids too". and when my parents complain that i have too much clothes when i only own about 15 shirts and some of them were from about 2.5 years ago, she supported them too while she had like 3495783475 more shirts. and she just never backs me up. every girl i know-they're sister backs them up. mine never does. it's not that she's some suck-up to parents,she's not shes like 21 and shes not like that...but she just never defends me. i just don't fuckin get it. it annoys me so much. i don't get to see her that often but sometimes i wish she would just go away because sometimes she can just be so rude and mean and bitchy to me. please help
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wow. do Not take dr.socko's advice. i read it and fell off my chair laughing.
i have a sister EXACTLY like that. when shes being unfair, tell her. thats what i do. i break down crying telling her how mean she can be and ask her questions about how unfair she is to get it through her head that what she is doing to you is hurting you.
after a while, she might susbside and do it less and less. my sister is now doing it half as much as she used to. mostly she keeps her opinions in her head and doesnt express it to my parents. sometimes now, when im right, she'll take my side.
hope i helped!
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Shut up and stop whining
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Hiya,
Your older sister probably doesn't hate you, even if it feels like she does.
When people are jealous or envious, they tend to try and make other people (especially those they are jealous of) miserable, don't let her get to you with the things she is saying.
Have you ever asked her why she is doing this? She may be having problems and no one will listen to her so she's seeking attention from your parents. You need to talk to your sister. I mean you only get one. So, be there for her. and in return she'll be there for you.
By not rubbing things in her face you are showing you are a better person.
The best thing you can do is ignore her.
Good luck!Your sister probably doesn't hate you, even if it feels like she does.
Sounds like you're just expierencing some sibling rivalry. From what you've explained to me it just seems like your sister's being a sore loser. She doesn't like to lose, and so when she does she makes it out like it's your fault and that it's really . Don't worry about it. Be mature about it.
Goodluck
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