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Fixing A Broken Relationship
My boyfriend & I were on the phone a few nights ago & everything was fine. Then I started talking about a dream I had where we broke up & he seemed to be interested in what happened. I was worried he was going to break up with me so I said "As for breaking up in the near future..." & I realized a few days later that putting 2 and 2 together, it sounds like *I* wanted to break up with him. A little bit after that he called me back & started saying how he talked to his dad & he wanted to slow things down. Then by the end of the night we had no more relationship. I know this is hard to explain but the next day we talked & I said I still had feelings for him & I didn't want him to think I wanted to break up. He told me neither did he but he did it because it got scared & now it sounds like a good idea to him. Needless to say, I want to get back together. I can't believe this has ended, it really affected me & I want things back to normal. What should I do? I've already tried talking it out with him & I admited that I still like him but it feels like he's not gonna bounce back. He wants to be best friends but I'm not sure if I can be JUST his friend...
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If he really doesn't want to give it another shot, don't force maybe somewhere in he near future you could try it again but not now because he's too confuse and there's too much pressure. Keep being friends with him because a relationship has a friendship base. You guys cn still hang out maybe not on a date but you still could go to the mall, see a movie, or watch a game. Just take it easy for now.
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♥ I think he still likes yooh jus play it off and hell come back to you..TRUST ME! its happened to me plenty of timez wit mah b/f and we jus got bak 2getha yesterday!
x3-Janee'
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ok well you can be his friend and than get closer and closer and by time hopefully it will all fall into place
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Give him time. Yes, I know this might sound like a horrible idea, but it will help in the 'long run'. If he's not ready for a commitment with you now, its no bother trying to ask him to go out with you, and "why did you break up with me?" over and over again.
After a while, when he's cooled off, you should talk to him. He might be ready to go out with you again by then.
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Jenna
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What a really bad ending, you've got to talk to him again. Thats terrible! You need to call him or something and ask him what went wrong. Ask him how he felt about the dream and everything. You really need to tell him how bad you feel about the relationship ending over a dream about a break-up. Explain to him that even though he feels like it was a good idea, that there was no need to be scared, and you were just sharing a dream with him. You really need to talk to him and ask him what happened, and that you feel really bad that things ended so quickly. You need to be heard.
-TheTeenGirl
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