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ok this is gunna be rlly confuzing .. but here it goes....
my BFF n i became friends w. this girl who is really cool n all.. shes now like one of my bffs too. but the 2 of them keep leaving me out of things. like they would go to the mall when i cant go n like brag about what they got n stuff. they even went to 6 flags w.out me!!! n the guy i like was there also. n they even met guys at the mall. now one of the guys wants to hookup w. both of them n im letf out allot b.c they are allways talking to them. n making plans w. them. they have been hanging out n leaving me out even when i can hangout. so its not like i couldnt hangout. ((my parents have issues w. me going to the mall)) they have just been leaving me out. what should i do? they have been choosing to hangout w. other people rather than me! :( HELP!!!!!!!
((im a girl n im 13))
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ok, i think you should tell them right off that what they're doing is hurting you. tell them that they have been ditching you lately. spend some quality time with one girl alone at different times (they will pay more attention to you if they are not together). you should also consider getting closer to some of your other friends. i also say forget about that guy. if he wants to hookup with both of them, then A)hes a player (because he wants to hook up with more than one person at a time) and B)hes not noticing you at the moment. try to do things to get him to notice you. but if he still doesnt, that means he just wants to be friends. try to stop liking him (yes, i know its hard) but he's just going to keep hurting you.
hope i helped!
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