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moving away???? ahhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!
look today i just found out that we were moving from clinton to byram,ms! i have been dating my boyfriend for about 1 year and all of a sudden i find out that im moving!!i love him sooooooo much and when i told him today about me moving it totally crushed him. he asked me what he was going to do without me. i wanted to cry so bad. now my question is that if i move should i be worried about him cheating on me without me knowing??? i am sooo confused right now.i really need a friend right now. all of my friends turned their backs on me because they like my boyfriend and they really want to go out with him but he said no to them because he loves me!!!
plzzzzz someone give me advice or have a personal talk with me!!!
thanks
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No, you shouldnt be worried about him cheating on you without you knowing. Why? Because if he Truly loves you, he wont want to hurt you. It sounds like he loves you.
If you really need a friend, talk to your mom, your boyfriend, your sibling . . . anyone that is close to you that accepts you for who you are and who you are going out with.
hope i helped!
Jenna
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It is very difficult for two people who met when they are very young walk a parallel line in life forever. And if you did, what fun would that be? People are seperated for all kinds of reasons... sometimes that's the way life goes.
I had an on/off thing with a guy for over EIGHT YEARS that got to be very serious. I lived in OHIO and he lived in CALIFORNIA. Aside from all the drama and heartache, we spoke almost every day and night on the phone and online, and we were a huge support for each other. We were honest about the people we dated at home, and understood that we just couldn't be together at the time. It didn't stop us from loving each other, but I think about all the things I would have missed if I would have wasted all that time pining over him, because in the end, we realized our worlds were so different that we weren't compatible. You end up wanting very different things out of people as you grow up and get older. More often than not, the people that you are CRAZY about as a young person... the love of your life, the one you'd live and die for... are not the same people when you're in your 20's and 30's.
I'm not trying to say that the feelings you have for your boyfriend are not real or important. They are. My best advice is for you two to vow to just stay honest. Try the long distance thing for awhile. You didn't specify exactly how old you are so I don't know what kind of transportation situation or even how far apart the two towns are that you speak of. But if you two can dig up two webcams, you can basically chat every day as if you were together. If it's too hard, then you two may end up seeing other people. There's an entire world of possibility out there. Just stay true to him and yourself, and you can't go wrong.
Best of Luck!
Anne Nonimous
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The one upside to all of this is you can find a whole new group of friends that aren't worthless and conniving. With girlfriends like yours who needs enemies? In the end, this is one of the biggest tests of a relationship that two people can go through. If your boyfriend ends up dating one of your girlfriends behind your back then you're fortunate to see his true colors.
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