about

I'm Almedina. I'm foreign, and I'm pretty much ready to handle whatever life throws at me. Ha, pretty random that I go from being foreign to life,but anyways. I've had this column for about two yearsnow, and I don't update it as I should, or want to but with school and this crazy teenage life of mine, it gets pretty hard to do so. I've been giving advice to all my friends since I can remember and I love trying to help them. I'm out going and extrememly loud once you get to know me. I'm usually shy at first unless I've gotten to know you. I don't understand life sometimes. But I've got my whole life to figure out the meaning of it. I'm selfish at times, and stubborn. I care too much about things I shouldn't and not enough about the MOST important things in my life. I'm very annoyed with people at times, and tend to just block everyone out. I'm afraid to say I'm in love, but I'm not afraid of love itself. I'm myself and that's all I can be. I've gone through a lot, so I'm willing to help in whatever way I can (:

advice

ok i like my b/f but i never REALLY REALLY liked him okay hes really nice and all its like i like the b/f thing just not the boy....... i mean ther is nothing there n e more well i kinda wanna break it off w/ him but like my friends dont want me 2 and our 1 month aniversary was monday and he bought me diamond earings i no weird 13 year olds wer do we get this money ?! n e way i have 4 classes with him... i wanna break up with him but i dont no if i should b/c i dont wanna make him feel bad and i just dont wanna go o/ w/ him n e more! so should i break it off with him or not and if i do how should i do it?

well ii think yu should break up with him because some people mite think yur just usiinq him and that could HURT him even WORSE! just ask him over one day and talk to him about it tell him yud rather be friiends and do things friiends would instead of be together because its not workiinq! [[dont tell him yu n3v3r liked him because wow that would just be soo bad!]] and thats really sw33t of him to buy yu diamond eariinqsz for a one month anniversity! w0w.. whAT a guy! but dont break it to him hard! IM me and tell me what happened!! only if yu want! h0p3 ii h3lp3d x0-

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what do you do when you really like a guy, but he never notices you? Then he starts talking so you and kinda flirting back at you. But then sadly you find out he has a girlfriend. What should I do?
Sincerely,
Lost in Love
age= 13
gender= female

w0w .. i have b33n in this situtation so many times! it sucks yea i know it does! the thing to remember is that if hes flirtiinq with yu yu have a chance! dont ruin the chance tho! ii did ruin mii best EVER yet! chance and i regret it oh so very much! dont tell him yu like him cause if him n his gf break up she mite get all pissy at yu because shell think yu made him break up with yu which yu didnt so! just wait!! yur time will so definatly come! g00d luck bab3! h0pe ii h3lp3d x0-

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I have heard that you should try and reduce the amount of calories you eat gradually (like, one week go from 2000 to 1800, and then the next go to 1600, instead of going from 2000 to 1000) to encourage the body to burn fat and not protein from muscle. Is this true?

yea ii have heard that too.. it helps with your body getting used to all the calories being burned! its healthier for yur body! if yu just completely stop eatiinq a healthy amount yur body will get unhealthy.. but yea mi cousin asked her doctor about that and she said its a safe way to burn fat.! h0pe ii helped x0-

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Im 14, female, and i have this really great bf that goes to my school i eat lunch with and is in one of my classes. on the other hand we've been going out for 5 months and i feel like we do the same thing all the time and like hes getting bored or sumthing. Then i have a really good other guy friend that i havent known for that long, which i met through my bf, and i think i like him, and i know he likes me, please help im so lost and confused~

well i dont think yu should give up hope on yur bf! just talk to him about it tell him some things are just gettinq boriinq.. ii think yur startiinq to like his friend because things have been very boriinq! hehe just talk to him tell him how yu feel! but dont give up on him i mean just cause somethings YU n HIM do things the same doesnt mean yu should break up!!` [[its both of yur fault not just one persons]] h0pe ii help3d x0-

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how do you boost your self-esteem? mainly about your body image. i've been having a lot of trouble with my body image =\, and i don't know what to do. whenever i eat i regret eating. when i pinch my stomach i have about 4 inches of fat (and thats standing up!).. i try to keep myself away from food, but then that's all i think about & i eat alot.

thanx in advance.

omgsh yur not even fat!! yu have to have some fat on yur body! its totally normal!! no offense but yur a freak becuase yur like 5'7 and yu weight like 110-115 pounds and yu think yur fat.. wow thats just insane!! yur totally not fat!! and eatiinq food is normal too!! dopnt keep yur self from food that makes yu crave even more... just eat smaller protions! hope ii helped x0-

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Theres a girl who is a complete and total slut shes trying to take my boyfriend away from me I dont like her and she knows it i have talked to my boyfriend and he promised he wouldn't go for her...what should I do?

yu should keep him away from her! watch her! have yur friiends watch her so she doesnt flirt and stuff.. but if yur b*f really likes yu and is a good b*f then i dont think yu are gonna have any problems x0-

also yu can see the answers by clickiinq on Your Questions on the left side!

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14/f
I hate my legs. They are freckled and ugly. And to make things worse, they are hairy. I hate shaving; it takes too long, I cut myself, I get bored, and hair grows so fast you have to do it every 2 days or more! At my school, and lots of places, it is "gross" for girls to have hairy legs. It's so unfair! How can I rid my legs of hair without shaving? (Not Nair because I'm allergic.) Please help.

umm well yu could try to get them PROFESSIONALLY waxed! it helps! mii friend does it and like they stay like smooth and soft for like a week or two! hope ii helped x0-

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i am 13/f and i have a boyfriend even though i'm not really supposed to. anyways my little sister who is 10 found out and now she is threatning meand i don't know what to do.i don't want to break up with him. i tryied talking to her but that made it worse! what do i do?

umm talk to her bride her!! find out something that she did that she wasnt supposed to and use it against her!! just tell her yu really like him and yu dont want to break with him! hope ii helped x0-

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I've always been told that I am a talented actor. Lately though, I have been restricted from acting by my parents. This is due to my average and not superior grades. I've been trying for nearly 7 months to get the great grades my parents require so that I can do the thing I love most. I just can't get focused enough, I come home and just forget to do my homework after my chores. I am smart, and know that I am capable of good grades, I just can't get my brains together. I would like to go to a study group, but my parents won't let me do that either. How can I get back in my honor roll tactics, and into theatre acting again?

well forget about the actiinq for a while.. focus yur mind on the grades stop gettinq so distracted! [[kant spell]] just relax yull be fine.. just stop worrinq so much about actiinq right now.. good grades will get yu in actiinq so yea yur parents r right for layiinq off the actiinq because they dont want yu to get too distracted.. hOpe ii helped x0-

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You know those tops that kinda like.. have a little connected sweater thingie that tie in a knot? Does anyone know where I can find one inexpensively online? Hollister used to have them, but the site no longer carries them. Thanks!

try ebay.. hOpe ii helped -x0

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Anyone who has tried over the counter teeth whiteners, can you tell me the best one you have tried (i.e. crest white strips, rembrant, etc.)

thanks!

ii have never triied that stuff becasue i dont need it but mii cousin's friend did and she bought like crest white strips and they suck! i mean they didnt even stay on her teeth for more than a minute! then she tried rembrant and it works! hOpe ii helped x0-

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i just got the secret sheer dry deoderent but accidently got unscented instead of another one that actually has a scent. what's unscented? like it smells kind of nasty but if you put it on will people smell your sweat? and is secret sheer dry good enough for people who have like hyperhydrosis? if not then can you please suggest some that are? thank you

well unscented just means it has no smell to it! some ppl dont like the smells so they buy those! umm secrect really is a good one.. another good one is dry ideal! hOpe ii helped x0

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I've been wanting to ask, what's emo? I've heard it a lot, but don't have a clue as to what it is, and nobody would tell me because they are such teases.

emo means emotional.. its a type of music

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how much is a condom??????$$$$$$

umm.. well its not like i go shoppiinq for condoms.. l0l! but usually they come in packs of like 4's 8's and they r from like 4 dollars + up! i mean im not so sure.. ill get back to yu on this one l0l!

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One of my teachers is always making fun of the students. I know it is just in good fun but 2 girls started crying over this. Should i tell someone or just let him go on making fun of everyone?
Please i need help!

tell someone! usually someone whos like the boss of the teacher.. usually principals.. its not nice for him to make fun of them its sexual harresment! tell someone asap..[hOpe ii helped x0-alma

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hey how do you get those little things that you can stick on your AIM profile for people to see your advice cloumn, live jouranl, and my space....i will rate high if u help me......
thanks

umm are yu talkiinq about like the links? well yu have to copy N paste the link that the website gives yu! it usually will say like link to us or put this link in yur profile.. stuff like that!! hOpe ii helped! x0- if yu need more help just IM me-

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if i fingered myself would u get horny?

w0w.. sure why not

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do u shave below the belt too.

why is this any of yur business?

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I just started to go out this boy. I really like him. We hang out alot. We joke around alot and he really likes to tickle me even though I don't like it. I still want to go out with him but how can I get him to stop tickling me? He also has been flirting with another girl. It looks innocent but should I worry about it? I rate good. Thanks!

tell him yu dont like to be tickled or even touched around there... if he was a true guy hed understand! talk to him about the other girl.. it could mean something.. she could be leadiinq him on.. hOpe ii helped x0

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OK, I've been dating this guy for about a month or so ...and a few of my friends think he just wants sex and im not quite sure either....One time he asked me to have sex one night but i said no. we've hung out since then and he tried to get me to give him head and stuff but i didnt and we still hang out and whatever but he hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend or anything yet so thats why im unsure nor even have we talked about it . all our phone conversations are pretty short and just consist of making plans and whats up how r u n stuff along those lines however we do talk once in a while for like 15 minutes....so my ? is do u think he just wants sex? and anyways to find out besides talking to him about it

ii think hes just usiinq yu for sex! so the answer to yur questiion is yea! hes just wants some like any typical guy! dont let him make yu do something yu dont want to or yull regret it later! hOpe ii helped xO

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