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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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I'm dating this guy, and he's had a past with dating..i guess whores. He's a great guy, and I've known him for a long time, but we've been talking about us doing things (not sex of course) but I've never done playful things like that before besides making out.what are things I can do/recieve that I can do even without the "experience", or what was the first thing yall did?
Please help!
You could always get him to finger you, or you give him head or a hand job or such. When your kissing just un-due his pants or something, then just take it from there and go with the flow.
hey i was wondering if neone knew of ne good at home exercises 2 lose weight fast that works manly ur legs and stomach and some arms and some diets 2 go on ??? thanks
Watch what you eat, don't eat a lot of fatty stuff. Don't eat past 10ish. Do push ups and crunches. Go for a walk everyday or a run =)
i need help
Well hun, I think you should tell him how you feel. There is no harm in asking. Maybe he likes you and he's just too shy or scared that you don't like him back. So, I say go for it and tell him how much you care about him! Good luck =)
me and my bestfriend seat with our friends at lunch but we found out they r the most boring people! what can we do to get away form them w/o hurting there feelings?
You could try just sitting with them every now and then, so you totally wouldn't hurt their feelings.
Ok, I have thick, brown, shoulder-length hair, and normally, I straighten it every day with my CHI straightener. But everytime I straighten it, it gets messed up within the next 30 minutes. So my question is, what should I use to keep my hair straight for the longest period of time possible? Like, should I use a gel type substance? If so, exactly what brand do you suggest, and exactly HOW do I apply it? Thanks so much!
Get a staight perm. Buy a perm from any store. All you do is put everything in besides the rollers (That makes your hair curly). =)
okay so my bff she tells me soo many stories about her makingout with soo many guys and how she almost had sex and stuff and i don't knoe wut to tell her cuz she thinks of me as a goodie goodie and im really not i just don't go and make out with every guy i meet. wut shall i say to her the next time she talks about all these guys? also it makes me feel like i am a goodie tushu. so idk idk idk idk!! help me asap! please
Tell her if she doesn't stop doing this, she's going to get a name. Once a girl gets a name, it doesn't leave. Then all the girls are gunna hate her and all the guys are gunna want to get in her pants. It's not cool to be out having sex with people you don't love or care about. That's called a slut.
i dont know what to do anymore. my ex boyfriend mike and i were perfect for eachother. we were from different towns but i went to his house and hung out or we went some where else. anywayz we went out for 9 mounth but like every once in a while we broke up and got back together agian. then he dumped me and went out with someone else and they went to second base in 2 days! and i went to 1st with him and we went out 9 mouths. and then he dumped her after 2 mounths because he said he still loved me. so i went out with him for about a mounth and then he broke up with me for this other girl in his school and i was like crying for ever. and then after a week he asked me back out and he was still going out with that other girl (but i didnt know) and we went out for like 4 days and he cut me because "his parents said he had to" which was a lie.. i tried to OD and i was in the hostipal for over 2 weeks for it, and everyone knew about it and as soon as i got out he called me and said he loved me.. i just broke down crying because i still loved him. and he asked me back out and i was soo week i said yes and we went out for like 2 weeks untill i found out he was cheating on me agian so i broke up with him and i havent been out with him since. then like last week he called me and was like talking to me and i told him to never call me agian because i was over him and then after i hung up i cried because i still love him but i cant call him cuz im not allowed to.. his parents would freak. (they think im crazy) and i dont know what to do. i love him but i hate him too. hes my first love. and i miss him. theres just so much pain inside of me im like crying. i miss him. i think im gonna kill myself. because i cant live without him. please help me over come this.
Hun, he's so not worth your time. He just keeps breaking your heart. You have to be strong and tell him you don't want to be with him, if he ever askes you out again. Theres way better guys out there then him, he sounds like a total jerk. First love always hurts the most, but theres someone out there for you and he wasn't it. Don't kill yourself over a guy, guys are not worth your pain. Be strong and try to forget him. Because, theres always a better guy around that corner looking for you, you just have to give it time. "No guy is worth your tears, and when you find one that is, he won't make you cry" =)
but everytime i try to upload a picture of me, it doesnt work? why? and how can i get it to work? someone answer... i'll rate you.
It's probably because your picture is too big. Try resizing with with the paint program!
my best friend always says he is gonna hug me but he never does and it makes me sad and mad i wanna slap i try to get more attention from him? he always hugs my other best friend never me.... what do i do?
I say, go up to him and give him a nice big bear hug, whether he likes it or not! =)
no one i ask seems to know the answer to this question...
how exactly do you skank?
please don't tell me that's a stupid question...i really wanna know how to!
Skank? Mmm, well if you want to skank around, sleep with people? *Shifts eyes*
i really love my hair being long but i sort of wanna cut it up to my shoulders so it looks thicker and just i think it'd look cute! but im scared that i'll hate it. should i play it safe and keep my hair long? my hair takes forever to grow.
Take the chance and cut it, you might really like it. Plus hair always grows back!
ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me
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Honestly, I don't think you should be sticking your thong out just to be noticed. If people can't notice you and like you for being you, forget them. But, please don't be sticking your thong out just to get notice, a lot of people find it kind of sick. =)
He just admitted that he likes me, and I sort of like him.. But he has a girlfriend. Ever since he started dating "Ashley", he's been acting really sad & distant. He used to come over to my house all the time & hang out, but now I'm lucky if I SEE him once a week! I've asked him why he's so sad, but he says that nothing's wrong. I know something's up, but I just don't know what. Any advice?
Maybe this "Ashley" doesn't like him hanging around with you, or she's super over protective!
how do you give a hickey?
Hickeys are made by sucking on a part of someones body. (Mostly the neck). Suck suck suck!
Can someone get pregnant from pre-cum?
Yes, someone can get pregnant from pre-cum, so be careful, use protection!
what kind of facial cleansing product do you think a person with minimal zits that wont go away, and oily skin should use to clear it up before school starts? please helpp i give 5's no matter what!!!
You know them plants with the juice inside of them that you put on burns? (Can't think of the name of them..) Put some of that on your pimpels. You can even get the plant gelly juice stuff that's in the plant, in a bottle at the drug store.
ok my best friend and i are friends with benefits and for a while it's been working out but now i'm hugely late on my period and i don't know if it's stress or not. if i am pregnant i can't get am abortion because my best friend will never talk to me again, but i'm not sure that i'm ready to be a mother. what should i do??
While first off, you need to find out if your pregnant or not. So, buy a kit and do it. Then if you are (I hope your not, good luck!) you chould always give the baby up for adoption if your not ready. Don't get an abortion, I don't believe in them, but I guess it's up to you. Good luck hun!
i have this best friend and i like him and i think its wrong to because he is my best friend, and it could ruin our relationship so does that mean anything and he doesnt even like me! what do i do?
Well if he doesn't like you, I think it would be best just to remain friends. But, if it's meant to be it'll find a way =)
i have seen my friends boyfriend with other girls kissing on them and i told my friend right away but she doesnt believe me, she said that i am jealous ... also she is supposed to have sex with him and i dont want her getting hurt .. is there anyway i could get her to believe me?
Take a picture of them two kissing *Evil laugh*. Pictures never lie right? =)
I am a 13 year old white girl (almost 14). I am intrested in this black kid. some of my friends are ok with it but one of my best friends think i shouldnt like him because he is black. he is one of the nicest and sweetest people i know. i just dont understand why she cant see him for an amazing person and not just him being black. What can i do to get through to her?
Tell her that its wrong to judge people by the color of their skin. People shouldn't be doing that anymore, everyone is equaly the same. Your allowed to like anyone you want too, it's not her liking him, it's you. =)