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my bff
okay so my bff she tells me soo many stories about her makingout with soo many guys and how she almost had sex and stuff and i don't knoe wut to tell her cuz she thinks of me as a goodie goodie and im really not i just don't go and make out with every guy i meet. wut shall i say to her the next time she talks about all these guys? also it makes me feel like i am a goodie tushu. so idk idk idk idk!! help me asap! please
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I have a friend sort of like that. Whenever she tells me stuff like that I sometimes tune her out or just say hmm or yeah. She could be lying about it too.
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Maybe one night you two can go out together and meet guys and make out with them. So you`ll prove to her that your not a goodie tushu
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first of all, if your younger than 16 or 17 i dont think she should b having sex. shes just bragging to you, she probably didnt do half of the things she tells you. next time she talks about the guys, tell her to stop bragging, its not effecting you, and u dont give a shit. tell her that you really dont care how many times shes made out...and please dont go into detail.
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tell her that u dont curr bout her love life and if ur ready to not be a goodie tushu then start bein bad noone can tell you wat to do ur u and thats all u can be
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Tell her if she doesn't stop doing this, she's going to get a name. Once a girl gets a name, it doesn't leave. Then all the girls are gunna hate her and all the guys are gunna want to get in her pants. It's not cool to be out having sex with people you don't love or care about. That's called a slut.
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ok, heres the deal, only do stuff when YOU are ready so u dont look back and wish u hadn't done it... just tell ur friend that u want to make ur own decisions and not have her input on things like that because u dont agree with her in that area... but u dont have to b harsh when u tell her... if shes a real best friend, she'll understand, i promise
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like I said before, if you feel that you have to compete against your "bee eff eff" then something is WRONG here! in the long wrong, she'll look like a slut, and you'll be better off anyways!
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all u need to do is tell ur friend that u dont like to hear her talk about the kind of stuff. and if she keeps doing it just kinda of try to hang out with different people. u can do it i was in the same thing and i got out of it and my friend helped me the whole way now she is my bestest friend.
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IF SHE WAS YOUR FRIEND SHE WOULD AT LEAST CARE BOUT YOUR FEELINGS AND NOT MAKE FUN OF THE WAY YOU ARE..SOME PEOPLE ARE FASTER THEN OTHERS..THATS WHAT I WOULD TELL HER AND SHE SEEMS A LITTLE OFF YOUR LEVEL AND THATS GOOD THAT YOUR WAITING BECAUSE CHICKS LIKE HER END UP PREGNANT!
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If this person was really your friend, she wouldnt be calling you a goodie tushu
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ignore it, or tell her you dont really care who she made out wit or almost had sex with, or tell her to tell someone else who will actually care.. =/ might sound harsh but it will get her to drop it! =)
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just because u don't makeout with every guy you meet dosen't mean ur a goodie tushu!its good that you don't too. that could give you a bad reputation if word gets around. if your friend starts talking about these guys, just try to change the subject. or simply tell her you don't whant to her the stories. you'd rather talk about something else.....hope i helped!
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I wouldn't woRRie about it; just do youR own thing!! And if it Really botheRs you THAT much, peRhaps you could even thRow one of YOUR stoRies out theRe sometime, just to RefResh heR memoRy that you know how to heat things up as well. Goodluck!! Hope I helped!! =D
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