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Question Posted Friday August 13 2004, 4:37 pm

me and my bestfriend seat with our friends at lunch but we found out they r the most boring people! what can we do to get away form them w/o hurting there feelings?

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StRwBeRrYShOrTy answered Saturday August 14 2004, 10:25 pm:
well you dont hafta exacxtly "get away" from your friends. you can liven thigns up a bit, talk about what interests you and you can also join different kinds of activitie that you think are fun. that way you can still be friends and dont have 2 hurt anyones feelings or anythign cuz thats never fun. well hope i helped =)

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MummuM answered Saturday August 14 2004, 12:06 am:
You could try just sitting with them every now and then, so you totally wouldn't hurt their feelings.

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AdviceGuruGirl answered Friday August 13 2004, 11:33 pm:
They are your friends, right? Then how come they are suddenly boring? I suggest doing something crazy first, or asking interesting questions-strike up some interesting conversation (but don't get too touchy with your questions)---if that doesn't work, why don't you move to another table with other people there---and if you are worried about hurting their feelings, invite them to come with you---at least you will have other people there to make things fun!

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L0VELLE answered Friday August 13 2004, 6:36 pm:
just tell them that sometimes you need your space to discuss things that are personal to just you two...:D love elle

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Jane answered Friday August 13 2004, 5:34 pm:
*Well, maybe you and your best friend are only talking to yallselves. Just start talking to them and they'll open up if they are YOUR FRIENDS.*

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xxxxxx answered Friday August 13 2004, 5:10 pm:
that's really nice of you that you don't want to hurt their feelings. I think you should tell your friends that you have other friends that want you to sit with them at lunch, but still talk to them in the halls and in the classroom. I don't think they'll take it the wrong way.

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XxRockon answered Friday August 13 2004, 5:03 pm:
Maybe if you graducally start sitting with other poeple during lunch they will probably get the idea..

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GC_rox_my_sox answered Friday August 13 2004, 5:02 pm:
Tell them that you and your friend are having trouble in science class, and that you are going to be sitting with other people for a while because they are doing great in that class and offered to help you with your homework. That should work for a month, and then your boring friends will just kind of forget about you...like they'll be so used to you sitting somewhere else that they won't notice you aren't there anymore.

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charmed-cherry21 answered Friday August 13 2004, 4:42 pm:
Just say that you want to sit with some other people and make more friends*Haleigh Ann*

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JustAskAlli answered Friday August 13 2004, 4:41 pm:
Its hard but i cant say much (sorry) dont say anything rude. Maybe you could just tell them what your really feeling. Hope it helped. Thanks

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