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Confuzzled..
He just admitted that he likes me, and I sort of like him.. But he has a girlfriend. Ever since he started dating "Ashley", he's been acting really sad & distant. He used to come over to my house all the time & hang out, but now I'm lucky if I SEE him once a week! I've asked him why he's so sad, but he says that nothing's wrong. I know something's up, but I just don't know what. Any advice?
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Why don`t you try and call him or even go over his house
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i think hes trying to avoid u... did u give any hints as to that u liked him back? or did u just come out and say it? cuz maybe if he still likes u a little bit... he thinks that if he talks to u more, he might like u more, and he realli likes the IDEA of liking this "ashley" u know? maybe u should get a hold of him and talk about it and see what is up... maybe he's just mad at u for something u said... u never know in a situation like this!!! :)
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Maybe this "Ashley" doesn't like him hanging around with you, or she's super over protective!
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you should tell him that this really bothers you and you would like to talk about it so, than it's out in the open and you both can go from there. good luck
alice
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Dear Confuzzled,
If he is cheating on the girlfriend, are you totally sure that he wouldn't cheat on you? Maybe he is confused about who he likes and needs time to figure things out. I would just give things time. If he doesn't seem to be getting any happier, I would talk to him about his feelings. Just tell him that he is a great friend and that you care about him, and just let him know that he has your support. I'm sure if you say something like that, he'll open up to you.
Hope this helps!
-DearBritney
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he's confused between you and this other girl he's dating. if he's dating her and he likes you, he's not being loyal to her. I don't think its a good idea to keep asking him what's wrong. just give it time. he might be depressed about something totally different. like there could be some family problems or something. just let him know that you are by his side and always avalible to talk... and when he's ready he'll come to you!
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Dear Confuzzled,
The best thing I would do is talk to your parents or someone you can trust. This friend had a huge chance of being abused
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Invite him over your house, and try to get his mind off ashley or w/e you think is wrong, just have fun with him! and be there for him.. thats all you can do if he doesnt tell you whats wrong, =( <3
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I think you should casually ask him if anything is wrong. Don't bother him too much, you don't want to seem nosy. If he doesn't directly mention what the problem is, then don't talk about his problems for awhile. He might just be going through a hard time.
As for the whole girlfriend thing- you shouldn't make any moves or anything until he breaks up with his girlfriend.
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maybe he really DOES liike yOu. yOu guysz shOuld really sit dOwn n talk wiit eaChother! or maybe there isz sumthin else goiin on wit him but he dOn`t wanna say...i dunnO i`d jusz talk to hiim if i were yOu!
xOo` muahhh..goOd luCk <3 ashley
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Y don't you just ask him what's up and if he doesn't tell you just mind your own business then lol
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