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"i make mistakes, it's what i do. i speak without thinking. i act without knowing. when i drink, i drink so much that i can barely walk. i'm a fantastic lover though. & an amazing friend. God knows i mean well."

i'm kari sue rose. obviously.
i'm a graduate at pound high school & i'm 19 ;)
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hi, i'm brittany. i am a freshman and i am 14 years old. ok-so heres the thing. i've made out with guys before, not many times though, but thats as far as i've been. sometime's i want to give a handjob and go right past getting felt up because i dont have anything, haha. but i have had the chance to give handjobs but i always chicken out because i might mess up or something. i also dont want people to think of me as a "slut" even though there are much worse things people do. how do i know if i'm ready, and is it bad if i give just a friend one?

thanks =) (link)
honestly i don't think its the best idea to just go around & give guys handjobs.

my first one, i gave to my first love.

but i can't really tell you what to do, if you feel you are ready then go for it. but still, think about the consequences, and would you really want to look back in a couple of years from now & remember yourself giving like 5 different guys handjobs; i surely wouldn't.

but once again, it's your decision.


I didn't know what subject to put this under so yeah. I have to go to the ob-gyn and i shave already down there but I don't know if i should shave or not before I go to see her. I don't want to look stupid or for her to be like eww you're hairy or dang you shaved too much. I know she's mature about it and won't say anything, but I don't want her to be thinking this. (link)
just like everyone else said, she's seen plenty of shaved/unshaved so yours wouldn't be any different.

if you don't feel like shaving, don't.
but if you'd like to, then go ahead :]

either way, she's not going to say anything to you, she's not allowed to criticize.


Ok so in my english class we have to present a speech thats 2 minutes long... I know I know, its not that long..... but when it comes to presentations and speeches i get sooooooooo nervous!!!!!!!!!! ANY TIPS ON HOW TO CONQUER THIS FEAR??????? please and thank you. (link)
my english class makes us write essays & speeches & we have to present them, and i get soo nervous.

sometimes the best thing to do, is just sorta start thinking about other things while reading your paper or making your speech.

try not to pay so much attention to the class and try your best not to worry.

im usually the only person in my class who gets up there & stutters & shakes, it's scary, and i hate it, but i guess thats about the best advice i can give you =/


why can't i hear music when i try to listen to music on the computer when the volumn is on and it's not on mute either? (link)
when my speakers did that, we had to go & get them fixed.

your soundcard could be broken.

try making sure they are plugged up correctly, and if that doesn't work, then i advise you to go to a computer specialist, i'm sure they will fix it.


I had a friend last year, and we werent like best friends or aquatences (sp) either. this year we joined the same club, and i was like right next to her and she didnt even look or say anything to me. its like she didnt even notice i was there. why would she do that? she was paying attention to only the other girls there who were also my friends.. but like idk why she'd be pissed at me or somethin. (link)
just because she didn't say anything to you once, doesn't mean she's mad at you.
maybe she didn't recognize you, or maybe she was too busy to say anything, i don't know.
people do weird things. don't be pushy though, i'm sure she has her reasons.


Ok Take Me Serious..I May Sound Selfish But I Dont Care..
Im relaly considering giving up life, ive nearly died so many times. Someone wants me dead..
My ex tried to kill me..
Everyone walks over me..Hurts me once comes back for more and hruts me again
I cant handle life any longer Its killing slowly id rather get it over and done with :'( (link)
okay whether you want to listen to me or not, i promise with everything within me, that you ARE here for a reason.
& regardless of how sick of life you are, its not worth going to hell over(whether you believe in it or not)
now im not a big christian & im not going to lecture you about how wrong it is to commit suicide, because i've tried & failed.

if you've tried & failed too, then god wants you here on earth. if you had died then you weren't supposed to be here, but you are here, so you need to live up to his expectations.

yeah life is hell but im not going to sympathize over you because someone out there has it wayyy worse & would give anything to live, when all you want to do is die.

suicide is selfish, and a terrible, terrible road to drive down.

things WILL get better. they always do


im 15 years old and my boyfriends 18. were both ready to have sex, but we dont know where and when because wed be too scared someone would catch us at my house and im not allowed over his. also, i dont think im able to yet because my vagina isnt wide enough.. how do we fix this fast? (link)
regardless of how wide your vagina is, your first time is going to be very painful. probably the worst pain you'll ever feel in your entire life.

if you are afraid of being caught, then you probably shouldn't try it. my boyfriend & i have been caught numerous amounts of times & the results are terrible.

just maybe you should try it when you are alone with him, or when you think nobody will walk in.

but i wouldn't try making your vagina "wider" it won't feel as good for him.


I AM LIKE FREAKING OUT RIGHT NOW! Last week I was 120 exactly, and all of the sudden I weighed myself and I am 129! I am on my period so I dont know if that affects anything, but I am about to go on an exteme diet. Does anyone know why this happened all of the sudden? 14/f, Im not pregnant or anything like that.. (link)
9 pounds is nothing darling.

& plus your period adds water weight, which can range from 5lbs-20lbs.

i don't think you should freak out over something 'this' small.

129 is nothing to worry about, if you don't look fat, then those numbers don't mean a thing.


okay so my bestfriend and her boyfriend were together on friday right? and i hung out with her after she left his house. she tells me him and her both got naked and that stuck it in for like 5seconds she doesnt think he came but she is still a little confused and the day after[saturday] she got her period. do you think she can still be pregnant.. please answer soon... chelsea is anxious of knowing.. :]



-Melissa! (link)
the only way a girl can get pregnant, is if a guy actually ejaculates inside the girl.

pre-cum or just plain cum, she can get pregnant.

but you said that he didn't get off & she has her period, so therefore, she's not pregnant. duh.


sixteen/female.

what happens when a girl gets off by being fingered? my boyfriend did this to me twice, once just "feeling around" and the next actually trying to accomplish what's supposed to happen, haha. but neither of us knew what happens when a girl does get off, so we stopped. this may be a rediculous question, but i never masturbated and we're both inexperienced because our realtionship has never been about "doing stuff". help pleaseee. (link)
some girls actually 'cum' like guys do, but not really. like it's clear & it doesn't squirt (although squirting is possible, but thats a different story)

but mainly you just orgasm. your vagina walls tense up by about 50% & then they expand back to normal.

it's an amazing feeling & you have no reason to not want to get one


what does it mean to say that someone wears their heart on their sleeve? thank. (link)
i've always heard that it means that you fall in love easily. that you give your heart away too simply.

but i could be wrong?


why is it that most of the time when my boyfriend fingers me and i go to the bathroom after that it burns when i pee, does that mean there is somethin wrong with me. please tell me am scared (link)
don't listen to the person who said that this wasn't normal. because in some cases it is.
some girls can't take too much force so it'll burn when they pee.
& in others, it just simply burns afterwards.

from now on, try peeing beforehand, therefore you won't have to afterwards.

& also get him to be a little easier on you. eventually the burning sensation will go away.


Yesterday I asked a question about my boyfriend being too friendly with a female. I got mad at him and he went into a depression and said I am doing it to him. Later he got offended and depressed again when I let him know about the responses I got from this site that were beneficial to me,is he feeling guilty about his behavior, are my suspicions of his impending cheating true?Usually he is very upbeat. I think He is way too sensitive about the subject. (link)
maybe he doesn't mean to be 'too friendly' & doesn't want you to actually think that he is.

or maybe he's had a bad experience with something like this & doesn't want it to happen with you guys.

whatever the reason, if he seemed overly sensitive, then maybe you shouldn't mention it anymore.

just clarify how you feel about it to begin with & leave it at that.


15/f. i've gotten my period before and it has always been a normal color (dark red). like two weeks ago i started getting heavy discharge so i put on a thin pad everyday just in case. now today i got a lot of brown stuff all over my pad. what is this? is this my period but just a funny color? and if so is that bad?

thanks (link)
most of the time when your period is a brownish color, it just means that it isn't very heavy & that it's almost over. or it could mean that you are spotting.

it's nothing to fret over dear :]


i have a boyfriend and he asked me out last week on friday 10th.i was happy because i never had a boyfriend,my best friend told me that he wouldn't stop talking about me and he even said he liked my butt lol.I don't know if thats a good thing anyways i need tips to make my boyfriend like me more like flirting tips.And want kind of gifts to give him thats nice and cheap.Because i love him a lot and i want to give him something special,my boyfriend is kind and nice.sometimes i think other girls are flirting w/ him i need tips to not be jealous too please help. (link)
i can soo tell you are at that new boyfriend stage; aww :]

anyways; there aren't really ways to make someone 'like you more' they just have to like you in general. be sure to talk to him, give him attention, flirt.

i wouldn't be too pushy with the gifts, only buy them on certain occasions, like christmas, birthday, valentine's, etc. some guys don't even like gifts. just get him things you think he would like.

& jealousy isn't something you can just get rid of. just try to let him know the things that bother you & then the things that don't. you both are going to have to compromise if you want this relationship to last.



Hey. Well I was wondering how to delete websites in the search engine. Thanks lots (link)
like are you asking how to clear your history or clear your auto complete thing?

clarify your question & then i'll answer


ok, so i dont know where to put my tampon. my mom keeps telling me the middle hole, but i have no clue what she is talking about. i think its to whole that basically ends that whole vagina thing? and is that where the penis goes for when you have sex? and is that where you masterbate? (link)
yes you have it correct.
the hole that you put the tampon in, is the same one you have sex through & masterbate through.

your euretha(sp?) which is your pee hole is too small to fit a tampon through & would cause major infections if you tried.

i hope i helped :]


i fRiCkiN l0VE Y0U.
did Y0U kN0W thAt?

annoying typing = ♥ (link)
woo woo.

although i don't consider that annoying typing.
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Alright. My boyfriend and I have thought a LOT about having sex with each other. I really want to and I'm ready but I'm only 15, and if I explained to my folks that I need birth control, they'd kill me. I know I'm ready because we've been dating for quite sometime, and I'm very in love with him and I want him to be my first. We've planned to stay together for a while and I'm not one of those girls who just blabber on and on about how I love this person so so so much. I take things seriously and I don't say I love you every 5 minutes because it's something very special to say. Not only do you have a healthy, good physical relationship with each other, we've got an amazing emotional one too. We're so open with each other, it throws me off guard sometimes. He's my best friend in the whole wide world and we even broke up with each other a few months ago but we never stopped talking like we do now and we didn't stop seeing other. He's amazing, I love him, and we can't ever get enough of each other. At school, we're together, and then after school we're on the phone until bedtime. Then on weekends we're together. Theres always things to talk about when we're together and theres always things to do. We get along amazingly and we have a really strong connection. Hes so practical and logical too. He's very smart with his decisions and he's helped me along so well. I've had a lot happen to me the past few years and I went off track but now my life is great and things are going smoothly. See now I want to have sex with him, and I already think my parents suspect that we fool around. Would fooling around be considered sexually active? Do I sound ready for sex? Someone please help me, I've talked to him about this as well and he doesn't know what to do. We need some clearing up!! (link)
only you, yourself, can decide whether or not you are ready for sex.

we, can't.

it's in your mind & you know what you want to do.
if you have no doubts whatsoever, then go ahead.

if you are ready for all the consequences, such as heartbreak, pregnancy, std's, & even losing your relationship you have now, and what i mean by that is, starting to have sex, may mean giving up all that communication you two have. if you start having sex, more than likely you'll start to do it more often & lose that real connection you guys used to have.

i can't tell you to wait, but i can't ask you if you truly are ready & feel all right about the consequences.

if you are having doubts, then don't.


for some reason whenever i am in school i sweat alot under my arms even when it is cold out. i put deoderante on (duh, im not that dumb) but it still doesnt do anything expect the fact that i dont smell. I think it might be a nerve thing but i was just wondering if there is any product or deoderante just for like wetness (link)
i am the exact same way, but not only under my arms, but my feet & hands. most of the time i can't even wear flipflops or i get really bad sweatrings.
it's weird, but true.

my mom was curious about this & she keeps telling me it's my hormones, but after going farther into it, we've decided to go get my thyroids(sp?) checked. which may be what you need to have checked to.

& there is a disease where your armpits sweat all the time, i'm not sure what it's called, but they make medicine for it & you can see a doctor to get it prescribed to you.

anyway you flip it, you may need to go to a doctor.





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