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Question Posted Thursday November 16 2006, 9:19 pm

hi, i'm brittany. i am a freshman and i am 14 years old. ok-so heres the thing. i've made out with guys before, not many times though, but thats as far as i've been. sometime's i want to give a handjob and go right past getting felt up because i dont have anything, haha. but i have had the chance to give handjobs but i always chicken out because i might mess up or something. i also dont want people to think of me as a "slut" even though there are much worse things people do. how do i know if i'm ready, and is it bad if i give just a friend one?

thanks =)

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stephanerd answered Friday November 17 2006, 12:43 am:
It seems like a fun time (and it is at the time). You might think "We're friends, nothing bad will happen." or "He deserves one, it's no big thing" or something like that. Well it's not like that. It complicates things. It awkwardizes things. It ruins the mood, but you really need to think about the consequences, and talk to the guy, <i>when he isn't horny</i>.

Good luck with whatever you choose.

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karisue answered Thursday November 16 2006, 9:26 pm:
honestly i don't think its the best idea to just go around & give guys handjobs.

my first one, i gave to my first love.

but i can't really tell you what to do, if you feel you are ready then go for it. but still, think about the consequences, and would you really want to look back in a couple of years from now & remember yourself giving like 5 different guys handjobs; i surely wouldn't.

but once again, it's your decision.

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