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Ok Take Me Serious..I May Sound Selfish But I Dont Care..
Im relaly considering giving up life, ive nearly died so many times. Someone wants me dead..
My ex tried to kill me..
Everyone walks over me..Hurts me once comes back for more and hruts me again
I cant handle life any longer Its killing slowly id rather get it over and done with :'(
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take a second..step back and breath! i've been were you are and even though you prob. don't beleive it, i know how you feel. if you are feeling like the world is out to get you,i promise they arn't. its almost hard for me to say that because i still feel like they are from time to time. DO NOT KILL YOURSELF!! I SWEAR to you thats the worst thing you could do. no matter what,life goes on. ask your parents if you can transfer schools..do something! you can't take people walking all over you..its not right! i used to get walked all over too..i was very insecure and emotional..and thought about how much i wished it could just end. it gets better! as you get older and things change..it gets SO much better!!! i promise!! i also promise that no matter what, i'm here for you! i'll help you anyway i can to get you out of this awful place you are in,emotionally. please remember that life is worth so much more than its given credit and you have to stay alive and keep fighting. i have no dobt you will turn out to be an increadibly strong person in the end! keep talking to me!i'm a friend to turn to no matter what!hope i could help!
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Dont give up on your beautiful life!
Absolutely not.
I'm so sorry people are being so horrible to you. Dont let what they are doing, make you seem like your life isnt worth living. Because it is, sometimes it has to get worse before it can get better. Stand up for yourself, DO NOT let people walk all over you! You are a human being and people love you, and people care for you, you matter. You really do. I know someone thinks about you before they go to bed at night. Pray if you need help too. God works wonders.
Just dont give up! If you need someone to talk to, feel free to IM me @ KaylehMae on aim, if you dont have aim, and you'd still like to talk to me, check out the other ways you can contact me on my column.
But really, you are worth something. You were put on this earth for a reason, dont give up.
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death is not the answer. BOTH my friends used to cut themselves and tried to commit suiside. one of them starting cutting her neck and almost died while the other had to go to a rehab clinic. suicide is not the way to solve your problems. god wants you here for a reason and you'll never get to accomplish what he wants you to do if your not alive. when my dad moved to a diffrent town as a kid, his best friend (around the age of 13)commited suicdide and died. it made everyones life alot harded and alot more depressed. if you commited suicide and suceded then think about how your family and friends would feel and how much harder it would make their lifes.
hope i helped
p.s. your life is worth alot more then just throwing it away because there are alot of positive things and you have to look at think about those more then the negative.
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OK never neer never never give up they get what they want! And just try to forget about them they are jerks. I will be alright. I know that what your going thruogh is only tempely. and there is always something positvie in something negitve. So hang in there and maybe those that have hurt you will regret it. I know that you do't think that they wont but trust me never never give in. Keep fighting!!!! Life is the greatest gift God has givi you and you should keep it yuntill he wants it. He needs you for something and I think that this is it.
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First, about life. To the best I have been able to determine, there is no Plan. We arent here "for a purpose". We dont have a destiny.
To me, thats the most kickass part about being alive. You can do everything or nothing at all. Its up to each individual to find meaning in his or her surroundings, to find their own joys, their own pains, and their own path in life.
Second, people walk all over you because you let them. Im not saying thats the only reason things happen, but you need to realize something. There is ONE common thread in all your experiences. You. The fact is that there are assholes out there. We cant change that, the only thing you truly have power over is yourself. Its up to you to make changes in your own life, good or bad. If you let the world make them for you, the changes are usually not to your benefit.
Third, about not being able to take life any longer. Trust me, you can. Id like you to think back to all the shit you've had to deal with in your life. Then think about the word "had". Its in the past. You beat it. You conquered it. YOU ARE STILL HERE. That in and of itself is an accomplishment to take pride in.
Fourth, and lastly. Whats really waiting for you? If you end it, you have two possibilities. Hell and Nothingness. Ok, well the third is reincarnation, but given that actions taken during life affect who you come back as, you might come back as a goat. Do you really want to give up being human for being a goat? They eat metal and make the worlds worst tasting cheese. More seriously though, ending it doesnt make anything better. Either you go to eternal torture or you are nothing more than a sad memory to those who know you. Thats no way to go out.
Id reccomend, first, finding some goals. They dont have to be big, just something for you to shoot for. As you go along, your goals get bigger, better, and provide alot more satisfaction. Example, my goals are to finish grad school, teach, get my PHD, have kids with my fiancee, and a few others. Thats alot on my plate, but it gives me things to work for.
Lastly (I promise this really is last) at least make it to college. In high school, your social structure in classes does not at all resemble the real world. I hated high school, and I was actually one of the more popular people in school when I was younger. College was like a lifetime of breaths of fresh air. All of a sudden, life is opportunity.
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okay whether you want to listen to me or not, i promise with everything within me, that you ARE here for a reason.
& regardless of how sick of life you are, its not worth going to hell over(whether you believe in it or not)
now im not a big christian & im not going to lecture you about how wrong it is to commit suicide, because i've tried & failed.
if you've tried & failed too, then god wants you here on earth. if you had died then you weren't supposed to be here, but you are here, so you need to live up to his expectations.
yeah life is hell but im not going to sympathize over you because someone out there has it wayyy worse & would give anything to live, when all you want to do is die.
suicide is selfish, and a terrible, terrible road to drive down.
things WILL get better. they always do
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HA, sorry i dont mean to laugh opr anything but you sound just like me. I have a depression issue and a level 3 bi polar issue so i know exactly what your going through. Listen to me death isnt that great you may think it now because your in a rut. Iv tried every way imaginable to kill myself and none of them worked iv been in a psych ward three different times. Iv now come to realize that im not supposed to die, im supposed to accomplish something on earth once your dead your dead hun. Think of all your friends and family think of your future , if your boyfriend keeps hurting you why go back to him? it doesnt sound selfish it just means that your realising the truth in life not all of it is fair. I dont really knwo what to say but iv been through exactly what you are and its a very painful and not a pleasant stage. When i cut my wrist one time and the ambulance got to my house they told my mom that 10 more minutes and i would have been dead i spent 15 days in the hospital and 2 years in the psych centre. You dont want to be there hun trust me life is worth it just hold in there things will get better. Life is like shit you can either walk over it or pick it up and it gets better smelling. That was a stupid metaphore but lol. What it comes down to is once your dead your dead and theres no coming back no trying to re do what you did and it will get awfully boring and cold just think of that.
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