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not speaking..?
I had a friend last year, and we werent like best friends or aquatences (sp) either. this year we joined the same club, and i was like right next to her and she didnt even look or say anything to me. its like she didnt even notice i was there. why would she do that? she was paying attention to only the other girls there who were also my friends.. but like idk why she'd be pissed at me or somethin.
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Well if you weren't really a good close friend then she doesn't really have to talk to you.
Sometimes it could be awkward.
Maybe she has nothing to talk about with you. You just start a conversation but if she ignores you.. then that's a problem.
You could always say Hi or something.. I remember you from last year. Maybe she doesn't recognize you?
I'm pretty sure she saw you but didn't know what to say.
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My friend (female) just went through that with a guy friend who she had a crush on. he was friends with her back in junior high, but he's a year older, so she hadnt really talked to him in about a year. At the beginning of the year, she started talking to him, and they became friends, they had a lot in comman. Then she started to develop a crush on him. And things sorta went insane. He started to act all weird and ignore him. Then she got mad and stopped talking to him. But he had no idea. Then he got upset with her, so she decided to finally tell him why she was mad. He totally had no idea. And now they are friends again.
So basically what I'm trying to say is, that if you dont ask she wont tell. You dont HAVE to talk to her, and the other advicenator is right, she may have been preoccupied, but who knows. Hang out with her again, and if she does it again, maybe talk about it to her or something. I'm sure you are just worrying about it for no reason, and next time, she'll be glad to hang out, but dont let her take advantage of you, if she only wants to be your friend sometime that sucks. So if thats the case try and make other friends.
I hope I helped. Sometimes hearing about someone else going through the same thing helps. Good luck, and I hope your friend and you are okay.
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just because she didn't say anything to you once, doesn't mean she's mad at you.
maybe she didn't recognize you, or maybe she was too busy to say anything, i don't know.
people do weird things. don't be pushy though, i'm sure she has her reasons.
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