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getting off?


Question Posted Sunday November 12 2006, 10:53 pm

sixteen/female.

what happens when a girl gets off by being fingered? my boyfriend did this to me twice, once just "feeling around" and the next actually trying to accomplish what's supposed to happen, haha. but neither of us knew what happens when a girl does get off, so we stopped. this may be a rediculous question, but i never masturbated and we're both inexperienced because our realtionship has never been about "doing stuff". help pleaseee.

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karisue answered Monday November 13 2006, 5:36 pm:
some girls actually 'cum' like guys do, but not really. like it's clear & it doesn't squirt (although squirting is possible, but thats a different story)

but mainly you just orgasm. your vagina walls tense up by about 50% & then they expand back to normal.

it's an amazing feeling & you have no reason to not want to get one

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Madalyn772 answered Monday November 13 2006, 4:02 pm:
I dont understand exactly what you're asking. Email me at madalyn987@yahoo.com, I'll help you some more.

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xoiiloveyou143xo answered Monday November 13 2006, 3:08 pm:
You will know when you actually get off. It's a hard sensation to miss. lol The only way you can show him how to get you off, is to know for yourself. You have to know what you like, how you like it, etc before you can have a really good orgasm.

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BitsandPieces answered Monday November 13 2006, 1:57 pm:
The best way to help your partner help you is to know your own body and practice giving yourself orgasms however you can. Then, you will be able to guide him by sensing what feeling is leading you in the right direction. When you do orgasm, there will be no question in your mind. It is a powerful release and involuntary after a certain point of climax. The orgasm itself may be large, small, singular or multiple and felt in various parts of your body besides the genitals being first of course. You will discover these with experience, but the most important factor for a woman being able to successfully and consistently orgasm, is the ability to trust and relax with her partner and be uninhibited completely. If you are self-conscious it will be difficult. Teach yourself first, then train your man.

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queenhearts answered Monday November 13 2006, 2:48 am:
Well if he's doing it right, he might be able to hit your clit or something. I think it's best if he gets your aroused before doing that. If he's able to turn you on.. you'll get an orgasm. There's 2 types of orgasms. One vaginal and one.. that you feel throughout you're whole body. Since he's fingering you, I'll say you might get the first one.

It just depends if he's hitting your G-spot.

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sizzlinmandolin answered Monday November 13 2006, 1:52 am:
This link explains it very well. Browse around the website, there's a ton of must-know information for you on there. Good luck. :)

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