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Should I let up?


Question Posted Monday November 13 2006, 2:25 pm

Yesterday I asked a question about my boyfriend being too friendly with a female. I got mad at him and he went into a depression and said I am doing it to him. Later he got offended and depressed again when I let him know about the responses I got from this site that were beneficial to me,is he feeling guilty about his behavior, are my suspicions of his impending cheating true?Usually he is very upbeat. I think He is way too sensitive about the subject.

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karisue answered Monday November 13 2006, 5:24 pm:
maybe he doesn't mean to be 'too friendly' & doesn't want you to actually think that he is.

or maybe he's had a bad experience with something like this & doesn't want it to happen with you guys.

whatever the reason, if he seemed overly sensitive, then maybe you shouldn't mention it anymore.

just clarify how you feel about it to begin with & leave it at that.

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MissxJacky answered Monday November 13 2006, 4:41 pm:
Well if he gets sensitive about it maybe there was a time when he had cheated and doesn't like to be reminded of it.
He just wants to let that go..
But possibly he could be cheating on you if he's sensitive talking about it with you.
If that's the case then you should really talk to him about it.

Hope I helped.
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Razhie answered Monday November 13 2006, 4:36 pm:
No one ever, and I mean EVER, causes depression in another person. That statement smacks of something a guy would say to control you and make you feel guilty, when in fact, it is him who has messed up.

I can't see your question from yesterday, perhaps you've deleted it, so I don't want to weigh in on who is over reacting. However, you have been asking a quite a few questions lately about your boyfriend's inapropraite way of viewing and ineracting with women, maybe it is time for you to start asking "Is he really worth it?"

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