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im sixteen and had a house party for my birthday, i mentioned it a month before to my mums friends daughter who ive drifted from recently but she said she didnt know whether she wanted to come. shes shy and didnt really know anyone who was going. Four months before her grandfather passed away and she was looking after her nan with her family. i did not consider this on the day and i decided that i would invite her 20 minutes before the party so she may not be able to get here, i have only recently remembered this is what i thought and i feel dreadful. i ended up ringing her half an hour after it started, as i forgot and her mum was upset with me.
when i said sorry, it was because i didnt think i meant to do it nut now i think i did, 5 months on i think i did mean too and i feel so worthless, please help i dont know how, or even of i deserve to get past this. (link)
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Honestly,. Don't dread over it too much.. it was just a house party for a birthday.. There will be one next year as well.. And if she still can't get over it after 5 months. then that is really silly. oh well.. I would just move on from the fact and forget about it. You were enjoying your party. As it was your birthday. So it's not really your fault that you were enjoying that with your friends.
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So there this guy I liked and he asked me out, of coarse I say yes.The problem is that my friend has had a crush on him since like forever she won't let me near him.My boyfriend never really liked her more than a friend.Like whenever me and my boyfriend are walking together at school she'll come out of nowhere and squeeze in between me and him.She also stares at me and my boyfriend when where sitting and holding hands.I am getting sick of her always doing that.How do I tell her to stop. (link)
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Honsetly talk to her. Because that is really rude. Tell her what she is doing is wrong and is ruining your friendship. She has to suck it up and accept the fact that this is how it is. She is obviously very very jealous and has to get over that. Because he is with you. She should at least be happy for you that your happy.
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That is really such a big questiong because there is not just one type of girl that guys are attracted to. Each person is very different from the other and their interests and what they find attractive is completely different as well.
So if you like a guy try getting to know him. to feel out what his type is.
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So ive been dating ths guy for two fridays now and i just dont know what i like about him , i just like everything. Is that posible for u to not dislike anything about ur bf?
Im 13 and hes 14
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First off it is still very very early in your relationship. Even if you find something you don't like you can learn to work around it. Two weeks is not enough time to know someones every detail or flaw or anything llike that. give it some more time. Not saying you will find something you don't like about him. Cuz you can be ina great relationship that nothing ever goes wrong.
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ok, me and this guy have been talking for about a month and we have kissed a couple of times. He sometimes calls me and we talk a lot on facebook. One day i told him that i liked him but he said he is not ready to be in a relationship because of the things that he sees happening to people, and he doesnt knw when he will be ready. I want to convince him and re-assure him that i will make him happy and i would never hurt him or anythng like that.
Im 17 and he is 21. (link)
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You can't convince anyone to be happy with you or make them feel that they are ready for a relationship. They have to do it on their own. Feelings aren't pushed they are formed. Give him some time and space. if he starts to have feelings foryou well awesome!! but if not then you will know it wasn't meant to be.
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I have a crush on this boy who's so good-looking. He's eleven, while I'm thirteen. There was this fair at school, and he was walking with his friend. I was staring at him, and he looked at me. I blushed and looked away. But when he was walking away I found myself staring again. Then he hugged a girl, and I felt like my world was falling apart. Now I see him a lot. I always stare at him and most of the time he catches me. I'm wondering if he's noticing my crush on him. Should I keep on doing those things or give it up? (link)
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If you have been watching him for a while and he notices that you watch him alot. he might have a hint that you do like him. so i would get to know him better. Start off with a friends basis. Then if he sends you hints that he likes you too maybe take it to the next step but definetly try to get to know him first.
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There is this guy I like and I thought he seemed interested in me to but as I'm now realizing he talks to many other girls too. He calls and texts me a lot but I'm not the only one. Maybe I'm over reacting but I don't like that. I don't want to waste my time if he's just going after everyone. What would you do? (link)
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First instinct. Major player. I mean yes he might be interested in you. But He's also interested in alot of other girls. I agree with previous advicer he definetly does not seem to be boyfriend material.
if he wanted to be with you. He would be with you.
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So their is this guy....I like him...A LOT!! Every time I see him in the hall at school, I get all nervous..but at the same time..freakishly exited. He is an amazing guy, but most people don't think so. He treats me like a gf but we are just really good friends. Before you ask, yes, we have kissed before...we were hugging and he just lened in and kissed me, it kinda turned into a makeout thing though... well, I'm getting caried away a little, haha. So..back to him...he is an amazing guy, but most people don't think so because he smokes and does a lot of bad stuff..but when I'm around him, I kinda forget that and look past it. He says that he wants to date, but he needs to get to know me more. The thing is, him and my best friend are literally like about to kill eachother because they hate eachother soo much. She used to date him, but she kept dumping him because she thought he was cheating on her, but he wasent. he is super nice to me too. So yea, my friend hates him,and he hates her. Anyone kno wut I'm sopposto do??? I want to get them to not hate eachother AS MUCH. But the thing im afraid of is her hating me if i do end up dating him. So what do you guys soppose i do abou this?? Thanks! (link)
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First off they are ex's so it's only natural that they would hate eachother. Plain and simple.
But she also might be a bit jealous because of how she see's him treating you and she wishes that was how it was with them back then.
at the end if your happy with him then go for it. She has to understand that her and his past is just that. a past. He has obviously moved on. And she is your best friend. so she should rightfully put her feelings aside and be happy/excited for you.
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I'm kind of shy and quiet, especially about my love life. I don't know how to tell a complete stranger about the abuse that happened to me. I have told a few people, and still feel guilty and dirty about it. I don't know how to make sure that the person I am spilling my personal thoughts and feelings to is going to make things better or accidentally make it worse. Anybody got any thoughts or ideas? (link)
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Each and every theropist has it's own ways of going about helping. Ive been thru quite a few different people. I found the ones i went to when i was younger didn't do a single thing to help me. But i tried a new one my mom was going to and she actually helped me thru my problems. It all depends on the person.. Please remeber it will take a while. When i started with the new girl i didn't talk for the first few sessions. Then one day i just started opening up.
Just gotta find the right person for yourself. Even if it takes a few theropists to find the right one for yourself.
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Ok so im on the pill, norm 28 day. I missed 1 took 2 the next day for the missed one. Did the same thing again ( missed one and took two). Now im on track and have been but ive been spotting and having cramps (pretty bad) for maybe 4 or 5 days now and im not sure whats going on....Pease Help. (link)
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This is completely normal. You could have had a hormone imbalance,. so i would say just keep taking them EVERY day and it should go away. if it doesn't go away within a week and a half i would suggest going to a doctors.
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Is their something wrong with me because i have small boobs? What does that mean? (link)
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your boobs are proportioned to the size of your body. There is nothing wrong with having small boobs.
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I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and a half. We were fighting a lot over the summer, so we took a short break (it only lasted a week) during this time, I found out that he started to have feelings for one of the girls he worked with. The day before we got back together they kissed. Even though we were on a break, we were still technically together just without the label of being in a relationship. It obviously hurt me when he told me about the kiss and it made me almost not even want to go back with him. He apologized and said it would never happen again, but that happened in august and it's now november and it's still haunting me. I don't know what I should do about it. My friends tell me to get rid of him, but my heart tells me not to let go. Anyone have any advice? Thank you (link)
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First off because it's a girl he works with he is going to see her ever day.
For the fact that he was able to develop feelings for her in that amount of time that you two weren't together. then There might still be something there. You want to be with a guy who is fully devoted to you and not have the worry that when he is with you or when you two are kissing worry about him thinking about her or something. Maybe ask him about it. Say i know this was august. But i just don't understand how you could develop feelings for her unless your moving past your feelings for me and they aren't as strong as they used to me.
You need to know that you are his one main priorty in the relationship area. and that he's still not thinking about her. or even worse.
Hope This helps :)
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Hello,
I was just wondering what age did you have sex and why?
Also if you're a virgin would you wait until marriage if so why? (link)
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Yes i have,. I did it when i was about 17ish? and i did it because i was with my boyfriend a year and we were both ready for it. I don't regret doing it at the time in which we did do it.
you have to be ready for it. and you will know when you are ready. don't rush into anything unless your ready.
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Basically, with me yes iv been seeing this guy for erm like nearly 4 months but i like him SOOO much like beyond, hes the reason i smile everyday he treats me like a princess . when we had our first kiss its like no one understands how i felt that moment, i love how he respects me , hes like my bestfriend and lover and well i cant explain whats going on inside we aint exactly boyfriend and girlfriend, he said he wanted to ask me like in the perfect moment :$ *smiles* im 17 aswell and well iv never fallen for a guy so quick he likes me ALOOOT aswell , he proves it to me . Took me quite a while to have our first kiss cause i wanted it to be special and well it was ... but the thing is i dunna how u can tell when ur falling in love . cause this feeling is acc so beautiful :D PLEASE HELP !! thanksss xoxoxox (link)
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If he loves you he would want to be with you. plain and simple. If you love him. which you just described. If you ask yourself why you love or like this person and come up with alot of reasons then yes i believe you do like him.
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ok ive been dating my boyfriend forabout a month now. and i get sooo nervous around him and i dont kbow what to say. how do i stop being soo nervous. and hes never nervous so he tried to make me feel comfprtable around him. and im 14 btw and f (link)
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Just so you know that is a perfect reaction for a new relationship. Just keep hainging out with him and getting to know him and soon the quiet not sure what to say faze will go away.
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Ahh I need advice xD. So, I'm in a little dilemma with my boyfriend. We have a lot of trust in our relationship but last night I feel as though it was diminished quite a bit, off of just a misunderstanding. ( a pointless one at that,truly, I'm losing my mind over here!)
(This is going to take a lot to explain, but please read, I just need some feedback and you guys are awesome)
Anywho, my boyfriend and I were hanging out and I went to check my facebook- when our friend Steve messaged me. Steve often messages me these pointless stoner-like things, and me, being a friendly person, will usually just be random have a stupid conversation. This has been happening for months, but I've never been flirty in ANY way nor have I talked to Steve outside of the "facebook messaging realm".
Now in my boyfriends eyes, Steve has a history of "trying to steal his girlfriends". He's told me in the past Steve either took his girl or got them to be uninterested in him every time. Of course I knew this, but was I really in the wrong for just conversing with Steve? Steve is still a friend of mine, but I'd never see him in that way, and I'm not that ditsy of a chick to fall for any of whatever this kid would even try to pull.
And so,
Once my boyfriend saw that I've been talking (if you could even call it THAT) to Steve, he completely blew it out of proportion. He acted as though I was cheating on him, or two-timing him in some way. He dished out that I never told him Steve was messaging me, and said I lied to him, and overall made me feel really bad. And urged me not to talk to him anymore.
Honestly, I don't give a fuck if I talk to Steve, but the whole point is now I'm stuck with a huge slash of guilt and distrust from this miniscule little incident. And I'm loosing my mind as to HOW to make it better, and if I'm even in the fault! Or what to even say to him about it now!
I told him I was sorry, and that I wouldn't message Steve back anymore, but really, I feel like I'm sounding like that typical crazy girlfriend with this. Granted,I can totally see where he was coming from- if he was talking to one of my friends for months I'd be pissed off as well. Also the history of Steve adds a toll. I just have never been in this situation :/.. any form of advice as to what to do next or what I can say would really help! Thanks so much! (link)
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For starters don't be too hard on John because i wouldn't blame him for being worried that yet another girl is gonna get screwed over because of steve. step one is stop talking to steve even if your not that much. because obviously this steve guy is sketchy and only wants to hurt John. Then try to make your boyfriend john realize that he is the only one that you want. no matter what steve tries to do it's you and him against the world.
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Okay, this may be weird, but everytime I go to pee I notice that there is a brown stain in my underwear. Its a real dark brown, but every single time I wipe, its clear. Nothin out of color comes out when I wipe. I'm very confused. This has only been happening for the past couple of days. I smelled my panties where the brown was at, and it doesn't smell like anything.
It just confuses me because if it was discharge, wouldn't it be coming when I wipe too? (link)
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Discharge can become the dark color. That is perfectly normal.
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i met this guy in maryland but he lives in ohio and i live in michigan. at first i blew him off but then i apologized and started talking to him via text messages and he is sooo sweet and he recently started calling me on the phone. He calls me babe and everything. Thing is he is a junior in highschool and im a freshman in college. I know there is plenty of guys in college but i recently have fallen for this guy. He plans to move to maryland when he graduates highschool and im going to move there after college. So what should I do? (link)
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I'll quote one of my favourite movies. You can't find love on an idea. Which being with him is a great idea. But at the same time i know what you are going through. I loved this one guy from a city 6 hours away. I would do anything to be with him i was head over heels in love with him for a very long time., But eventually you have to move on. Not only because you deserve to live your life but he has his own life. since you have never met how do you know he's not doing 7 girls a week,,. or that he doesn't have a girlfriend. You can't form a relationship with some one you have never seen face to face.
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i was talking to *him and i asked him who he like and he said 2 girls..my friend and someother girl..i wanted 2 cry..then i asked him " what would he say if i asked him out''..he said he dnt know..it depends on how he feel when i ask him..i was like ..ok, then i tld him to ask me out and he said "naw".i wAS LIKE OK..then i was like ttyl.. (link)
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Yicks. The fact that he likes your friend it will hurt that much more. But if he doensn't like you then it wasn't meant to be. He doesn't know what he's missing. Your an amazing person. Just give your self some time. and you will find some one alot better.
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im 14 and ive been in therapy for a couple of years. It was because of my family, but now its great! sure we have problems sometimes but it is alot better. But i had focused on my family situation so much, because my parents went through a bad divorce, that i forgot about my friends. and i was very popular. now i sit with the popular group but i also feel like i dont fit in that group because i dont hangout with them or anything. and if i had more energy i would be able to connect with them more. but i also limited myself to what i wanted to say to anyone, so i had to think about what i wanted. and i was like the center of attention because i didnt watch what i said. which got me into trouble, and i liked that. so now im wondering do just say everything thats on my mind thta i used to? i think yes thats part of it. the other part is most time i just feel tired or anti social. the caffeine in mtn dew that i would drink would get me back to being my old self, like crazy and fun, whatever. but i dont really want to do that all the time....plus my mom doesnt but soda. and when i try to talk to people im just like asking them shit and it feels awkward, or i feel like i cant stand up for myself, and i was THE toughest like ever, and like very intimidting to everyone. so what are some things i can do to motiovate me or give me more energy? because i know with more confidence or energy i can do anything. get my math grade up and help me get back into socializing.thank you (link)
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you might be low on iron. Iron helps give you energy. I would talk to your doctor about maybe doing some blood tests to see.
I just got diagnoesed with low iron as well.
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