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What kind of girls do guys REALLY like?
15,female
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24, male
Well if you're 15 I can tell you the guys your age have no clue what they really want. At your age most BOYS really like the pretty, attractive, popular girl. Thats just how it goes in high school. Social status is a big deal to pretty much everyone your age. All the guys your age want to be popular and dating one of the popular, good looking girls is gonna make them more popular or keep them as one of the popular kids. Its gonna take 4 or 5 years for most of these guys to mature and realize its not all about the looks and social status. Im not saying all of the guys your age are like this but the majority of them are. The biggest thing on their mind is sex. Most of them havent had it yet and its a huge deal to all of their friends when one of them does it.
You should be asking yourself what kind of guys do i want to attract? If you're looking for a boyfriend, someone to go on dates with and cuddle with and all of that good stuff without having to worry about him pressuring you to have sex, dont go for the popular guy whose dated all the hot, snobby girls. Odds are hes going to be concern with keeping his social status up. Look for a guy you're attracted to outside of the popular click. He's not worried so much about impressing anyone. I know he might not be the hottest guy in school, but hes probably a better person. And once you get out of high school you'll realize looks are far less important than personality.
And another thing about looks that I can attest to is, you're gonna be really surprised in 5 years when you see all of your friends from high school out. That chubby nerd from 1st period you never found attractive is gonna look alot better than he did in high school. Same goes for girls. I know plenty of girls that look ten time better now than they did in high school, and those are the good one. So if you're like most girls in high school and you think you're ugly or fat or whatever, you're not. In 5 or 6 years you're going to look back at relationships in high school and laugh. I know that seems like a long time from but trust me, 5 years from now guys are going to be looking for something completely different. (most of them)
I dont know if this helped at all but I hope it did.
This is the best advice I can give you: find out what is really important to you and stick by it. Be a good person, don't take anything in high school too seriously, These years of your life are going to shape you into the person you're going to after high school. People will know you for who you were not for who you are. And as lame as it sounds, focus on school and hobbies. Some of those popular girls I knew in high school are now, not everything they were made out to be back then.
I was in your shoes 9 years ago, and i followed the same advice I gave you, and I cant tell you how good it felt shutting down one of the hot, popular girls that shut me down in highschool 5 years later. You'll be alright. Just dont be fake.
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That is really such a big questiong because there is not just one type of girl that guys are attracted to. Each person is very different from the other and their interests and what they find attractive is completely different as well.
So if you like a guy try getting to know him. to feel out what his type is.
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