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long distance love
i met this guy in maryland but he lives in ohio and i live in michigan. at first i blew him off but then i apologized and started talking to him via text messages and he is sooo sweet and he recently started calling me on the phone. He calls me babe and everything. Thing is he is a junior in highschool and im a freshman in college. I know there is plenty of guys in college but i recently have fallen for this guy. He plans to move to maryland when he graduates highschool and im going to move there after college. So what should I do?
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I'll quote one of my favourite movies. You can't find love on an idea. Which being with him is a great idea. But at the same time i know what you are going through. I loved this one guy from a city 6 hours away. I would do anything to be with him i was head over heels in love with him for a very long time., But eventually you have to move on. Not only because you deserve to live your life but he has his own life. since you have never met how do you know he's not doing 7 girls a week,,. or that he doesn't have a girlfriend. You can't form a relationship with some one you have never seen face to face.
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Move on, Waiting for someone who lives a few states away is a waste of time especially seeing you are in College and he still has another year of high school left. This relationship is unrealistic, Do you know him personally? Have you ever seen him in person?.
Seriously, Long distant relationships generally do not work out. Right now you have the mind set of moving after College, How do you know in a years time you won't meet someone in college? What if he meets a girl in high school or even his state? Do you really want to put your life on hold and wait around for someone who is young and still has another year of High School? Assuming the kid is only 16 or 17 he doesn't know what he wants. People change and things happen in our lives, We cannot predict what is going to happen in a few years. Meet someone who is in your area and get out of fantasy land.
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