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What is wrong with me?


Question Posted Sunday November 20 2011, 3:21 pm

So their is this guy....I like him...A LOT!! Every time I see him in the hall at school, I get all nervous..but at the same time..freakishly exited. He is an amazing guy, but most people don't think so. He treats me like a gf but we are just really good friends. Before you ask, yes, we have kissed before...we were hugging and he just lened in and kissed me, it kinda turned into a makeout thing though... well, I'm getting caried away a little, haha. So..back to him...he is an amazing guy, but most people don't think so because he smokes and does a lot of bad stuff..but when I'm around him, I kinda forget that and look past it. He says that he wants to date, but he needs to get to know me more. The thing is, him and my best friend are literally like about to kill eachother because they hate eachother soo much. She used to date him, but she kept dumping him because she thought he was cheating on her, but he wasent. he is super nice to me too. So yea, my friend hates him,and he hates her. Anyone kno wut I'm sopposto do??? I want to get them to not hate eachother AS MUCH. But the thing im afraid of is her hating me if i do end up dating him. So what do you guys soppose i do abou this?? Thanks!

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VoiceofReason answered Wednesday November 23 2011, 5:54 am:
You can't control the feelings of others. So you're going to just have to deal with it when you get even closer to the guy and your friend hits the roof. That means you have a choice: who is more important to you: your friend or the guy you want to get with? You can have one but not both. Also, if the guy cheats on you you will have no right to complain since you had been warned about his reputedly dubious character. Choose carefully.

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Jasmine23 answered Monday November 21 2011, 1:49 am:
First off they are ex's so it's only natural that they would hate eachother. Plain and simple.
But she also might be a bit jealous because of how she see's him treating you and she wishes that was how it was with them back then.

at the end if your happy with him then go for it. She has to understand that her and his past is just that. a past. He has obviously moved on. And she is your best friend. so she should rightfully put her feelings aside and be happy/excited for you.

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